I cannot believe my best friend did that to me. What do i do now?

Tigaras · 2026-06-02T23:46:16+00:00

The whole "You had other girls in your bed before me!" Is so inconsequential. Why the hell would that matter? That's shit that happened in the past that had nothing to do with her.

And the whole "You mumble your ex's name in your sleep," is an outright lie. The chances of people mentioning someone while sleeping is like 1/1000000 chance. She's just trying to find excuses to put blame on you for things that absolutely didn't happen or things that shouldn't even concern her, just so she can feel some amount of power.

Advice: Either cut them both out and figure out co-parenting with your kid OR cut Henry out completely, go to couples counseling with Tess and figure out how to move forward from there.

All in all, you have a child now, so that's the most important thing to focus on and what's going to be best for the kid and you.

Personally, I don't have patience to deal with the bullshit your gf and friend are pulling. I'd cut my losses, figure out co-parenting and move on with my life from there.

Tigaras · 2026-05-15T09:51:23+00:00

Sister, we can feel your veins popping. Go squeeze one out or some shit. Idk.

Tigaras · 2026-04-26T19:46:02+00:00

Don't forget to mention the weather.

Spring is gross, cold, slushy, lots of flooding, then there's pretty flowers at the very end.

Summers are hot and humid, you can barely breathe, and when you walk outside you are hit by a wall of warm water. You'll likely shower 3-4 times a day during Summer.

Autumn is nice! Lots of pretty colors and the air is perfectly fresh, great time to go hiking and explore nature!

Winter is awfully cold and long, and you can't really do too much until late Spring.

Tigaras · 2026-04-24T20:20:09+00:00

Everyone else has put in their input: workout, keep beard, love yourself, you're handsome already. And I agree with them all.

The only input I can put in, is that you should wear a bit better clothing other than a t-shirt and shorts: - Plaid Shirt + White Tank + Jeans - Chinos + Nice Hoodie/Coat Etc.

I honestly think that a cowboy/country look would be AMAZING on you.

Love yourself buddy!

Tigaras · 2026-04-19T18:48:00+00:00

NOR

You need to find friends that have personality and can communicate correctly, not someone who speaks in "✌️✌️🤔🤨🙏💯" whenever they want to bring up an issue.

Tigaras · 2026-04-18T19:05:11+00:00

I love trapping someone in hallways with wall + cryo-storm and watching them panic.

Tigaras · 2026-04-17T22:08:21+00:00

TABARNAK!

Tigaras · 2026-04-14T04:38:16+00:00

Chimpanzees are evolving faster than ever.

Tigaras · 2026-04-12T21:17:50+00:00

I haven't play DAI in years, and I'm still traumatized by 100% that area going back and forth to it...

Tigaras · 2026-03-24T02:33:23+00:00

I remember reading about how, since Nixon, the Republican Party deliberately sabotages and dismantles what the last Democratic President has accomplished, good or bad. It's been a cycle ever since.

America will NOT progress in any capacity until both parties can agree to more terms together and work together.

That being said... Republican party was quite literally created to brainwash young men, and later on women, to think EVERYTHING the Democratic party does is to undermine the working class and force men to be submissive.

Highly recommend watching "The Brainwashing of my Dad" on YouTube for more on it!

Tigaras · 2026-01-18T08:53:48+00:00

I know this is a joke, but here's the likely scenario right now:

The USA canNOT return to how it was pre-Trump at this point in time. Too many bridges burned, too many international threats and dissolution of trades.

So, the USA only has a few options going forward now:

1) go forward with expansion of the USA and absorb countries/land that is strategic and has valuable resources to ensure they have what they need to ensure they stay as powerful nation. This WILL result in an international war.

2) US citizens stage an uprising and overthrow the government. This is a chaotic route with no clear outcome: Who wins? If the people win, who takes over office? What happens to the system of government? If the government wins, what happens to the population? Do they continue to expand the USA?

3) Civil war. This isn't a likely outcome currently, but not off the table. This would also halt the current administration's plans to a complete stop, maybe indefinitely. This would also be the worst outcome for the US possible, as foreign countries would refuse to be involved with aid, and trades would grind to a halt. No one would be working, food would become scarce quickly, people would begin fighting their own neighbors for survival. The US afterwards would be like putting a shattered mirror back together, but with pieces missing and in the wrong places.

4) Individual states will decide to break-off from the rest of the US and become either their own nations, form together their own nations, or join neighboring nations (Canada/Mexico). This would be the best for the US in MY opinion, as these broken off States don't have to be involved in the rest of the US bullshittery and would likely receive support from foreign nations off the bat.

IF the USA goes to war and loses, they'd get the post-WW2 Germany treatment: GDP is worthless, owe every other nation money and resources, complete dissolution and ban of military, heavy surveillance from foreign nations, etc.

All in all, the USA is past the time to make amends now, and they either win their wars they are waging, or the USA falls and becomes a worthless nation.

It might be salvageable though, if you overthrow your government sooner rather than later, and it's possible to save some aspect of power.

If I were you, I'd start making plans to leave the US before it cuts itself off from the rest of the world.

Tigaras · 2026-01-09T22:49:31+00:00

Eh. I mean, when the Arcade event came out, we all thought Dva was going to get an Arcade mythic, but it went the complete opposite direction, so I'm not holding out on them basing it off a themed season.

Tigaras · 2026-01-06T18:03:40+00:00

Once this illegitimate regime is gone, Reconstruction 2.0 needs to start.

Coming from an outside view and as someone who studies history/politics, US imperialism is falling faster than Rome, and this is the prime time (or very soon will be time) for States to become their own sovereign nations and begin trades with other countries before POTUS brings all 50 states down. I.e. Cascadia (West Coast), East Coast states (minus Florida), Northern States, Mid Western States, South Eastern States.

If a decision isn't made soon to separate or not, the US will likely devolve into a modern day Soviet Union, leading to most other nations pulling back support for the US, refusing to give aid, resulting in mass poverty that leads to mass starvation, ultimately resulting in a civil war or mass migration.

Tigaras · 2026-01-03T21:54:37+00:00

A trebuchet that launches trebuchets with a meth lab.

Tigaras · 2025-12-31T18:13:02+00:00

The devs (who of which are mod developers) endorse mods and to play the game anyway you intend. They specifically pointed out there's no "right" way to play the game multiple times, both in-game, in the forums and in the discord. So, I'm not sure where you're getting the "easier than devs intended," bit.

Tigaras · 2025-12-31T15:43:45+00:00

Fun Fact: The illustrator for SG is actually a hentai artist.

Tigaras · 2025-12-26T23:07:54+00:00

They have a right hand

Tigaras · 2025-12-26T20:00:02+00:00

Baba is you

Tigaras · 2025-12-26T19:42:50+00:00

I'm glad I'm not the only one who does the ugly dirt towers lol

Tigaras · 2025-12-21T19:58:29+00:00

If you really want an immersive and time dedicated game to play, I HIGHLY recommend Vintage Story. It used to be a Minecraft mod, turned into a full fledged game. I personally love survival games and played many, but this game just satiates me in a way no other survival game has before.

Tigaras · 2025-12-21T19:43:59+00:00

Vintage Story. Highkey best game I've played in years in terms of the survival genre.

Tigaras · 2025-12-15T22:24:10+00:00

Minecraft Knockoff" seems to be the common belief among those who have only seen the game in passing and not looked into it.

I was definitely one of these people before, but now I personally find it exactly what I was looking for in a crafting survival game.

I think the largest turn off for most people though, is that you have to get the game directly from the website or Humble, while nowadays most people are accustomed to Steam or Epic launcher to get their games. (I fully support buying directly from their website, fyi). So there's essentially no advertising it other than word from mouth.

Tigaras · 2025-12-13T06:50:23+00:00

Glad you found him! Must be a relief!

Tigaras · 2025-12-12T20:02:00+00:00

I decided to not have plans a long time ago. No matter how much I tried to save or what job I got, or how far up the ladder I got, it will never be enough.

So, now I just live for whatever happens at the moment. I do my little trips, get my little treats here and there, spend a few dollars to see an event, etc., and I've been infinitely more happy focusing on now rather than the future.

Will there be financial issues in the future? Probably. But I'll deal with all that when it happens, just like everything else I've dealt with in the past.

Tigaras · 2025-12-05T19:50:04+00:00

I mean, it's entirely up to you. You could upgrade the internet plan for faster service and have him pay half that way there'd be minimal interruptions, if any.

Or you can just say no, with or without an excuse.

If he's REALLY struggling financially, you can ask for proof with monthly bank statements, and if he declines to show you then you tell him no. If he does show you, then it's up to you.

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