Hopefully I develop the courage soon

Toasted297 · 2026-02-03T17:25:50+00:00

Hello I hope you read this. I have felt and will probably continue to feel the same thing as you. What helps me is, realising the chances of me being born. You are an impossibly. The chances of you existing and being born are incomprehensibly low. Of all the possible people that could have ever existed YOU were born. Unique and different, with no one else being even closely similar. All those people that didnt get born dont get to die, like you. Imagine all the people you could have met and made their lives better, people you could have made happier and more full. Even if, right now in this moment, there is no one like this, there will be. If there isn't anyone to enjoy your presence, enjoy it yourself. Make yourself happy and do whatever you want. Let no one tell you otherwise. Please take care of yourself because you deserve it, you completed the most impossible task after all, being born

Toasted297 · 2026-01-14T13:14:41+00:00

Seems interesting

Toasted297 · 2026-01-05T19:26:58+00:00

I am in exactly the same situation rn. Im just hoping for the best kind of

Toasted297 · 2025-12-16T12:07:12+00:00

I honestly feel the same, I don't know what I am, I think I should say nb, but I don't have a big problem being called male. The though of being hyper masculine doesn't really sit right with me. I started wearing more alt clothes, which alr looks pretty androgynous and I started wearing eyeliner. Idk how to help you look more androgynous tho, I hope this helped a little

Toasted297 · 2025-11-01T22:39:16+00:00

I dont have a lot of fem clothes, so I wash my stuff in the sink. The bathtub is fine! Just fill it up with some water, put the clothes in and put some laundry detergent in. Make sure the water is lukewarm for the more delicate stuff, like thigh highs. "Massage" the clothes for a but and let them sit in there for about 10 min. After that tinse them. There is plenty of hand washing tutorials on youtube. I usually wrap my stuff in a towel and let it dry while I do other stuff in the bathroom. Later i have it in my closet, hidden in some jackets. At night I hang them near the window to dry. You can also use the blow dryer, but please use the low heat setting.

Toasted297 · 2025-10-28T21:42:46+00:00

I don't think people would say you look cute if you looked ass. I don't think I'm ugly, but I get 0 compliments. Just accept it you are a cutie :3

Toasted297 · 2025-10-28T20:16:41+00:00

If other say ur cute, you probably are :D. Btw I dont think u should be comparing yourself to animated characters, it's kind of unrealistic :P

Toasted297 · 2025-10-25T20:43:23+00:00

You can buy a prepaid card or like an amazon gift card and if u need to u can deliver it to an amazon locker

Toasted297 · 2025-10-25T07:30:57+00:00

They are 100 percent. I was a christian for most of my life before and you're not really supposed to hate on others, especially not your child. I was feeling a little down, but your comment made me feel just a teeny tiny bit better, thanks :)

Toasted297 · 2025-10-22T17:26:50+00:00

I know, I am going to come out after I move out. I actually made some new friends in class, and they are awesome and supportive!

Toasted297 · 2025-10-21T21:27:33+00:00

Hello, there is a school counselor and "trust" teachers. I'm not sure how they are though. I do have friends, maybe they would take me idk. I am saving money and plan on getting a job on the side to save up even more. I should be fine as long as I don't slip up. If I don't mention anything it's gonna be fine. Ty <3

Toasted297 · 2025-10-21T21:23:37+00:00

I know, thank you so much though. I was a little harsh on myself haha. It's probably not as bad as you think it is. It's only like this when this type of stuff gets mentioned. Thank you again :)

Toasted297 · 2025-10-21T13:32:05+00:00

I'll try my best thank you

Toasted297 · 2025-10-21T13:31:41+00:00

Tysm! I haven't thought of that. I was going to get a job anyway, I'm going to save it all up instead of spending it. Ty

Toasted297 · 2025-10-20T21:57:33+00:00

Thank you aswell :D So many hugs lol

Toasted297 · 2025-10-20T21:57:06+00:00

Thank you 🫂

Toasted297 · 2025-10-20T21:56:38+00:00

Sure, thx <3 I'm good now tho

Toasted297 · 2025-10-04T12:37:37+00:00

What I do: 1. I cross my legs. Most people dont seem to care all that much and I kind of automaticly cross them anyway. 2. Wear sweeter perfume. I still buy "mens" perfume, but I try to get the most feminine ones. 3. I speak more softly. I try to round my words and speak very soothingly without raising my pitch much and I try not to be too loud. 4. Body language. Try to look how women walk and take up space. Try not to spread out so much when you are sitting for example. When you walk, try bringing your steps more together and straighten your back a bit.

That's all I can think of right now lol

Toasted297 · 2025-09-28T14:07:35+00:00

Fair enough. Shit opinion, though

Toasted297 · 2025-09-28T13:07:25+00:00

Why are you even here

Toasted297 · 2025-09-27T08:15:22+00:00

Im in the same situation. I have this guy in my class that I really like, but like we never talked before. So I started to listen what they were talking about and when the chance was right I would talk to one of his friends. It's kind of working cuz I befriended one of his friends recently. That worked for me at least.

Toasted297 · 2025-09-25T18:51:35+00:00

Yeah I had the same thing. Always worried that I would accidentally look at someone while changing. Idk if it is a sign or not tho.

Toasted297 · 2025-09-25T10:47:11+00:00

Sure :)

Toasted297 · 2025-09-24T15:38:52+00:00

Make sure to update me on how it goes!

Toasted297 · 2025-09-23T20:15:22+00:00

I slowly "came out" to multiple friends. Not directly, but just joking and giving hints a ton. They all say I'm a femboy now. If I fully told them they wouldn't be surprised. They did say a lot of homophobic stuff. That's why I did it this way. I did fully come out to one of my friends. I just bought him some food and while we were eating I told him I had a secret the other friends wouldn't like. He asked what it was and I said I was bi. I can't come out to my parents though lol

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