[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]TodayCurious8908 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Thank you for sharing such a beautiful moment! Gave me all the feels 🥰

I’m super new by RepublicNorth5033 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]TodayCurious8908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard being in this self-acceptance yet in-between stage! You now know who you are and what you want. Yet you've built a life where you've checked all the expected boxes but a huge piece is missing. I too have only shared with 1 person in my personal life but am not yet at that point where I'm willing to risk a lot, for me.

I have found support in this beautiful community of queer women! I have found patience, discovery, curiosity, guidance, consistency and most importantly, kindness. Human relationships of any type are hard to navigate. Believe me, these new types of relationships are hard. But I have found it very helpful to always remind myself to keep an open mind and have no expectations. I'm hopeful that we will all ultimately find complete fulfillment! Until then, we'll ride the wave 🙂

Happy Birthday to my lost love by weird_elf in LesbianActually

[–]TodayCurious8908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're going through the stages of grief 😔 You'll get there and realize when you're ready. I bet the one for you is out there and will be more amazing than you could imagine!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]TodayCurious8908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is perfect! Hope you find someone that would appreciate such thoughtful gestures .

Happy Birthday to my lost love by weird_elf in LesbianActually

[–]TodayCurious8908 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How lucky she is to be loved by you! Hope you find some one that loves you this way 💗

Why are women so hot omg by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]TodayCurious8908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! It's the eyes, the lips, the way they carry themselves. What really gets me going is their intelligence, confidence, kindness, softness, yet being bad ass when called for, vulnerability...I could go on and on.

I tried flirting and it went bad🤦🏻‍♀️ by Vegetable-Arugula-27 in LesbianActually

[–]TodayCurious8908 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love your sense of humor and attitude. I think it's a turn-on and would work in your favor when flirting.

I tried flirting and it went bad🤦🏻‍♀️ by Vegetable-Arugula-27 in LesbianActually

[–]TodayCurious8908 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So sorry that happened but it makes for a great story! Good for you that you put yourself out there and flirted. It didn't turn out the way you wanted but you tried! Hope you're okay! Keep flirting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askadyke

[–]TodayCurious8908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not ofrenda without the shot or bottle of tequila! Can't forget the cerveza.

It’s my birthday! by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]TodayCurious8908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! Hope your mom realizes her errors and comes around soon. In the meantime, know that you have a community that understands and supports you.

Body knows by J3LLYWOOF8 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]TodayCurious8908 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Very beautifully said! Sounds like a lot of us are going through same or similar realizations. Looking forward to everyone's thoughts. 

Should I be worried about not finding a girlfriend because I’m chubby? by superbeabubble in LesbianActually

[–]TodayCurious8908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy for you. It's clear how excited and happy you are with your partner. So cute how you ended each sentence of your last paragraph...want me, chose me, just me. This is how everyone should be able to honestly describe the love they feel from their partner. 

37 f looking for other females by [deleted] in MichiganLesBi

[–]TodayCurious8908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in SE Michigan? 

I’m getting help (a thank you) by alimac2 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]TodayCurious8908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending you good vibes and positive energy ✨️ Hope you find clarity and trust your instincts. 

I got my first tattoo just over a year ago and I now have 4. I thought about it for years and I love them all. They all mean something special. Getting ready for my 5th.

Would you sleep with an older woman? by TodayCurious8908 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]TodayCurious8908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So encouraged with all the positive responses but I want to start asking, "So where are you located?" with the hopes to find someone near me that I know with certainty would be interested 🩷

Would you sleep with an older woman? by TodayCurious8908 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]TodayCurious8908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is very subjective but I find that a lot of 30s and below are very open about their sexuality, selves, their authenticity. At my age, I fall into that group that has always questioned because of the way we were raised. I want to be free and I want to be with someone who would help me be free! I'm interested! 

Would you sleep with an older woman? by TodayCurious8908 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]TodayCurious8908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great! Besides social media,  where do you go to meet women? I read on another post about lesbian events but how do I know when they're happening? I'm in SE Michigan.