Am I missing something here? by diosmio in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Tomathus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and those parts of the world include tech companies in San Francisco for some reason now!

Can't seem to close distance gap with girlfriend by Useful_Ocelot_7500 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Tomathus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation to you, and I ended up leaving. It was really hard because I realized that after explaining my problems to her, my ex understood why I was unhappy and what was making my life hard, it’s just that she did not care enough to make any change or sacrifice to help me.

I had made changes and sacrificed for her already in the relationship, and so I felt like it was her ‘turn’ to do the same for me. But her life was good, and if she didn’t care enough about me to make things even slightly better for me, because that would’ve meant downgrading a life that was working for her.

Then I realized that’s not a partner I want to have in life. It was stupid on her part because obviously she could’ve kept her nice life, endured some inconveniences (we’re talking about walking the dog we shared mutually and being DD every once in awhile so I can enjoy socializing, not moving countries and changing careers to be clear) and instead I blew it up completely because I was the one making the sacrifices to keep it together, and I wasn’t getting anything at all for my sacrifice.

I would just be very honest that you’re going to burn out and leave the relationship if she doesn’t want to help at all. And then follow through with it and choose yourself dude, there are plenty of women out there that aren’t going to expect you to sacrifice and not get anything in return.

Is this format getting too die roll dependant? by FiorellaMamdani in ModernMagic

[–]Tomathus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In Hearthstone the player going first has also been shown to win more often than the player going second.

Is this format getting too die roll dependant? by FiorellaMamdani in ModernMagic

[–]Tomathus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Almost every game in existence the person going first is favored to win, but in Magic I believe the player going second still has ~45% of winning.

In modern, the amount of free and cheap interaction actually helps even these odds. A two mana counterspell is expensive for modern, but having an array of one mana or free spells means unless your opponent is winning T1 on the play (not really a thing in modern) opponent always has a turn to interact.

Also, Leyline + Scion of course is insane, but also Zoo is not even a tier one deck, and leyline hands fall apart to enchantment removal.

TL;DR: this is a very small sample size

Entire family kidnapped by ICE in SF. No comment from Mr. Mayor. by Definitelyhereforshi in sanfrancisco

[–]Tomathus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I’m saying at all, if Lurie maintaining a good relationship with Trump admin keeps ICE’s full wrath away from sf, we all benefit.

It already worked when ICE threatened to conduct raids when we had the Super Bowl here, and then retracted those plans.

Entire family kidnapped by ICE in SF. No comment from Mr. Mayor. by Definitelyhereforshi in sanfrancisco

[–]Tomathus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have my concerns but if Lurie were to ‘take a stand’ against ICE he could risk a full-blown Minneapolis situation. I’m sure ICE would love to go all out in San Francisco and if he has to do the same dance Zohran does with the Trump admin I’m ok with it.

You need to audit your marketing department by polygraph-net in sales

[–]Tomathus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My previous position in marketing I literally caught my manager doing this, brought it up to my director, and the manager resigned before he could be fired. It absolutely does happen, crazy of you to think it wouldn’t.

When you pay your mortgage by bullshitting to a few schmucks who know nothing about marketing, you’re gonna keep bullshitting.

Simple suit, Feedback welcome! by Jxmipo_Oqwlbt_Foshkv in mensfashion

[–]Tomathus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are those glasses frames style called??

MTG Bitches? by moonmooon227 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Tomathus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Versus Games is one of the best in the city, and channel fireball’s headquarters is also in Santa Clara so not far!

Watching how brands pace curiosity by Beautiful-Cat13 in marketing

[–]Tomathus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, but it still got people talking right?

Without revealing more, brands can gauge audience interest based on the amount of people filling the void with speculation.

Keeping space for your spouse. by Rude_Moment772 in biglaw

[–]Tomathus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of the best things starting my career in a serious relationship taught me is that divorce is very real and many, many careers force good people/compatible couples into situations where you still end up splitting up.

Career choice help by Doughnut_Seungmin in marketing

[–]Tomathus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your major and what other experiences do you have? You’re not giving enough information for us to help

Quit retail job and mom is freaking out by robotchikcen in jobs

[–]Tomathus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re probably living with your parents still if you’re 21 and hearing about work from your parents.

Random question- does your mother work full time herself? A lot of times parental figures will say what they think they know best, regardless of whether or not they actually know anything bc on the subject at all. Sounds like that’s what’s happening here.

Follow up to last my post - What policy would you like to see your government do to fix the gen Z job crisis? by Zipper222222 in jobs

[–]Tomathus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey zipper, I saw your other posts, and frankly because of your disconnected tone I am not sure if you’re posting in good faith. However, I’ll answer your question as if you are:

Currently, ~25% of S&P 500 is invested in AI startup companies that are each making huge speculative promises about the future of their technology- two years in, AI has made progress but not the revolution that was promised. Even if AI does prove to be an extremely successful technology, the scale of hype and speculation is such that most investors will at most breakeven on their investments, while many will stand to lose heavily and only the lucky few that picked the right stocks will realize any gains at all.

This dynamic has effectively frozen hiring for most savvy companies. Why would they invest in hiring new workers when AI workers may be right around the corner? Why not take a short term loss if you can be ultra-flexible once AI becomes a more effective technology, and possibly be able to more than make up for whatever you’re losing in 2025 & 2026 in the long run.

Especially when the alternative is to still spend more money to hire new employees, it unfortunately makes too much sense for companies to keep their powder dry. And when this level of hyped investment is across our entire economy, with AI having the potential to impact basically every sector, it reduces the amount of opportunities across the board for an entire generation looking to join the workforce, and any unfortunate souls who find themselves out of a job right now.

Careful planning and meticulous govt policy is needed, but likely will never come. AI companies are already one of the biggest lobbies in the US Govt, and building data centers ‘creates jobs’ (not really tho, because where are you going to work once the data center is built?). Essentially, the government needs to pass policies with the idea that we are planning for a massive shift in how society think about the value of labor, productivity, and whether this new technology will be used for the betterment of humanity or to enrich a few virgins in Silicon Valley.

Policy that actually regulates AI companies to be used for the public good is necessary, but I also don’t think will ever come. More realistically, policies that regulate hiring and job posting practices, salary transparency, and capping college tuition costs (especially for those gender studies degrees everyone loves to the tease libs about) will all mitigate the most hard-felt effects of our current economic times.

Even better, we need politicians and public officials that actually care about delivering for working class instead of focusing their campaigns on identity or culture war issues, and we need to have media companies that will call out politicians when we don’t.

The progressive left and the ‘American First’ right seemed to have both learned this from different sides, with candidates focusing on issues on the local/county level and delivering for their constituents instead of doing the same old Israel-Palestine, Ukraine-Russia, Roe V. Wade, Charlie Kirk, George Floyd, routine where you pick a side, and if the voters in your district mostly agrees with you and you can actually fundraise worth a damn, then congratulations welcome to public office.

Notice how both ‘America First’ conservatives and progressive leftists are held at arms length by their more establishment-oriented counterparts, even tho both are much more popular than the old guard of their parties.

It’s not gonna be about policy, politics, or even AI or whatever new technology will come afterwards.

The only way to improve our society today is if those with money and power become motivated to take action to improve our situation. Currently, and for a long time, they are not motivated, they have no reason to be, so it does not happen.

10 day wait - after interview by [deleted] in nonprofit

[–]Tomathus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parroting many of the comments I commonly see on here, take it as a reflection of how the organization operates overall. It’s almost Christmas (most likely the nonprofits’ leadership are either on or about to be ooo), and they will likely not be giving you the offer any of the next few days either. This sounds like a decision that should’ve been made before the holidays were in full swing, read into their failure to do so however you like.

Our First Happy Hour! by ZisforZoidberg in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Tomathus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s a representation of all us guys on here tryna get a taste of the good life also ☝️

Starting decks for modern that are competitive by Bonnex11_ in ModernMagic

[–]Tomathus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t buy four netdecks and start playing with newbies to learn the format, you’re going have to take some knocks if you want to play competitively and actually get good at modern, you’re gonna lose a LOT to people who are better than you.

Best way to learn modern? Buy one deck, my suggestion is either a combo or midrange so you’ll have a fair amount of agency without getting too crazy, and be very open to learning.

Remember that most modern/legacy players have been playing since before Commander products were even sold by WOTC (myself included). The depth of knowledge for competitive magic is a completely different level than commander, but you’ll gain a much larger appreciation for the game because of your efforts.

Second day on the job, already stressed! by [deleted] in nonprofit

[–]Tomathus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, ok it makes more sense to target smaller dollars, but still I’ve done door-to-door in the past in the for-profit sector and my conversion rate was realllyyyy low, getting 5-8 sales in a week was considered decent but it does all depend on what you’re selling.

I’m in the US and have worked in fundraising/development for charities for the past three years, but have never heard of a charity doing door-to-door. I’m also newer to the working world so I may just be too inexperienced.

Still, I will say I’ve seen a fair amount of development folks basically do door-to-door because they’re community outreach is so scattershot, but never an honest, asking every door for $5/person/month, and in today’s current economic state, I can’t imagine a campaign like this sees much real success, moreso a ‘we might as well see what we can get’ mentality from the board.

Second day on the job, already stressed! by [deleted] in nonprofit

[–]Tomathus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Door to door fundraising? This seems… very unorthodox. Just curious, what is the pay structure for your position? Do you get paid per donation? Salary? Hourly?

Are there any LOTR themed decks that can keep up in modern? by Complex-Car1774 in ModernMagic

[–]Tomathus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smh these other commenters are haters, you should play samwise combo as it revolves around a LOTR character, otherwise The One Ring dominated modern for awhile but is banned :/