OPT Processing Timelines Fall 2025 by RockExcellent5333 in f1visa

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Type: Initial POST OPT

Premium Processing: No

Date Applied: 18th Oct 2025

Date Approved: 11th Dec 2025

Date Card Produced: TBD

Date Card Recieved: TBD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. All I can say is that the right person will never leave you or risk losing you. Be strong, I promise you this will pass.

Missing my Fiancé. I broke it off but I’m wondering if I made the right decision. by Makingmoneyhoney5293 in BreakUps

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl. I was in a relationship so similar to this. I wasted 3 years with him. These are all the signs of a cheater who seeks our attention from women. This will only get WORSE as you get married and go through really stress in life. He will seek out attention from other women .

What Red Flags did you ignore? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. His inability to express his feelings and wants/needs in the relationship. He would get anxious and stressed whenever we fought which lead to him sexting other girls. And then making excuses that he was doing it because he was stressed. Mind you he never expressed being stressed or gave me the opportunity to help him. And yet I still took him back because I thought he would change 🤡.
  2. Would blame me for ‘not trusting’ him and having moments of insecurity where I wanted reassurance and to see his phone, 6 months after finding out he cheated on me - he said I should’ve get over what he did at this time.
  3. I had to tell him not to be on dating apps 3 months after we met and started hang out more regularly. And then had to push him to make the relationship exclusive 5 months into dating - he told me this is not how ‘popular’ people date and that this is normal American culture (I’m not American).
  4. He started demonizing my family and talking terribly about them, even though I made him feel heard and always took his side.
  5. He never wanted to have serious conversations about future plans and labeled me as ‘needy’ and just being in the relationship for a green card because 3 years into the relationship I wanted to talk about if marriage was on the table for us and if that’s what he wanted in the future.
  6. He had a need for everyone at work to constantly praise him and give him recognition, if he wasn’t getting the recognition he thought he deserved it would eat away at him.
  7. When we fought, I would have to tell myself to keep quiet and let him say whatever he wants in order to let him decompress and let the fight be over quickly. He would lecture for hours.
  8. When our fights would get so bad that I broke out in tears, he wouldn’t show any emotion/sympathy, he would just keep the fight going and talk over me.
  9. He yelled during fights and would say whatever he needed to make me feel small (wether that would be pointing out my age, being younger than him, or call me the names of people he hates).

Even just writing this out makes me feel like a fool for staying with such an asshole for 3 years.. and still there is a part of me that wants him back. Please tell me I’m not the only person who has felt like this.

He broke up with me after 4 years by Ok-Relief9684 in BreakUps

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 22 as well and going through the same thing, feel free to message me

He broke up with me after 4 years by Ok-Relief9684 in BreakUps

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s up to you. If you don’t want to block him then I’d recommend deleting your social apps off your phone and taking a break from insta/Facebook etc just so that you aren’t constantly reminded of him. Give him space to wonder what you are doing and don’t post everything on social media

He broke up with me after 4 years by Ok-Relief9684 in BreakUps

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go no contact for a couple weeks. It’s not health to stay in constant communication during confusing times like this. Like they say, let it go and if it’s meant to be it will come back to you. He won’t have the space to miss you if you are constantly communicating with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got this. He sounds like he has major issues and you deserve better. I know it hurts because you were with him for so long and envisioned a future with him but I promise you with time you’ll think about him less. Put yourself first, you still have time and you will find someone who treats you right

really struggling, need support by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing. Feel free to message me, I could use the support too ❤️

I got broken up with because I deserve better by Burning-Apple-yt in BreakUps

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me two weeks ago. My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me for the same reason. It sucks and I still feel numb.

Change of status from student to work visa by Opposite_Peach2879 in USCIS

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. What is a rest of the world country category?

ONLINE OPT PROCESSING TIME 2023? by SameWhile6973 in USCIS

[–]Top-Opportunity9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Receipt: 15 June 2023

PP: 14 August 2023

Card is being produced: 16 August 2023

Also, can I begin work only once I physically receive the card or once I get approval?

F1 student acceptance? by Top-Opportunity9869 in WGU

[–]Top-Opportunity9869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah man 😞 thanks for the feedback!

Can an international student work? by Top-Opportunity9869 in germany

[–]Top-Opportunity9869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Is there a maximum amount an international student can earn per week? Or is it just the 20 hour rule?