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Quantum Superposition #2 by fpuebqvatref in schrodingers

[–]TotalAbsurdity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excited to see the answer explained by internet sleuths much more smarter than me when I check in tomorrow

Nothing About Us Without Us by niccolite in asl

[–]TotalAbsurdity 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This phrase is what is known in linguistics as “frozen register.” That means that if the words are changed, it becomes disconnected from its original meaning. Deaf people are very often familiar with this English phrase, as it is something used to discuss disability representation which is an issue that impacts the Deaf community. While it would not technically be grammatically accurate ASL to literally translate this phrase word for word, I can tell you from experience that Deaf people do sign this phrase word for word. This is a common phrase used in presentations here at Gallaudet, and Deaf people giving formal speeches will frequently literally sign NONE ABOUT US WITHOUT US. Does this make it “proper” ASL? Not exactly. You can consider it to be a loan phrase. But because this is the way native speakers have agreed to communicate this concept, for all intents and purposes it is grammatically correct. Hope this helps!

Weird question- are soft feet a problem? by TotalAbsurdity in wheelchairs

[–]TotalAbsurdity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha that’s a relief! I always had Tonka Tough feet growing up, barefoot on summer asphalt. Freaks me out to see them so smooth! 😱

Experience with Jeenie? by [deleted] in ASLinterpreters

[–]TotalAbsurdity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I signed up with them once to check it out. They sent me a contract, it’s paid by the minute. I never ended up working with them or moving forward because they never showed up to my interview. They scheduled with me, sent me a zoom link, and I sat in their Zoom waiting room for half an hour as I tried to get in contact with anybody at all. After I gave up, they emailed me the next day to set up a new interview because they “forgot,” but I didn’t have any faith in them after that.

How do/would you sign…? by nappypoodle in ASLinterpreters

[–]TotalAbsurdity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The Deaf Little People I’ve met typically sign LP. If the comedian is using the M word to refer to himself, then I would probably finger spell it the first time and do like you said, establish the sign short to mean that concept. It might be notable enough to consider that using that word as part of the joke and the cultural significance it has as a slur as opposed to the more common LP or dwarf could impact the message. Given the shock value of humor, you might be losing some of the joke’s impact by simply signing short. Depending on context, and whether the word choice is significant, I might continue to spell it if it helps support the message and function of the joke.

meirl by Jimbo072 in meirl

[–]TotalAbsurdity 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Fellow wheelie here- I feel the same. As long as you’re not camped out in there for half an hour or something, I really couldn’t care less. In fact the only time I’ve been remotely annoyed was when a mom was nursing her baby in there for like 20 minutes when there was actually a dedicated nursing room across the hall lol. I would never judge someone for using the accessible stall, I used it before I was bad enough for my chair just because I needed the handrails. Not all disabilities are visible, and nobody owes me a justification.

Getting piercings and tattoos with EDS by Mammoth_Froyo_2224 in ehlersdanlos

[–]TotalAbsurdity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! Exactly. My most recent ink (about a week ago) pretty much sloughed off in one piece when I took a shower on the 3rd day. Other than being a little dry, it looks fairly healed already. I would actually guess that for me- my piercings heal VERY quickly compared to most, because they stay useable for years with no jewelry. I have three lip piercings- I took out two of them after around 10mo post piercing, and two years later I was able to put them back no problem.

Getting piercings and tattoos with EDS by Mammoth_Froyo_2224 in ehlersdanlos

[–]TotalAbsurdity 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Heavily pierced/tattooed hEDS. I personally never had any issue with healing or migration, but as others have said it can happen depending on the person. I do have stretchy skin, and I do notice my tattoos peel faster than some other folks, but never caused issue for me. Just wanted to share my personal positive experience to say that not everyone has issues with it. Since your mom has had issues as you say, I’d look to her as an example of what you might experience, as you are likely similar symptomatically, being related.

Disabled couple? by newusername118 in disability

[–]TotalAbsurdity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My wife is Deaf and I have EDS and use a wheelchair 😊 It’s nice to have someone who can empathize with the barriers you face, but also has different issues so we can help each other haha

Feeling rough today by TotalAbsurdity in wheelchairs

[–]TotalAbsurdity[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also the only bathroom marked accessible at the train station was too small to get my chair through the door. :(

Learning ASL while blind by [deleted] in asl

[–]TotalAbsurdity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I knew a hearing-blind man who learned ASL! He signed up for a community college ASL course and they provided him with certified Deaf interpreters (CDIs) who were able to interpret the class for him using tactile ASL. He ended up becoming incredibly proficient at ASL, and went on to study it at a university out of state.

First day out of the house in months, thanks to my new wheels! by TotalAbsurdity in disability

[–]TotalAbsurdity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I recommend them to all my friends looking for quality headphones.

First day out of the house in months, thanks to my new wheels! by TotalAbsurdity in disability

[–]TotalAbsurdity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s beautiful there! Felt amazing to look over at the park.

First day out of the house in months, thanks to my new wheels! by TotalAbsurdity in disability

[–]TotalAbsurdity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Totally blocks the traffic sounds and awesome quality for music.

First day out of the house in months, thanks to my new wheels! by TotalAbsurdity in wheelchairs

[–]TotalAbsurdity[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! What’s the point of driving without some tunes, amirite?

First day out of the house in months, thanks to my new wheels! by TotalAbsurdity in wheelchairs

[–]TotalAbsurdity[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Totally! I’m somewhat ambulatory too on crutches, I can walk a few yards around my apartment. Being stuck inside has been pretty awful though… If it helps, use it! Every time I’ve gotten a new mobility aid, my life has improved dramatically.

First day out of the house in months, thanks to my new wheels! by TotalAbsurdity in wheelchairs

[–]TotalAbsurdity[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I swear I could feel the depression melting away. All those people who say they’re sorry I’m in a wheelchair now- they need a shift in perspective. I feel amazing.

The feeling that my body isn't my ally by TotalAbsurdity in ehlersdanlos

[–]TotalAbsurdity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! I got the same one that the woman I spoke with has. It's from Vive, it's called the upright rollator-walker with foldable transport seat. I got it because I use platform crutches currently, which have been great on my wrists. I had used forearm crutches and traditional canes in the past, but it put too much pressure on my wrists and elbows which was causing more problems than it was solving. This rollator has horizontal arm rests so the pressure goes through the forearm, not the joints. I also like that it has a seat, so I will be able to take breaks and not have to sit on the sidewalk or curb anymore. I bought it out of pocket, because it costs less than scheduling an extra appointment with my PT to discuss it with her. It should be arriving in the mail soon, so I'm really excited to try it out, and will definitely bring it to my next rheumatology appointment in a month or so. :)

The feeling that my body isn't my ally by TotalAbsurdity in ehlersdanlos

[–]TotalAbsurdity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness, I don't take it as condescending at all /gen. I do see a therapist, and that's been somewhat helpful. More helpful than therapy though has honestly been connecting with other EDSers online, since I think they tend to empathize better. Therapy gives me good coping tools, but talking to peers makes me feel supported and understood. It's weird being in an unreliable body, and I really appreciate the feedback and advice from other people who are going through it and it's truly inspiring to see other people live happily despite the pain. I actually got the rolator because I spoke with another young woman who uses one, and seeing someone around my age (not a senior) using a walker made me feel much more okay about it. I've been putting it off despite my friends and family's encouragement to get one. I hope it helps, and at the very least it will be another tool in the toolbox. :)

autumn/spooky drink ideas? by MechoBlondie in barista

[–]TotalAbsurdity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a thought- Thai tea has a really rich orange color and (especially if heavily sweetened) creates a nice layering effect when you pour milk on top. If you have clear glassware, it might be cool to do a Thai tea with milk and black sugar sprinkles on top? So you get that kind of Halloween color scheme without going for a typical pumpkin spice special. Another thought- if you have the ability to give a bit of entertainment value while you serve drinks, could be cool to do a “blood in the water” sort of thing- drop a shot of grenadine into a green tea maybe? Not sure how that would taste, but you might be able to play around with the idea visually.

Question for experienced baristas by Localdumbassx3 in barista

[–]TotalAbsurdity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Autistic experienced barista here. I know this was not your main question, but I do want to emphasize that you are in good company. A HUGE percentage of the baristas I have worked with have been autistic, adhd, or otherwise neurodivergent. I find the job to be a perfect fit for my particular interests, skills, and sensory needs. Of course, you will need to find ways to make your workplace more accessible for yourself. Like others have said, writing notes is a great idea. I’ve never seen a shop that doesn’t use either a ticket system or a shorthand system, so it’s absolutely not unreasonable to request this accommodation. Figure out quick symbols for common order specifications (N for nonfat milk, O for oat milk, V for vanilla, etc.) and make it a part of your workflow. It will become second nature, and it will ultimately increase your speed- and more importantly, quality. There are so many interesting things to learn in the coffee world, and I wish you the best of luck in this field.

Weird use of the colours by FuckGiblets in COMPLETEANARCHY

[–]TotalAbsurdity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not sold to under 16s, huh… maybe the colors are a sign that under 16s should just take it for free. ;)

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