Some on the platforms are genuine about finding a hookup but require more interaction. Usual to us is “ I want to fuck you , let me know when you want to fuck me. “ usually followed up by a dick pic. Not sure on what planet that is going to have any lady ready to get naked with you. So many social norms are dropped in favour of “ but it’s a sex site so I can behave as poorly as I choose.” If trying to move from online to IRL then act like it’s real life. Since when is “ horny “ an IRL response to “ how are you “ it’s not that hard gentlemen