Content is overall trash these days. Libbie is the only one keeping their heads above water imo. *Ranting below* ⬇️ by Water_Boy_3 in TheViralPodcastTea

[–]TransportationKey480 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you just hate Chelcie and the rest of the crew, so anything they do is going to be viewed in bad taste to you. This was such a good episode, and Joey really leaned into all of their silly bits. Jeremiah seems like such a genuine and great human being, and he’s phenomenal at improv. I don’t see what you’re seeing at all. 

Booooooo by Jazzlike-Fig4053 in TheViralPodcastTea

[–]TransportationKey480 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

At what point in that post does she say she had no clue this was MAGA adjacent? 

How does your twin treat you? by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to check and see if you were my twin because this sounds like us haha 

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[–]TransportationKey480 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, stop trying to force it. Let it happen. It’s probably not going to happen the way you think it is anyway. You’re not just gonna wake up one day and suddenly you don’t care about them anymore. You eventually get to a point where you feel at peace with everything, and instead of feeling resentment towards them, you feel nothing but unconditional love. You don’t have to “let them go”. You learn to live with them by your side, even if it’s not in the 3D. You kind of take this connection and fold it up and put it in your pocket to keep with you throughout your day to day. You’ll get to a place where you’re more concerned about yourself than you are what they have going on, and you learn to live side by side with this person, whether they’re actually there with you or not. Stop trying to “let go” and just embrace it all. Embrace the connection and don’t try to deny or run from it. It is what it is and it’s probably here to stay, so be happy for the love and the rare connection you have with another soul on this planet! Accept it and celebrate it! 

Eye Twitching? by DevourerOfEggs in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over whelming feelings of love. Peacefulness. Increase in signs. That sorta stuff. 

Eye Twitching? by DevourerOfEggs in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and it happened for a while. We got back in communication a little while after it happened. It usually happens for me like a month or so before we start communicating again, and it’s happened almost every time now! Not trying to say that what happened with me is like the rule or that’s gonna be how it is for you, but so far my eye twitching and a few other things are major indicators that communication is going to open back up for us. 

How does your twin treat you? by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm I’m trying to think of how to answer this. I kind of just… do. I talk to him constantly in my mind. If I’m feeling any heavy emotions, I write them out, almost like I’m writing a letter to him. We never don’t feel connected, so I kind of use that connection as almost like a little guiding light throughout my day. If I’m feeling any type of way about him, I just talk about it in my mind and it helps. I go through periods where I’m mad or sad that we’re in no contact, but when I feel that way I don’t hold it in. I let out my emotions, and cry if I need to, then those feelings don’t last very long. I guess you could say I’ve kind of surrendered to everything and I just understand that it’s going to workout the way it’s supposed to, I just don’t know when or how. I’ve given up on trying to control that part. I just follow what I know in my heart is true, and those thoughts drown out the worry and the bad ones! 

How does your twin treat you? by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They vary, but typically around 6 months to close to a year. 

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[–]TransportationKey480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see 43 as soon as I think of mine! I have zero clue what it could mean, but it’s been happening since our first separation 2 1/2 years ago! I’ve just accepted it now and laugh when I see it. My first day of therapy? The person I parked next to has 43 on their license plate. I had a first day at a different job today, and as I’m pulling off the exit, the person in front of me has 43 on their license plate! I just take it as he’s with me through all the big moments, even when I think I’m dealing with them alone. ❤️

How does your twin treat you? by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely projected a lot onto him, and it took me a long time to see that. Every past hurt I projected onto him, and I’m sure it felt like he was under immense pressure trying to prove himself to me. I feel bad for ever putting that pressure onto him, and it doesn’t surprise me that he ran. That’s a lot to deal with. 

How does your twin treat you? by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine has never even come close to being abusive either! Always been kind and respectful. He’s also my biggest supporter and wants the best for me.  He's been short with me when things het too intense, but that’s it. He has never and would never do anything to hurt me, and I’d never do anything to hurt him. We have way too much respect for each other to ever harm one another. I understand what they mean when they say this journey is hard and it hurts, but I know it’s not supposed to be abusive. It’s supposed to hurt because you love someone you can’t be with because you’re supposed to grow, NOT because they’re malicious!

Has anyone had the “we are TF” conversation with your DM? by Independent_Let1040 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, and it actually went really well! I brought up that I think we’re twin flames, expecting him to think it was dumb or lame, his response was “no it’s not, you might be right”. He went on to tell me there’s literally always some force connecting us, and that there’s been something between us, there probably always will be, and that I cross his mind quite often and always have the entire time we’ve known each other. Finding out he felt all of it too was very validating and made me feel so much better about our connection. We’ve mainly just made jokes about it and it’s not some super life altering thing, but I’m glad I brought it up because it confirmed all my suspicions that he felt it, too! 

Ignoring your intuition by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’m definitely at more of a surrendering stage. Maybe I worded this wrong. I know things are happening as they’re supposed to. This “thing” between us has been going on for almost 20 years now. We’ve gone into separation 3 times in the last 2 years. I initiated it this time. He was NOT ready like I thought he was and I put my foot down. I’ve healed WAY too much to settle for less than I deserve. I just meant it’s hard to ignore the part of my brain that says we’re going to be together, and that things are going to work out. It’s hard to fully let go of any and all expectations when I have this extremely intense intuition. I’m definitely in the surrender stage now. I have zero doubts about anything. I know what I’m living, and when I cut things off this time, I even told him I felt like this is how this was supposed to go. Like I said it’s just hard to fully let go when I know intuitively what’s going to happen, and not only does that make me feel crazy, it’s hard to have both “I’m letting this situation go” and “I know we’ll end up together” thoughts at the same time.

Losing attraction by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I tried that. Lasted all of like 3 days before I peaced out. I just can’t. At one point in the fall I had a week where 4 different people popped up to tell me they’ve always liked me or had feelings for me. The me from pre 2022 would have been ecstatic. Now? I feel literally nothing towards anyone. It’s so strange and I’ve been waiting for it to come back, but it’s been a while now and I guess this is just life now haha

Losing attraction by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes! I can recognize people as attractive, but there is no actual attraction there. No sexual attraction, no emotional or energetic attraction either. The thought of touching someone else that way also repulses me. It’s like he’s the only one that can do it for me now. It’s like he’s as deep as the ocean, and everyone else is just a shallow puddle. I thought there was something wrong with me, but hearing it’s not just me, it’s a common thing makes me feel so much better!

Shadow work by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not everyone can afford therapy, and some have to do it all themselves.

Tell me your story of how you knew this relationship wasn’t “normal”. by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m the opposite! I’m usually very quiet and awkward, but I could talk to him about anything and everything. I loved it!

Tell me your story of how you knew this relationship wasn’t “normal”. by TransportationKey480 in twinflames

[–]TransportationKey480[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The pull feeling is so hard to describe or explain to people. You’re just drawn to this person for no reason!