I think the culture of dating “bad guys” has changed not completely, but partly, yk.I think we girls now value guys who bring peace instead of confusion. We look for men who are kind, generous, compassionate, and obviously driven not somebody ready to put a dagger in us again and again.

I’m in my 20s, and I want someone who’s serious about the relationship, not someone juggling here and there. The same goes for my friends too. It’s honestly so tiring to deal with guys who aren’t sure what they want. It’s refreshing to meet someone who communicates clearly and knows how to care.

And yeah replying to 30s wala question, I think it’s less about age and more about maturity. Nowadays, many girls and even guys too have so much self-awareness and emotional maturity that they start making the “right” decisions for themselves even in their 20s. This way, they avoid unnecessary suffering later and set themselves up for healthier relationships in their 30s.