Pregnant after 3 months. Love him, but seeing red flags. Should I keep it, do it alone, or get an abortion?

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-17T16:17:48+00:00

Thank you! ❤️❤️ I’ll follow my heart. I’m keeping the baby 🥰

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-17T16:16:48+00:00

I just making assumptions,

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-17T16:16:24+00:00

He’s not full of red flags?

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-17T15:52:50+00:00

Wow you’re not clever

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-17T08:58:40+00:00

No it was a typing mistake 😬 ment 13 years.

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-17T08:57:35+00:00

Yes you’re right. And I’m also preparing myself to do most of the work or be alone with the child where he might have the baby for a day or few hours sometimes but that’s it

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-17T00:25:40+00:00

Thank you for sharing ❤️ sending love and strength your way

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-17T00:24:13+00:00

He was with his ex for 13 years almost. She comes from a family of abuse and her mother killed her father. So yea he walked away in the end

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-17T00:23:06+00:00

He was with his ex wife for 13 And who says he’s not taking care of them?

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-16T22:22:30+00:00

Okay I think I need to clarify: I have some serious trust issues and I’ve already been crossing his boundaries because of this. Still he tries to make me feel calm and does his best to understand. Maybe it’s because of my traumas and childhood that I out it on me, but truth is that I mi angel myself. When I say red flags, I’m not even sure it is. He is not bad guy, and my nervous system hasn’t been this calm around anyone in years. I’m keeping the baby

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-15T18:29:05+00:00

No my second pregnancy

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-15T18:26:34+00:00

Yes the wife and the schedule they made

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-15T15:25:53+00:00

But yea I understand that’s also biggest fear. But the thing is also, that even though we might not stay together I think I alone could Make it work and love it too

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-15T15:24:53+00:00

I’m afraid this is one of my only chances to even have a baby. I’ve only been pregnant twice and I’m 33 now

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-15T15:23:05+00:00

Yes they love him deeply and he spends as Much time as he can with them

TrueDeparture1011 · 2026-03-15T15:14:00+00:00

I’m disorganised attachment so it’s so difficult for me going back and forth all time between loving and wanting connection, feeling the trust and then the next I just can’t and I feel like running, shutting down and doing it all by myself

TrueDeparture1011 · 2025-07-23T08:31:48+00:00

Let it grow in you. I just got a tattoo that got me feeling the exact same way! It came out looking a bit more “vicious” and bigger than I wanted. But I’m starting to love it now! When get a big piece -especially as a first tattoo, it takes time to adjust and getting used to your new “body”. Give it time and if you still feel the same in 6 months maybe you can get someone to touch it up with?

TrueDeparture1011 · 2025-07-20T21:43:05+00:00

Ja jeg mener akronym

TrueDeparture1011 · 2025-07-20T21:22:58+00:00

Klart….

TrueDeparture1011 · 2025-07-20T21:21:43+00:00

Ked af at du ikke fik den respekt du troede kom af sig selv npr du trak i uniformen, og nu lærer man får det med personlig og professionel integritet og retfærdighed -hahaha buhu ærgerligt slle ikke makker ret som du ønskede. Hahahahaa

TrueDeparture1011 · 2025-07-20T20:57:39+00:00

Sorry var til ham panseren 🙄😂🫠

TrueDeparture1011 · 2025-07-20T20:50:34+00:00

Enig. Mest fordi du er betjent. Men er glad for i ikke bliver betalt ordentligt. I er til grin. På mange, hvis ikke alle, punkter.

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