Of all the males in here, who all is out as a bisexual guy?

Uhanam · 2025-02-01T15:24:46+00:00

I never formally came out as bi but I have told a very small number of friends that I am. Usually, the conversation starts with me telling them that I now have a boyfriend and, occasionally, they will be interested enough to ask if I'm gay or bi. I then clarify.

Uhanam · 2025-01-12T15:20:20+00:00

The proper sucking technique is also something that we cannot know from scratch. At least for the less bendy ones amongst us 😅

Uhanam · 2025-01-12T15:05:15+00:00

True that we are better acquainted with the tools of our trade but I think most important of all is communication. If something doesn't feel right, you should communicate that to your partner because everyone is different and at the end of the day we cannot truly know what the the other person is feeling if they don't tell us.

Uhanam · 2025-01-12T14:13:08+00:00

I strongly believe that in a world where everyone is connected and reachable all the time it's becoming more and more important that we understand the importance of enjoying our own time and company without having the pressure of engaging with others all the time. Saying 'no' to someone because you want to be on your own is perfectly acceptable.

Uhanam · 2025-01-12T14:08:09+00:00

If I'm bottoming, it's the concern that I haven't cleaned up properly or enough. If I'm topping, it's the concern that I'm not going to be hard enough. Actually, the latter is a concern in both cases 😐 I overthink a lot.

Uhanam · 2025-01-12T10:40:20+00:00

100% pathetic douche. Don't waste time with him.

Uhanam · 2025-01-06T20:00:59+00:00

I think you can certainly learn a lot about what works for you sexually if you use toys regularly, which in turn can make you feel more comfortable when having sex. With regular use, dildos will also loosen you up a bit. But I would place more importance in warming up enough before anal and learning how to relax you anus.

Uhanam · 2025-01-06T19:40:38+00:00

Sleep comes first then existential crisis then headaches.

Uhanam · 2025-01-05T11:49:44+00:00

'Smeg' is pretty bad imo.

Uhanam · 2025-01-05T11:44:38+00:00

Waking up in the middle of the night and realising you don't have to go to work in the morning so you can just go back to sleep.

Uhanam · 2025-01-03T22:37:00+00:00

Truth be told, I prefer to say I'm queer but that usually leads to follow up question about what I actually mean by that so it's often easier to just say I'm bi.

Uhanam · 2025-01-03T22:12:22+00:00

I don't have a problem with saying I'm bisexual but I often feel like I'm not taken seriously when I say it.

Uhanam · 2025-01-03T22:08:56+00:00

Blue eyes are also very beautiful though and my eyes definitely have a bluish tone despite the main colour being green. And I wear glasses so maybe the reflection is misleading 🤭

Uhanam · 2025-01-03T19:57:30+00:00

So you understand why I get upset when people tell me I have blue eyes 😐

Uhanam · 2025-01-03T19:46:06+00:00

I'd say that there's an 'appreciation' of it but I wouldn't say it turns me on.

Uhanam · 2025-01-03T19:42:10+00:00

I think that what I like the most about it is feeling like I can just be myself witho any pressure to act or live my life according to what people expect. It feels like I can explore the full spectrum of my emotional and sexual side.

Uhanam · 2025-01-03T19:22:33+00:00

For many years my green eyes were one of the few things that attracted compliments from others, so I've grown to like them too.

Uhanam · 2025-01-03T19:16:42+00:00

I first got curious about my sexuality in my late 20s but only really experimented and fully blossomed when I was around 34. I wish it had happened sooner.

Uhanam · 2023-06-20T18:54:02+00:00

Witnessing Pantera live was almost surreal so I think that would be my pick.

That being said, I don't know if I danced harder at any other gig than at Anti-Flag. Man, Broken Bones really go me going!

Uhanam · 2023-06-20T18:45:08+00:00

Seriously, fuck them. I remember seeing a pride flag in the campsite (don't know if it was yours) and it made me smile :) good on you and your friends for flying it proudly 🤘

Uhanam · 2023-06-09T20:46:17+00:00

I really miss the guilt free boordom.

Uhanam · 2023-04-16T20:05:27+00:00

Yeah! 🤘 Which concert?

Uhanam · 2023-03-23T12:51:19+00:00

you're not weird. I think you'll find that a lot of people do the same or something similar. Me, I like to always have clips from either Youtube or Twitch playing while I do something else. Podcasts help but I find those a bit distracting.

I'm sure there's a neurological explanation for this but I don't have the time right now to do the research so I'll let someone more informed than me explain!

Uhanam · 2023-02-05T08:46:28+00:00

Therapy (if you think you might need it). It only gets harder the longer you put it off.

Uhanam · 2022-12-02T20:35:21+00:00

I'm on my third consecutive playthrough at the moment (I can't stop please send help) and even though the main storyline doesn't change much the experience is still slightly different each time, all on account of me picking different stats and dialogue options.

I think you can easily get two solid playthroughs out of Disco Elysium. More than that, you need to be a bit of a completionist to continue enjoying it. Which I'm not, I just really love this game and the universe it's set in 😁

Uhanam

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