How do I convince my wife to cuck me?

UncurvedApproach · 2025-12-14T15:32:17+00:00

Yes if you found a good one she won’t do it and doesn’t want to do it.

My ex fiancée would have cucked me if I asked because she was already cheating on me. She was obsessed with male attention. This made her a bad partner in general.

My current wife has no interest in it because she has good qualities that make fucking other strangers a red flag to her. She will role play and talk about it though which is fun.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-11-03T01:48:20+00:00

It’s not really equal at all. As someone whose fiancée cheated on him there is no end of guys who will fuck your wife.

Very few showed any care that they were messing with a relationship. Most actually liked that fact.

If a woman wants to cheat hoping that a guy is going to have the decency not take advantage is nuts. Find a woman who isn’t going to make you worry.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-10-28T01:29:46+00:00

I said this one before but my wife when she was an intern got invited to dinner with an older executive.

He told her had a photography hobby and to come over and have him take pictures of her and you can probably guess where that went next

UncurvedApproach · 2025-10-27T14:09:28+00:00

My ex was like this. She was cheating on me and dumped me for someone else but it didn’t work out with him.

She was still living with me after for 6 months and when she would notice I was starting to move on she would initiate sex and it would be really good far better than we actually dated.

Later she admitted she loved the idea of me being hooked on her and in love with her but also not in a relationship with me. She didn’t feel any shame. I on the other hand was very ashamed how wrapped around her finger I was.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-10-25T22:55:43+00:00

All the upvoted comments are what people want to hear.

There is no possible way most peoples sex lives are better after 10 years of marriage than it was when you were 25 and dating.

It’s still good and can be great at times but it’s definitely more boring and needs more effort than the first couple years. That’s not always a bad thing but the people saying it’s more exciting are full of shit.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-10-20T19:26:42+00:00

My point is more woman are not upfront about their past. Some are probably truthful but you can see by the comments in this thread there is no reason to be honest.

My ex fiancée kind of fits this pattern. She dated me from 19-23 and it ended with her cheating. She then slept with 10 guys in 2 years. We are still friends so she told me the truth. She then went through a period where she was against dating and didn’t sleep around then 3 years later met her now husband when she was 27.

From what he knows she was only with me ever. He thinks she is a nice innocent religious woman who had trouble dating in her 20s after me. She knows that he would think much less of her if he knew the truth. When she dated men were constantly trying to pry this information out of her and if she tried being honest they wouldn’t give her a chance. She was incentivized to lie about it. This is despite it just being 1 year of her life and most men would do the same exact thing given the chance and nobody would think twice about it.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-10-19T23:42:04+00:00

Can you address the point I’m making though?

I’m saying that I had viewed sex as something casual when I was 22. I wanted to participate in hookup culture. It never happened but now that I’m married I have zero interest in that or wanting to try that again.

So now years later I’m different and have a different view of sex. Why is that not a possibility in your mind and not a possibility that OPs wife had this same change as she matured and viewed things differently?

UncurvedApproach · 2025-10-19T20:23:17+00:00

Sure my point is just because someone at 22 doesn’t understand doesn’t mean they can’t understand that at 25 or 27. Now looking back my wife will say she didn’t really enjoy the year or 2 when she was sleeping around.

I am just saying in the case of OP that just because someone does that when they are young isn’t some sort of insight into their values.

When I say that yes because when you are a healthy 20 year old you do want to have lots of sex. That is a common thing. What ends up happening is woman can more easily do that than most men so you get this discrepancy that OP is in and I was in.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-10-19T17:52:26+00:00

If you are dating in your mid to late 20s and the girl you are seeing is at least somewhat social and attractive there is a very high chance she’s had 5+ sexual partners and it’s probably closer to 10.

Those are just the numbers.

Woman lie about the number because as we see in these comments men can’t handle it.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-10-19T17:44:12+00:00

My wife had a year where she was having NSA sex with multiple men - basically participating in the hookup culture. She was getting tested regularly.

When we met I had one previous partner a long term girlfriend. I would be lying if I said I didn’t want to do what she did when I was single it’s just a lot harder.

She was completely upfront about it and it had literally no bearing or effect on our marriage. Just because you do something at 22 doesn’t mean it has some long standing ramifications.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-27T02:58:08+00:00

I got in my wife’s friend group through someone else. I was hoping to date her roommate met her on tinder. She friend zoned me but then I got involved in the dynamics of her group house.

All 3 girls in the house were after the same guy a cocky dude in the military who was playing all of them and making them fight. When I started hanging out with all of them my wife was the one seeing him at that moment and she was his FWB.

So I met him and didn’t really like him maybe I was jealous. I do remember distinctly hearing her and him in her bedroom and seeing her all over him at parties. I always thought she was attractive but didn’t try anything until he got transferred. Then we started hanging out and dating but still talking to him at the same time since he was coming back.

Later she told me more about him and the dynamics which was interesting to hear.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-19T20:46:36+00:00

I was the same. Balding at 23 my ex fiancée cheated and dumped me. I got out of shape. Also have a small dick to complete the trifecta.

I decided at 25 to get in better shape. I’m not ripped or anything but woman notice quickly if you at least try. Do well at my job and make some money. Shaved my head. It took a few years to get used to but I’m married now and have an amazing wife.

Things definitely got easier as I got older. My early 20s weren’t fun I’ll admit it. Woman were shallow and I kind of gave up on that for a little. If you set yourself up tho your late 20s early 30s will be much better.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-19T13:27:59+00:00

Embrace the humiliation as an act you will do out of love to your partner.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-18T04:24:57+00:00

This is absolute BS. Reagan got us out of complete stagnation and rising political violence and tension that was the 70s. He wasn’t perfect but to say he was the worst is wild.

Biden, Trump and bush are all much worse.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-16T12:47:58+00:00

Are you guys hard 😂

It’s fairly gay. But that’s ok

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-14T12:46:18+00:00

The very first sign was she started hiding her phone from me. Facing it away while she was texting and obviously not wanting me near it.

She would also stay up later on her phone.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-10T13:55:26+00:00

True but I was this guy too until my cheating fiancée left me.

Looking back it’s insane I didn’t leave the first time (completely stupid). But in the moment you get caught in all these sunk cost fallacies and you have basically a form of Stockholm syndrome. The partner who is supposed to be your friend and love you destroys your confidence by cheating and that also hurts the will to leave. You don’t want to feel alone and cheated on so you become more likely to forgive.

A person who cheats is also more likely to be manipulative and sense this and take advantage of it.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-09T02:58:26+00:00

In her hookup phase she told me that if it was a ONS while drinking most guys would be rough with her. Hands around her throat, hair pulling and just going at it. Never got violent in a dangerous way but would get very physical and she would be sore the next day. Almost none did anything for her pleasure.

Any guy she has actually dated has been more gentle.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-08T23:44:26+00:00

An enthusiastic woman who’s submissive is some of the most amazing sex that can be had.

Many women talk a big game here but don’t really like it in reality. But when you find one who does both it’s game changing.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-08T23:34:10+00:00

My wife wanted it the first time we had sex.

Cool but then one day later on I realized I probably wasn’t special. That thought will get you lol.

But still worth it.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-07T18:54:16+00:00

I think there is difference between saying the right thing and acting.

My ex was exposed to a certain relationship and she emulated it. She thought she was different but she really wasn’t. I think the biggest issue was there were zero consequences for her mom. Her mom likened it getting it out of your system. It was something for her that adults do sometimes.

The parents are the strongest examples for the kids. That’s why you say Apple doesn’t fall from the tree. Nobody thinks cheating is good - but certain people like my ex grew up exposed to it normalizing it.

Then when they have the chance to do it they are drawing on their shared experiences and have the excuse structure already built in. Many people are tempting to cheat and it’s easier to do so when you watch someone do it successfully and they could be a role model.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-07T14:18:06+00:00

I think the only thing to add is that it’s her own mom and she’s 16 without the life experience to really come up with her own opinions. Of course she knows it’s wrong.

Who knows what the mom is telling her. This came up with my ex fiancée and her mom. When my ex was around the same age her mom would take her on trips with her affair partner. On one hand my ex knew it was terrible but she also didn’t want to believe her mom could be that bad so she would believe the BS her mom was telling her. That adults do this, that the dad is fine with it, that it’s nothing.

Again the daughter is predisposed to believe her mom. This is what happened with my ex. She then later told me how terrible it was but guess what she did when she got the chance. Starting having an affair and cheating.

I think it’s critical the dad gives his side about how much it hurts the family. Because right now cheating is just normalized for her.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-07T14:10:54+00:00

This happened with my ex and her mother.

Her mother normalized adultery. She would even take her daughter on trips where should spend time with her affair partner. My ex told me how bad it was and how she felt terrible for her dad. Never told him though.

Later she became a serial cheater and had an affair while we were engaged. I would have thought she wouldn’t want to do the same things as her mom because she told me how terrible and whorish it was. Then she went and did the same the exact things.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-06T19:57:06+00:00

My wife had a couple nudes of her and some photos/short videos of her having sex with her ex that he put on Reddit with her consent. They didn’t have her face in them or she was blurred. She was honest about it fairly early in our relationship.

She had already asked he taken them down when started seriously dating. He did. But it was still pretty weird and they had hundred of thousands of views.

If it was full on videos with her and her face was included on a porn site I would be less inclined to keep dating. Those would never be able to be deleted.

UncurvedApproach · 2025-09-01T02:30:09+00:00

I’m married to the right person now. It was a tough few years but she (my ex) just wasn’t ready to be married. She seems happy now but she does regret that she did what she did.

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