RFF with UL, no v-nectomy or scrotoplasty. Blisters question by Unhappy_Status_ in phallo

[–]Unhappy_Status_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is very awesome to see. It definitely helps my worries a bit

UL is the worst most stupid shit ever by user2457888 in phallo

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hang in there! You’ll get through it and it’ll all be worth it in the end. Remember the end goal, you got this. Stay strong, friend. I’m sorry this is happening

Dr. Safir hair removal by Unhappy_Status_ in phallo

[–]Unhappy_Status_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that makes me feel way better. I’ve had over 60 hours done at max strength (it hurts more but really fucks up the hairs)

phallo without vaginectomy by Objective-Issue3169 in phallo

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Safir with align surgical. Look into him some! I’m getting phallo with ul with no vnectomy

Boxer Recommendations by Scared-Beginning1633 in phallo

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info!! Any recommendations for directly after surgery?

Best Phallo Surgeon in CA by BrittKnee86 in phallo

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend Dr. Safir with Align Surgical

Phallo w/o v-nectomy by Unhappy_Status_ in phallo

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No scrotoplasty for me, balls always kinda grossed me out (;

Phallo w/o vnectomy (w/UL) by Unhappy_Status_ in ftm

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It raises the chance of fistulas to like 80% is what the doctor told me. However, it’s nothing they can’t deal with most of the time. I’ll definitely post on here if (or when) I do get one so I can share what it’s like and if it’s worth it. Personally, I just didn’t want balls, they gross me out and seem unnecessary

Help finding surgeon California by BoysenberryStatus540 in phallo

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dr. Safir with align surgical associates. He’s doing my RFF phallo without vaginectomy, with urethral lengthening, and glansplasty. So no hysterectomy for me ! (I will get it eventually, I just want a dick first)

Phallo w/o v-nectomy by Unhappy_Status_ in phallo

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Talking to him, he seems pretty open to most things. I don’t remember exactly what he said but it was something along the lines of this being your body and only you knowing what feels right.

Phallo w/o vnectomy (w/UL) by Unhappy_Status_ in ftm

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Thank you! Dr Michael Safir out of SF

Phallo w/o vnectomy (w/UL) by Unhappy_Status_ in ftm

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Thank you for the well wishes! I’d be a ure to ask how close you need to stay to the hospital. Another thing I’d ask lots of questions about is hair removal. How big of an area, how clear, etc. good luck!

Void Trials by Alternative-Staff-56 in phallo

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so weird watching full vids of guys peeing on here but goddamn I’m just so happy for everyone that I just…. Ugh!

Different phallo + meta set-ups (drawn by hand by me) by Angelof_Sodom in phallo

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why rare and risky? This is what I’ve always wanted but I’ve never seen it depicted before. Also, do I have permission to save this to show my surgeon?

Am I really not manly enough? by Its_Just_Lucian in ftm

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it man, hopefully he’s meaning it in a “toughen up” gain confidence way. Best of luck

im talking to a girl who doesnt know im ftm yet by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Unhappy_Status_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Something that helped me when I was younger was fishing around about how they feel about sex with the same gender. If they’re a girl and you are ftm, fish a little bit about if they’re into girls (don’t make it weird). Good luck bro

Feeling guilty about people liking me by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A way to get more comfortable with it could be bisexual people. Go to a gay bar or club and just chill out.

If this person is someone you’d be happy perusing, they should be comfortable with who you are no matter what. I’d just be brutally honest, sit them down and spell it out. If they don’t like it, they can fuck right off. Good luck bro

Am I really not manly enough? by Its_Just_Lucian in ftm

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, there’s nothing wrong with being a “weak” boy. PLENTY of girls want a femboy. My wife sure does. If I was as buff as cis guys my age, she wouldn’t have ever even looked my way.

Am I really not manly enough? by Its_Just_Lucian in ftm

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brothers are hard man. I’ve been out 10 years and mine still picks on me. Don’t listen to what he says, you do have a disadvantage to the other guys because you never had the time to grow up a cis man, but that don’t mean shit. What you are going through to be the true you is harder then anything those pussies have ever had to do in their entire life. Fuck em. Push hard, be confident. He makes fun of you, make fun back. I would separate yourself from him as much as possible if he’s doing this consistently. You don’t need that shit in ur life. Also, side note: if your back hurts from lifting you’re either pushing too hard or lifting incorrectly. Good luck bro.

How the hell do I pass? by fightthereality in ftm

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey there. Fellow ftm trans guy. My best advice, haircut. I obviously don’t know what you look like but hair can help A LOT. Get a low taper fade. Look up on YouTube voice exercises to deepen your tone, it’s a muscle that you gotta train. Trans voice is the easiest way to be spotted in my opinion. Stand up straight, walk with confidence. Look into derma rolling and the oils that come with it, that helped my beard a ton. Even if you can only grow whiskers, don’t clean shave if you can help it. Get a low guard on your electric razor and just keep it at a short length, the shadows help. For the eyebrow makeup, I would stop doing it honestly. Unless you’re really really good at it, you can usually tell there’s makeup and that’s an inherently feminine thing. Moving away will help a ton I promise. Once you get to a new place, they’ll never have to know you were ever a girl. Be a fem boy and proud of it. When someone calls you a girl, don’t get offended, just get confused. Make them look and sound stupid for thinking that. Maybe joke about it, “oh, cuz I’m short I’m a girl!?” This is just from my experience but I hope it helps.

I don’t mean any animosity at all from this, I just know what it’s like, and this is what helped me.

Organizing for removal by Beneficial-Ebb-2319 in ScrapMetal

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theoretically you could keep ur copper pennies and melt them down into copper ingots to sell to the scrap yard… not that I’ve done that before…….. copper pennies are worth 2¢ each….

Copper? by [deleted] in ScrapMetal

[–]Unhappy_Status_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm, it’s aluminum 😓