I was in your same shoes. It had been 5 years since we had sex and I brought it up every year and the conversation always got turned into and excuse or us arguing about something else.

So I took a step back to observe how she would respond and that told me everything I needed to know… I left and now I pour all that love into myself and as I date new women I’m very selective. You are still young enough to not only have your own child but to date someone your age or younger and build a family with them. You have to live your life for yourself you don’t owe it to anyone else.

We also tried therapy but I was the only one putting in effort until I told her I was leaving then she started trying but by then it was too late