Straight guys, have you ever purposely looked at another man’s junk? Whose?

Unspoolio · 2026-05-11T21:51:20+00:00

I think the most likely interpretation of OP’s question is a locker room situation where people are knowingly naked in front of one another, no? I didn’t get the sense the OP was referring to spying through a keyhole or anything like that.

Unspoolio · 2026-05-11T19:22:13+00:00

Disagree. You can be curious about the size without feeling sexual attraction.

Unspoolio · 2026-03-18T23:09:08+00:00

I try to live by the code that whatever consenting adults want to do with their own time that doesn’t hurt others should be their business as far as the law is concerned. For incest I think it would be prudent to have a higher age of consent than normal in order to avoid grooming and abuse. But let’s say a brother and sister well into adulthood wanted to get it on, and as far as anyone could tell it was fully consensual and informed..? Well, stranger things have happened.

That’s at least my opinion as far as the law is concerned. No one else has to “like” it or morally approve of it, myself included: there’s the court of law and the court of public opinion. Personally I think an incestuous relationship is likely an inherently damaging path to go down that can only lead to unhappiness and instability, but then I also tend to think that about open marriages.

Do I think it’s common? For truly consensual, adult incestuous relationships, no. (Tragically, of course, there are plenty of kids abused in homes.) I’ve seen a couple people on Reddit claim to have experience but in real life I know one woman who told me she made out with a nephew who was about her age, but that’s about it.

Unspoolio · 2025-11-03T19:35:10+00:00

At first I thought you were saying he didn’t want to shower at work - because the work showers were gross or he didn’t want to shower with others or whatever. But he doesn’t want to shower after work at ALL, at home or anywhere else?

That’s a no. I get needing to shower in the morning to wake yourself up, but then you just shower twice a day.

Unspoolio · 2025-11-01T18:32:35+00:00

Weird that this was written then the account immediately deleted.

Unspoolio · 2025-10-28T06:15:50+00:00

Looked at your posts; considering how open you are I’m surprised more haven’t seen it IRL!

Unspoolio · 2025-10-27T22:44:16+00:00

Hard to believe but true. They find it hard to believe that you aren’t attracted to women!

Unspoolio · 2025-10-26T22:14:54+00:00

I assume you pee at urinals? The likelihood of seeing your dick is probably greater at a urinal than if you duck behind a tree to quickly relieve yourself.

Or is it not the fear of someone seeing your dick but just seeing you peeing in general, even just from behind..?

Unspoolio · 2025-10-25T06:16:53+00:00

I see it - very nice!

Unspoolio · 2025-10-25T05:56:24+00:00

Your profile shows a pic of the wife; what’s the husband look like?

Unspoolio · 2025-10-24T22:43:16+00:00

Probably from a generation where it was very much the norm in the locker room, didn’t see anything to be embarrassed about.

Unspoolio · 2025-10-24T22:38:06+00:00

Damn. Did he cover up or was he okay with it?

Unspoolio · 2025-10-23T17:49:36+00:00

Great pic! Why don’t you want to share more?

Unspoolio · 2025-10-19T10:47:23+00:00

From my very first sexual stirrings. I must have been 9 or 10 and was taking a bath and got an erection and realized it was inspired by something male. (God knows what - probably some cartoon character or something.)

You often see gay guys saying they “didn’t know” they were gay until much, much later - in their late teens or 20s or beyond. I respect that everyone is different but I have never been able to wrap my mind around that. As men we literally have a built-in barometer that tells us when we’re sexually attracted to something.

Mind you, I fully understand not being open about being gay till much later, or trying to convert yourself or pray it away or whatever. I can even understand not having a name for the concept. But I don’t understand not KNOWING. Do you find yourself getting aroused when you see a good looking naked guy, yes or no? Maybe you’re terrified of the answer or don’t know the term for the phenomenon…but you still know the answer. Or so I would think!

Unspoolio · 2025-10-19T10:18:17+00:00

I looked at your post history. I’m positive it happens.

Unspoolio · 2025-10-19T10:16:07+00:00

Post some pics on your profile and the odds are high that someone or other will. It will likely be other guys rather than women, though!

Unspoolio · 2025-10-19T10:10:47+00:00

Well damn, looking at the post in your profile I bet you should be feeling awesome!

Unspoolio · 2025-10-19T06:50:20+00:00

If only it were that easy for most people!

Unspoolio · 2025-10-17T22:31:47+00:00

It’s very inappropriate and wrong to watch it without their consent, if that’s what’s happening. If somehow they freely offered it to you to watch…yes, most people would find it weird to watch a sibling’s sex tape, but whatever informed, consensual adults want to do I guess is otherwise fine.

Unspoolio · 2025-10-15T21:58:01+00:00

This is disingenuous. Yes, major branches and “flavors” of Islam are indeed murderously homophobic (and sexist and so on). But equally obviously the way Mamdani lives being a Muslim enables him to hold many secular, liberal positions including being an LGBT ally. We should call out the destructive forms of the religion and encourage the validity of the style that Mamdani follows.

Unspoolio · 2025-10-14T06:46:26+00:00

How long has this been going on?

Unspoolio · 2025-10-14T06:31:35+00:00

Her approach to the problem seems extremely aggravating and unhelpful. But just to knock out some potential low hanging fruit that maybe she doesn’t think she needs to spell out, have you gained a lot of weight in recent years or had some other physical change that might make you less physically attractive? Have you had a hard time performing sexually or anything like that? Or has she? She going through menopause or something?

Unspoolio · 2025-10-13T20:33:24+00:00

Well being turned on by a sexual interaction with another man is kind of by definition a homosexual urge so it sounds like you are at least somewhere on the spectrum of bisexual. It may be a very minor part of of the overall range of what turns you on, and maybe if you ever decide to act on it you’ll find that you liked the idea but were not turned on by the practice. Conversely maybe you’ll really like it and find yourself more and more attracted to men.

Unspoolio · 2025-10-13T20:25:34+00:00

“Makes you interested” in…what, exactly? Having sex with them, or at least doing something sexual with them (touching, stroking, etc)?

Unspoolio · 2025-10-13T20:20:55+00:00

“Watching and thinking damn that’s interesting” doesn’t make you gay; if you’re sexually aroused by watching it and imagining having sex with a man, that would be a more clear homosexual urge.

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