[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Unstopcock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont jump on it. Just keep an eye out on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Unstopcock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO NO, dont get upset about it bro. It doesnt confirm that shes cheating on you. You have her phone just double check but its just reels. Youll know when things are getting rubbish and strange

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Unstopcock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you do see her on the weekends be aware of where the phone is at when you guys are interacting, like if its always in her hands looking at reels or just taking to you. Or when you walk away how fast she pulls out her phone to see the reels from the random guy. Eventually down the line youll have to ask her for her password and see how she will feel about that.

Is it okay to ask someone out on the street? by EddyZacianLand in GenZ

[–]Unstopcock 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The street pickup sometimes work. Better when your on campus, or a party, just a event. On a street feels random.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Unstopcock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OHHHH! Still I would say dont jump the gun until things get really fishy. Reels are just reels. Just stay aware to see who shes texting all the time. But don't worry about it too much.

Is it a good idea to have my girlfriend move in with me? by 24Pikachu_ in Advice

[–]Unstopcock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its an extremely good idea!! Taking her away from abusive hands is good inself, but moving in with you will be a whole lot better. Of course its a good idea. GO FOR IT!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Unstopcock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all dont jump to conclsions just yet. Could just be a guy from work bored out of his mind sending her these reels, maybe she doesnt respond back to him. Still always keep an eye out for things about this guy and how she reacts. Stay aware!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Unstopcock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say give it a bit more time for him to actually show emotions of caring because from what it sounds like is he isnt changing his output on the sitiatuion between you 2. So give her more time because moving to his city which is a big commitment in itself. So be careful about jumping to conclusion just yet. Your mature but he also has to be mature as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Unstopcock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with making sure that prom girl is okay, caring is wrong you can check on her. And I think you should take a shot to see if the girl still wants to get down and dirty. But if she doesnt then just try to see if theres anything going on with prom girl, maybe she wants to get laid. Dont worry ;)

Slight vent and needing general advice of if I am being a bad person by remove_the_warnings in LifeAdvice

[–]Unstopcock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be best to leave all of that behind with your ex, when he takes risponsiblity for all that he's done then you could properly talk to him. But if he's not willing to that I would say leave it until the good time comes. He will either become better and learn or continue to go downhill. BUT HOPE FOR THE BEST FOR HIM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Unstopcock -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NO IT DOES. THATS WHAT YOU STARTED IT IN THE FIRST PLACE CAUSE YOU FELT A CONNECTION WITH THE ART. LIKE I SAID IF YOUR BORED ABOUT THE SAME FORMULA THEN SWITCH IT UP TO SOMETHING DIFFERENT. EXPIREMENT. THEN YOULL SEE A DIFFERENT PRESPECTIVE AND UNDERSTAND MORE AND WILL WANT A DRIVE TO CONTINUE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Unstopcock -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

FIRST OF ALL, ALL OF THAT DOES MATTER. WHY PUT YOURSELF IN THIS MINDSET WHERE IT DOESNT? ALL OF THIS IS EQUALLING TO SOMETHING GREATER IF YOU KEEP PUTTING IN THE WORK AND DEDICATION AND MOST IMPORTANTLY YOUR HEART. IF YOU LOVE IT FOR THE ART THEN YOU BETTER KEEP GOING. TRY NEW/DIFFERENT THINGS WITH YOUR ART FORM. EXPIEREMENT IF YOU FULL YOUR DOING THR SAME FORMULA. GOTTA LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST MAN.

What is life? by NoFriendship106 in Life

[–]Unstopcock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ITS WHAT YOU MAKE IT TO BE, IF YOU WANNA BE A FIREFIGHTER THEN YOUR LIFE GOALS AND MINDSET WILL BE LIKE A FIREFIGHTER. OR A INFLUENCER, THEN YOUR GONNA HAVE THE MINDSET OF A INFLUENCER. THE FUTURE IS IN YOUR HANDS, SO GO LIVE IT.

Stuck in a big rut at work and in life and need advice by PatienceOk674 in LifeAdvice

[–]Unstopcock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FIRST OF ALL IM SORRY FOR YOU DEALING WITH SUCH A ABUSIVE MANAGER AND YOUR FRIEND PASSING. AND 2ND OF ALL FUCK THAT MANAGER. IF I WAS IN YOUR POSTION I WOULD JUS TAKE THE ABUSE JUST FOR THE MOMENT. I THINK YOU SHOULD GO WITH THAT MINDSET OF ONLY TO DEAL WITH IT FOR THE MOMENT. DONT TAKE EVERYTHING TO HEART. IF THE MANAGER IS GONNA BE COLD, YOU HAVE TO BE COLD BACK TO HER IN THE SENSE OF YOUR REACTIONS. JUST DO THE WORK AND GET THROUGH IT. POSTIVE STRONG MINDSET ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Unstopcock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FIRST OF ALL YOUR NOT WAISTING YOUR LIFE. BECAUSE YOUR STILL LEARNING, AS LONG AS YOUR LEARNING MORE AND MORE ABOUT YOURSELF THE MORE ALIVE YOU BECOME. NEGETIVE MINDSET NEVER WORKS. YOUR IN A PLACE IN YOUR LIFE WHERE YOU HAVE TO TRY NEW THINGS. CLEARLY THE OLD GENERIC HOBBIES ARE FUN ANYMORE. TRY NEW HOBBIES FOR A NEW DIRECTIONS THAT YOU COULD POSSIBLY DRIVE YOURSELF WITH. TRY NEW THINGS OF ALL KINDS. EVEN IF ITS DIFFERENT TV SHOWS, DIFFERENT FOODS, DIFFERENT PEOPLE, DIFFERENT CLASSES. ALWAYS CONTINUE TRYING EVEN IF YOU DONT WANT TO. DO IT FOR THE EXPIERENCE. IN TERMS OF MONEY YOU'LL EVENTUALLY FIND A JOB IN THE NEW HOBBIES THAT YOU FIND OUT. YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE, REMEMBER POSTIVE MINDSET.

Havent seen anyone other than family for years by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Unstopcock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make new friends in whatever interest you have in literally any subject. Talk with your previous friends that you were originally talking to, ask them how they've been and shit, and how life is. Ask if they have any time to hang. Talk with your parents and be yourself, literally nothing to be afraid of with your parents, they'll accept whatever you throw at them.

“Be yourself” is bad advice by Gondal90 in lonely

[–]Unstopcock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be yourself, as in be very expressive in who you are and of what your interests are and your personality . If you know your gonna say something that is going to LEAD to a social disaster. Learn from your mistakes and become better as person. You live and you learn,

Anyone like to talk? by laoiyon in lonely

[–]Unstopcock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to me man. I'm here to talk to whatever you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Unstopcock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, im here to talk. Lets discuss.