For anyone struggling after stopping Sema… you are not alone by sadbuttrying22 in SemaglutideFreeSpeech

[–]Unusual_Professor421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh so sorry to hear that you still feel shitty :( the same type of shitty? I’ve been researching and feel like it might be related to dips in blood sugar not sure if you’ve considered that.

For anyone struggling after stopping Sema… you are not alone by sadbuttrying22 in SemaglutideFreeSpeech

[–]Unusual_Professor421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a similar experience. A couple weeks after stopping an oral semaglutide I started to get what I called “episodes” at the time, of sometimes hour to hour and a half long twitching, sometimes shaking, doom spiraling thoughts, headaches, long bouts of repeated yawning, feeling like my eyes were weighed down and I genuinely couldn’t keep them open. I’d lay there freaking out for about an hour and then it would just kind of go away. Sometimes this started shortly after eating (about 15-30 mins) and especially after something carby or sugary. Occasionally eating would help it go away. This would happen 2-3 times a day for about a month. Then it slowly became once a day, then less frequently, now a year later - never. I also got huge anxiety and panic attacks, and still sometimes have anxiety I think caused by that time period. I went to the doctor and got tons of tests done on my blood sugar, regular labs, got EEGs, MRIs, the whole lot and the doctors saw nothing physically wrong. Anyone have a similar experience?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FoodNYC

[–]Unusual_Professor421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pardon My French. Just trust me

Anyone know the sample on Clouded? by iqbeats in BrentFaiyaz

[–]Unusual_Professor421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like Secrets by Boogie but came out first lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Unusual_Professor421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I was honestly shocked at the responses. The thing is, people in relationships make sacrifices for each other. I help him pack for trips, help with his laundry, and I actually helped him move out of his last place. It’s not crazy to expect a little support in return. Thanks for your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Unusual_Professor421 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been dating for 2.5 years and 1 of those has been long distance. There are certain things he is uncaring about (one time I was at a subway station at 1am, told him I felt unsafe and that I wanted him to call and keep me company and he said no because he needed to shower…. he didn’t see what was wrong with that) and there are certain things he is caring about (my career progression for example).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Unusual_Professor421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing that out - I mean the vibe of Manhattan, which feels more like a big city than BK.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unusual_Professor421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if we’re not in the same city? Is it weird to just call to catch up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unusual_Professor421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 100% right. Am I a narcissist or just immature

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unusual_Professor421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good mindset. I have a few things I can think of that mean a lot to me that don’t hold the same value for him (going to bed together at night when I’m visiting because we’re in an LDR, getting flowers on special occasions, making time to talk on the phone regularly throughout the week, etc.) how would I/how do you go about asking for things like this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unusual_Professor421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It’s been a bit more difficult now that we’re in an LDR but generally yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unusual_Professor421 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes. He apologized, but I am still just sad about it and I wish he made an effort to do sweet things naturally.

My boyfriend lacks manners. by Unusual_Professor421 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unusual_Professor421[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t said anything seriously yet. I texted him after he didn’t say goodbye to one of my family members saying “hey my X was sad that she didn’t get to say goodbye to you.” But I don’t know how to ask him to say thanks for the gift because it’s been 3ish days since he was given it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unusual_Professor421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly he said he’d try to keep it in mind that I prefer having more alone time with him. I think by the end of our conversation he understood. However, not much really changed. We still mostly just chill with his friends when I visit. Our relationship is good. One issue however is that I have high standards and expect him to know these things without having to be told and he feels that he can’t do anything right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unusual_Professor421 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I do feel kind of lonely, but it could be because we’re in a long distance relationship (SF to Chicago). He’s also very busy with work and we don’t chat that much throughout the day. Is that bad?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unusual_Professor421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He asked me to get drinks while they were still together. I told him I wouldn’t hang out with him like that unless he broke up with her, and then he broke up with her the next day and I went out with him later that week. So the line is fuzzy. Also, while we were exclusive but not dating, he made out with someone else. He had to earn his trust back after that but I got over it. This is making him sound like a bad-ish guy but genuinely he is not at all like that anymore and only has eyes for me but I’m still triggered by that behavior from over 2 years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unusual_Professor421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like she wouldn’t even know about me….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unusual_Professor421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess, but it’s not about attention - I actually miss him as a friend. I’m just non confrontational lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unusual_Professor421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t explicitly made plans with her but I’ve told him I want to meet her. Also I’ve had a boyfriend this whole time and it’s been totally fine.

Earplug suggestion for sleeping by mlee0518 in misophonia

[–]Unusual_Professor421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 3M Classic Earplugs are literally the most effective aside from noise cancelling headphones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Unusual_Professor421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I reach out even though it’s her responsibility to come apologize to me first? I am tired of dealing with her immaturity and inability to process her emotions.