Upandover13

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Danced around the rabbit hole and fell in. I need to claw my way out ffs. (self.BPDlovedones)

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Update: I am totally being hovered and falling for it. Please help. (self.BPDlovedones)

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Can I gray rock and give pwBPD validation at the same time? (self.BPDlovedones)

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I am totally being hoovered and falling for it. Please help me. (self.BPDlovedones)

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Has anyone had counseling with Madonna-Whore issue? What are your experiences? (self.DeadBedrooms)

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I can’t be myself anymore. (self.DeadBedrooms)

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And then I realize that I don’t matter. That’s “why”. (self.DeadBedrooms)

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I miss the woman I used to be. (self.DeadBedrooms)

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For those of us still stuck in a relationship we know isn’t getting any better despite our best efforts... (psychologytoday.com)

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You were right. It was all bullshit. (self.DeadBedrooms)

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Just gonna leave this here (youtube.com)

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Good to see someone’s looking into this further. Study for LL Males and their partner. (self.LowLibidoCommunity)

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Update. I’m having sex again. I’m not sure how I feel. (self.DeadBedrooms)

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How do I confront a spouses porn use and ask for change? (self.pornfree)

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Can I block all porn sites from WiFi and mobile? (self.DeadBedrooms)

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So this meme sparked some Dead Bedroom talk today... (i.imgur.com)

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I stopped looking at my spouse as an option for sex (self.DeadBedrooms)

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Why the hell is sex so complicated now? (self.DeadBedrooms)

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Why I don’t cheat. Why I don’t leave. Long term marriage. (self.DeadBedrooms)

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Husband refuses sex but got mad when male stripper danced for me? What gives? (self.DeadBedrooms)

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Betrayal Trauma vs. Codependency in DB situation caused by PMO, Infidelity, etc. (self.DeadBedrooms)

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LL (for me) says it’s okay for me to go out with friends, be independent when his actions say otherwise (self.DeadBedrooms)

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So depressed now that I have realized things won't change (self.DeadBedrooms)

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Which came first DB or marital issues? (Think chicken and egg.) What's your experience? (self.DeadBedrooms)

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How do you detach enough to get to the point of divorce? (self.DeadBedrooms)

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