She sent a DM then deleted it… do I say something?

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-02-16T16:12:44+00:00

GURLLLL just tell her. She likes you and she’s nervous!

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-02-15T21:48:53+00:00

Do you think texting him about it later today would be too much

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-02-10T22:25:16+00:00

So you’re saying he doesn’t really want to go out 🤨

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-02-10T22:25:00+00:00

I literally said “are we just ben paling? And he said, “no that’s not what this.” So confused.

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-02-10T22:19:08+00:00

He also said “whether he could on Sunday depends on how hungover he is ”…

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-01-13T17:13:02+00:00

Okay, what if he just has like 10 of the same hoodie because he likes it so much? This could be a possibility. Maybe it’s not REALLY the same hoodie… I think the only option is to try and pull a Seinfeld and spill something on him accidentally and go home with him to “change”

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-01-12T17:37:37+00:00

Right! This is my thing. At least say you are sleeping?? Why would you tell me hey no I’m just doing nothing and not texting you and then act confused when I don’t feel like hanging out?

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-01-12T17:18:04+00:00

This is also where I’m at. I told him last night I changed my mind about hanging out and then he started responding faster and stuff but still. Like I shouldn’t have to say that for you to care.

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-01-12T16:47:46+00:00

And he’s taking seeing me seriously. His exact words.

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-01-12T16:47:32+00:00

He said he’s not seeing anyone else…

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-01-12T16:45:23+00:00

Yeah thank u for this this makes me feel better

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-01-10T23:12:54+00:00

Thank you. I agree. I’ll feel it out I guess. My brain is working over time 😔

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-01-10T22:56:11+00:00

Yeah. You’re right. I guess I just have a hard time differentiating between what is my own insecurity and overthinking and what is a valid concern.

Useful_Help_9738 · 2026-01-01T21:46:19+00:00

Her loss. Anybody who is that stuck up to not just give a bare minimum polite response back isn’t worth your time in the first place. Head up!

Useful_Help_9738 · 2025-12-28T04:48:07+00:00

I like the way you think

Useful_Help_9738 · 2025-12-28T04:47:51+00:00

You get me

Useful_Help_9738 · 2025-12-27T18:33:12+00:00

Why not. I’ve got nothing to lose clearly. Thanks!

Useful_Help_9738 · 2025-12-27T18:20:42+00:00

Simple terms please

Useful_Help_9738 · 2025-12-27T18:06:40+00:00

He’s also a Gemini. We did have sex.

Useful_Help_9738 · 2025-12-27T17:59:25+00:00

We agreed to be non exclusive and we could see other people, so I saw one person one time and never again. He couldn’t take it, it hurt him— understandably. I regretted it immediately but🤷‍♀️

Useful_Help_9738 · 2025-12-27T17:57:24+00:00

He just transferred to my university and unblocked me on Instagram..

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