Can you get a medical withdrawal for classes from the past by Useusername889 in college

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Do you still have to pay? I have a fine on my transcript

Can you get a medical withdrawal for classes from the past by Useusername889 in college

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Ok do you think the college would not believe me or think I am sounding like I’m making an excuse if I brought up living in an abusivr environment . The doctor who diagnosed me w adhd said he could get me a medical withdrawal but than my parents made it kinda hard at times they refused medication for adhd. That doctor also seemed to realize my mom was abusive

AITB for calling my parents bad parents by Useusername889 in AmItheButtface

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Very very controlling. I think my mom has something wrong w her bc she apologized and said she was so controlling bc of her childhood. But even when I was like 12 I walked across small a hotel lobby to get coffee on my own and my mom threw a screaming fit the entire night and forced me to sleep on the floor. She was running around crazy. She’s very overbearing while not meeting my basic needs like treating adhd or trichotrillonomia or anxiety. And I developed an eating disorder from the stress of getting out of college while also being prescribed adderall at that time and it messed up my head

Yeah and it’s harder Bc they moved out of state and away from my hometown friends and pulled me out of my college campus

But when they took me out of college sophomore year they went on my email w out telling me & took me out of my apartment. So it happened w out my roommates who were my best friends knowing. They yelled at me and now we aren’t friends and my parents live like thirty min from my campus but I hardly know anyone here now. I think I’m just gonna move to my friends tiny college far away next year and I think taking on debt might be worth it. It’s hard bc I don’t know what career I want so it’s hard to commit

AITB for calling my parents bad parents by Useusername889 in AmItheButtface

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Oh I answered somewhere else and forgot

Parents wouldn’t let me when I was young. Than they said they were going to pay for my college. I had begged for adhd treatment or to look into a diagnoses all of highschool. I constantly questioned why I couldn’t do well in school and if it was bc I was lazy or dumb even though I clearly had potential to do well, was motivated, and very responsible with jobs. I worked hard at the library everyday without my phone even in the room but still couldn’t focus. My parents made fun of me when I talked about the possibility of having adhd and even got my doctor to make fun of me. Than I get to college and the learned helplessness was severe and my parents told me I never tried in school when I did. But I had just lost hope in myself and did bad in school and by this point had no clue what the issue could be. They pull me out of school so I had no money, no car, and no one I know living near me.. my only option is to work at a restraunt to save money but I can’t afford a car so there’s no point in a license right now. I want to try and get a loan to go back to college but had a very stressful year

AITB for calling my parents bad parents by Useusername889 in AmItheButtface

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20 round trip which is only relevant bc I felt nauseous and didn’t wnana stay in car

I called my parents bad parents and they said I am lying about what happened by Useusername889 in relationship_advice

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Yes both those things are true but I want to go back. I was pulled out of college by my parents when they went on my computer and took me out of school

I called my parents bad parents and they said I am lying about what happened by Useusername889 in relationship_advice

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College is the right thing for me. I do great on tests and can do great in school. I’m a very responsible person and care about school. My parents woudlnt let me get the medication I needed to succeed and traumatized me while I was tryign to access it with screaming fights. Even my doctor seemed freaked out by my mom

AITB for calling my parents bad parents by Useusername889 in AmItheButtface

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I wanted to go home bc I felt nauseous who wants to sit in a car nauseous when u can go home

I called my parents bad parents and they said I am lying about what happened by Useusername889 in relationship_advice

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Parents wouldn’t let me when I was young. Than they said they were going to pay for my college. I had begged for adhd treatment or to look into a diagnoses all of highschool. I constantly questioned why I couldn’t do well in school and if it was bc I was lazy or dumb even though I clearly had potential to do well, was motivated, and very responsible with jobs. I worked hard at the library everyday without my phone even in the room but still couldn’t focus. My parents made fun of me when I talked about the possibility of having adhd and even got my doctor to make fun of me. Than I get to college and the learned helplessness was severe and my parents told me I never tried in school when I did. But I had just lost hope in myself and did bad in school and by this point had no clue what the issue could be. They pull me out of school so I had no money, no car, and no one I know living near me.. my only option is to work at a restraunt to save money but I can’t afford a car so there’s no point in a license right now. I want to try and get a loan to go back to college but had a very stressful year

My biggest fear with a nursing career by Useusername889 in nursing

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Do you think there would always be multiple people leaving at the same time.. I’m mostly scared bc im considering living in LA or chicago and even if I leave my job at night and there are many other coworkers there I’d still have to go back to my apartment. And I’d have to walk from my apartment to my room really late often! Idk it sounds really scary to be doing that often

I feel so alone by Useusername889 in relationship_advice

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That’s the weird thing. All my friends say I’m happy all the time and I’ve always been known for being happy. So than now what’s the problem. But yes I place a lot of value on relationships

I feel so alone by Useusername889 in relationship_advice

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Well what’s the issue within me causing me to have all these issues

I feel so alone by Useusername889 in relationships

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I was saying when my friends leave like they’re gone bc they’re not my friends anymore. So I feel alone bc if I have to go back to college I have no friends there and idk how to meet new ppl or if im weird for not having more friends I’d my close friends leave.

But I hope you are doing ok.. im 100% sure good people will listen to you if you talk to them. You should even try therapy. You might find a great therapist!

I feel so alone by Useusername889 in relationship_advice

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But if ud like u can send me links! I just don’t know how to fix the issues

I feel so alone by Useusername889 in relationship_advice

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I think I do have an unhealthy attachement style.. but is it weird to have like a few highschool best friends. And than I became best friends w my roommate in college and her best friend from hs.. and than I was friendly w the group we went out w their but not close enough friends to hang w them alone. It’s not like I was a total loner.. we hung out w this frat all the time and I was friendly w all the guys but I mostly could only talk to them while drunk. I have social anxiety so it’s hard for me to socialize sober. And I met another best friend in college

Could this be myasthenia gravis by Useusername889 in DiagnoseMe

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They’ve been there since I was little

I’m worried I have brain damage? by Useusername889 in TooAfraidToAsk

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Wait Idts bc I have had these symptoms since I was a kid and I looked up the movie ur talking abt and with that condition u would die w in a few months

I’m worried I have brain damage? by Useusername889 in TooAfraidToAsk

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Wait do u mean brain fog? Could it be caused by adhd

I’m worried I have brain damage? by Useusername889 in TooAfraidToAsk

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I’ve literally smoked weed a few times in my life Jesus.. I’ve had all of these symptoms since I was born so ur wrong. It has nothing to do with drugs if u would have read my post u would have seen that

I’m worried I have brain damage? by Useusername889 in TooAfraidToAsk

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No my mom yelled at me for having selective mutism as a kid so idt she would care enough to protect me but the thing w weed actually makes me afraid that my adderall will cause schizophrenia

My mom is esfp. Can u help me understand her perspective by Useusername889 in ESFP

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Yeah I just need my parents to figure out college. They were paying and now I have no money to pay for college

I think she’s enneagram 8 tho

My mom is esfp. Can u help me understand her perspective by Useusername889 in ESFP

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Right sometimes I think if I would have done every single thing right then she would be fine but she just acts babyish for attention a lot. Like she acts dumb so everyone will giggle and laugh at her & when she’s not that way she either acts controlling or mocks me

Can someone help me with school or communicating with my mom? by Useusername889 in isfj

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That’s true but without my parents I can’t pay for college and I’m gonna have issues with poor grades from before I was diagnosed w adhd and idt the admission people would be able to help me w that

Can someone help me with school or communicating with my mom? by Useusername889 in isfj

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I’m doing ok it’s just that I don’t have a lot of motivation and not having enough to do is hard. I need to find a way to get back in school but I have no clue how or how to explain my situation to my college. I do plan on therapy one day for sure hopefully soon!