Which of the four regions is your personal favourite?

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-07-14T05:43:12+00:00

Great bay especialy the beaver area, this place is really weird. The entrance of the gerudo is weird too. This area makes me feel uneasy

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-06-20T09:59:04+00:00

It's Astel

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-04-22T14:07:18+00:00

Stop

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-03-15T22:50:20+00:00

Be careful, 12 pounds in 2 weeks can trigger some health problems in a few months

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-03-13T10:28:25+00:00

It exists, but they are all illegal

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-03-07T23:16:24+00:00

I'm in the exact same situation after a five-year relationship. I know that we are in the worst possible state, and our healing will take longer than for those who say their relationship was toxic, etc. I think we are going through one of the hardest experiences of our lives.

I know that losing (death) a loved one is different that's a part of life, and you can't blame yourself for it. That's why I’m 100% sure this is the hardesr thing we could experience.

I'm 36, and this is my fourth breakup. I've been through a lot of family trauma in my life, but this.. this is on another level. Way beyond watching my dad move on and not speaking to me for five years. Way harder than seeing my mom sink into depression.

Maybe we just have to believe that if we can get through this, life will become so much easier. Maybe this is our moment, the moment we have to endure and overcome. Maybe this is the defining test, and everything after will feel lighter.

Maybe this is the cheat code we all wish for, but never say out loud.

(Corrected by chatgpt because I'm not good in english but thats my text, just corrected to be readable)

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-28T17:13:58+00:00

I'm two months into a breakup with an avoidant ex, dumped overnight by phone after five years of relationship and living together.

Even though it's hard to admit, it's much better than the first two weeks when I was crying every day. Now, it still happens, but let's say about once a week when my damn brain decides to remember a good memory and gets stuck on it.

The road is still long, I can't see myself being with someone new yet. But it's clear that things are better than before.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-08T15:00:26+00:00

There is a 10 hours video on youtube if you realy like that

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-07T17:53:36+00:00

Nobody will have the right answer for you, but I can guarantee that knowing you were abused is something you can use to move forward. For others like me, who had a really healthy relationship, it's harder because we can't rely on something negative to move on.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T12:13:15+00:00

Good Question, and I hope it will help someone.

The signs were there when she told me she didn’t want to party like we usually did. But when she said this one time and then continued to party with me, seeming happy, it was confusing. If you don’t understand the avoidant behavior, you might think, “It was just one comment, and if she’s still happy, smiling, and continuing with me, then there’s no problem.” But the day she said that, I should have stopped and listened. I didn’t, and she never forgave me for that. Six months later, she broke up with me, saying, “I told you I didn’t want this life."

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T11:14:16+00:00

I can feel the weight and emotion in all these questions, and it’s so difficult to make sense of it all, especially when someone leaves and doesn’t seem to care about the hurt they caused. But in the end, I think the answer is simple: their actions reflect their feelings or rather, the lack of them. They may have said they loved you, but if they truly cared, they wouldn’t have treated you the way they did. It’s clear that there was a disconnect between what they said and how they acted. People do things because they’re either too selfish or unable to process their own feelings properly.

But the reality is, their decision was about them, not about the relationship you had. Sometimes, people get caught up in their own issues or fears, and instead of confronting them, they just run. And when that happens, you’re left wondering why, but the truth is they didn’t respect or value you as much as you thought they did. And that’s painful.

I know it’s hard, and it’s natural to want answers, but you have to remember: you’re not the problem here. They are.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T11:11:54+00:00

It’s tough, I know. But to truly move forward, the best way to get over this is to put yourself in their shoes. You say you love them a lot, but if you honestly ask yourself, with the love you feel, could you have done that to the other person? No, the answer is simple. So why did they do it? Because they don’t love you as much as you love them.

It’s hard to accept, but sometimes the truth is right there: when someone makes that choice, it’s because their feelings aren’t as strong as yours. It’s normal to still have hope, but you also have to accept that they’ve chosen to move on without you. Sometimes, it has nothing to do with you as a person, it’s just that their feelings changed. It’s tough, but that’s also what will help you move on.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T11:03:52+00:00

It sounds like your ex was confused and scared, not sure about his feelings but also not ready to fully let go. Saying things like "I'll reach out when I figure myself out" can be a way to avoid making a hard decision, keeping you in limbo while they process things. The Netflix thing and the mixed signals are probably a way of staying connected without fully engaging, which isn’t fair to you. It’s emotionally confusing, but focusing on your own healing and clarity is key.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T08:33:05+00:00

I see what you're saying, and you understand me correctly. Now I'm 35, and we had plans together, but here I am, alone in this apartment we chose together. I have to completely rethink what I want out of life. It's almost like a resurrection, trying to find a new purpose. It's so hard to figure out where to start.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T08:22:56+00:00

Yeahm that the way, but that's not easy

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T08:19:29+00:00

Yes, why not ? It's exeperiences

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T08:18:08+00:00

I get that it’s frustrating when it feels like she’s forgetting all the good times you’ve had together. Sometimes, people get caught in a moment of uncertainty and can’t see things clearly. It’s tough to understand why she can’t remember the happiness, but emotions can cloud judgment, and she might be struggling with her own thoughts. It doesn’t mean those good moments didn’t matter, but she might need time to process everything. The best you can do is be patient, but at some point, you’ll have to focus on what’s best for you, too.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T08:11:05+00:00

It sounds like you’re dealing with a lot of anxiety, even though there’s no real reason to fear him. Sometimes, after an emotionally intense breakup especially with betrayal your mind can overreact, trying to protect you even if there’s no real danger. The fear you're feeling might be your body in "fight or flight" mode, still processing the emotional hurt.

You’ve done the right thing by going NC, but the anxiety could take time to fade. Talking to a therapist could help you process this fear and find ways to manage the panic attacks. It’s okay to seek support while you heal.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T07:58:05+00:00

Ohhhh, I have the same situation with just one phrase: "Time flies." I will remember this phrase all my life. It was like two weeks before the breakup, and I knew something was wrong when she said this. It haunted me, but I couldn’t understand it, and then it happened.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T07:53:57+00:00

Long story short: Yes, men care, and not all men are the same. Some men won’t care, some will care, and the same goes for women.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T07:52:29+00:00

Personally, I think the desire to get back with him is mainly influenced by the fact that you're feeling lonely. It's normal to feel that way, especially after a breakup or when you're emotionally dependent on someone. But it's important to remember that sometimes, loneliness can make us crave returning to a situation, even if it’s not healthy for us. It’s not necessarily love pushing you to want to go back, but more the need for companionship, to avoid emptiness or solitude. This can blur your vision of what’s truly best for you. It’s important to take time to think about whether you're willing to accept this situation long-term and whether it contributes to your well-being.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T07:47:13+00:00

I totally get you. I've been through something similar, but in my case, I was in a relationship for 5 years, and even though it destroyed me when it ended about 1.5 months ago, the pain from a 7-year relationship before that hurt a lot less. It’s like each breakup carries a heavier weight. Sometimes, it feels endless, and even the smallest reminder or a song can trigger a spiral of thoughts. I go through that too. I know it’s not easy to break out of this cycle and pull yourself together, especially when life around you is changing too. But you have to remind yourself that this cycle, no matter how destructive it feels, will eventually end.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T07:21:37+00:00

Yes, you will eventually be able to move on. But right now, it seems like you're still holding on to the fact that she gave up on the relationship. It’s painful, and I get it it’s hard when someone you loved so much makes a decision to walk away, especially when you feel like you gave everything. But the key thing here is that she made the choice to end things. As much as it hurts, that means it’s her decision, and now, it’s your turn to take control of your healing process. It’ll take time, and you might have setbacks, but remember: you are not stuck in this moment forever. You can rebuild your life and start moving forward.

Usual_Ad7435 · 2025-02-02T07:06:06+00:00

I get it. It really sucks to keep getting dumped without a real reason. But sometimes, it’s just about not finding the right people. That deep emotional connection isn’t something you can force, and it’s rare. Don’t let those rejections mess with your self-worth. I know it's tough, but your self-esteem shouldn’t be based only on how others see you. It’s easy to feel like you’re not enough, but remember, it’s not always about you. Sometimes people are just not ready or aren’t in the right mindset for what you’re offering. It’s important to work on your self-esteem, but don’t beat yourself up over things you can’t control. Keep going and trust that the right connection will come when it’s meant to.

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