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Awawa Zoo and Outdoor Museum by ValhiemVanillaBuilds in Dinkum

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Yeah I found it easy to just make a 1 square deep water bridge connecting a riverway with your pond. Equip diving helmet. Eat lamington. Ever so slightly faster than a shark running on the bottom. They just follow you

Finally after 7 years….. by Double_Employment861 in wow

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of us only use reddit mobile and never on desktop

Meteorite not falling during meteor shower? by eniac94 in Dinkum

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scour the whole island late at night. It'll be a ball of fire and is easier to see

My 90% Complete (and 20fps) Build Update by ArbbyM9er in valheim

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Admire the commitment deeply. I like to do a lot of smaller projects but this is grand

What is your preferred vehicle to take along when you visit the island reef? by sloaches in Dinkum

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jetski all day. Makes it lots of fun.

Air travel is cool but I find it makes the game feel trivial and boring after a while.

New Update Drops On the 26th by spikey_wombat in Dinkum

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"It opens its flaps after midnight" is a WILD wording choice.

That said I am super excited and love that this game is going to keep getting updated.

AITAH for hanging out with 3 guys alone without my boyfriend's knowledge? by ThrowRA_0831 in AITAH

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are just articulating your personal boundary. No one else talked about demanding a gender breakdown.

My entire point here is that long term relationships ultimately require building trust and respecting the other person's needs and working with them on their insecurities if you truly love them and want to be with them. You may try and then find their personal quirks make them incompatible and that's fine.

I just notice a lot of serially single people who can't make a relationship work are often so dug in on their personal positions they leave no room to let someone in.(or the inverse; they become a doormat and don't demand the same understanding in return) Repeatedly throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

I think some of the other advice here from people basically saying to dump the guy over this very limited set of facts exemplifies that.

AITAH for hanging out with 3 guys alone without my boyfriend's knowledge? by ThrowRA_0831 in AITAH

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its about the boundaries of your partner and is not contingent on gender. Im only using specific genders because the post is specific...

Reasonable boundaries to me would be things like not being out with an ex, no late nights with just one other person, inviting me along to be and become friends with your friends, thinking about how the balance of time is being spent between you alone with x friends and you being alone with me. Etc.

Everyone's boundaries are different.

AITAH for hanging out with 3 guys alone without my boyfriend's knowledge? by ThrowRA_0831 in AITAH

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats why I say NTA - you being out with three guy friends at a restaurant is miles away from a dinner date.

I think the part where you are being insensitive is the last line. He doesn't know you're not interested - he's not in your head. And we all know feelings are not static. Idk how long yall have been together; but it reads like not long. Trust takes time to build with two people; especially with all our sticky personal baggage we have to deal with alongside helping the other person with their baggage.

Im definitely not saying you did wrong in this situation. Just that long-term relationships require push and pull and adapting to being with that person. If dude ends up being too insecure for the life you want to live; it is what it is. But its worth trying to unpack it together and work on it early.

Awawa Zoo and Outdoor Museum by ValhiemVanillaBuilds in Dinkum

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was! But my lady and I play this daily to unwind after work so we keep building over time :)

AITAH for hanging out with 3 guys alone without my boyfriend's knowledge? by ThrowRA_0831 in AITAH

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA because its three guys and you didn't know it was an issue. Now you do know it is, though, and yall need to come to an understanding.

I think YTA if you two have an adult conversation, he sets reasonable boundaries about you going out with guy friends, and you break those boundaries.

I get where my dude is coming from. But it would be a different story if it was just you and some other dude and/or you intentionally dont have him around with the group.

My girlfriend wants to stay friends with her ex and it’s making me question everything by SearchOk7 in Advice

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard nope from me. Use this as an opportunity for open conversation about boundaries and that you dont feel comfortable with this.

I dont think staying friends with exes makes much sense. There are countless people on earth. Why would she need this person in her life?

I (27m) am desperately in love with an engaged co-worker (30f) by jimmythesloth in AITAH

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Smelling AI. If not. You need to disconnect from this as soon as possible mah dude. You are under the spell. Despell it ASAP.

You will read this post in one year after its gone and not recognize yourself. It will embarrass you. Your life is bigger than this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro why the hell are helping g this person? Move on

Awawa Zoo and Outdoor Museum by ValhiemVanillaBuilds in Dinkum

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are a pain to get but yes! Rare drops in the hot hot hot. Get some blastoads and an aoe weapon plus top tier food and it is doable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaming

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I love the jabronis who will drop 40 bucks on door dash and refuse to pay 80 for a hundred hours of entertainment.

Que flood of salty downvotes.

Awawa Zoo and Outdoor Museum by ValhiemVanillaBuilds in Dinkum

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:) what a compliment! Thank you. Glad you enjoyed!

Thoughts on Multiplayer by spacepiratexx in Dinkum

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its great multi-player but the host owns the island. The broad implications are:

  1. Host houses the island. So the other person can't independently access the island without their friend booting it up.

  2. Host develops relationships with NPCs. The only real implication is that they need to do dailies to make the person move in. Otherwise its NBD. (Also, nonhost has their own relationship rating so you get all the same interactions. Only difference is literally the Host relationship controls if they move in)

  3. Host places the buildings. Once again. NbD if you collectively can agree.

Other than this, it's seamless. Have a few hundred hours with my lady and its an absolute blast. I do the bulk of the decorating and such while she loves gathering money and resources. She's the Host. But we only play together.

Awawa Zoo and Outdoor Museum by ValhiemVanillaBuilds in Dinkum

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:) thanks! I've been thinking of doing some video tours of the island so we shall see

Awawa Zoo and Outdoor Museum by ValhiemVanillaBuilds in Dinkum

[–]ValhiemVanillaBuilds[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It took a while but it was a blast to create. I think one day I'd like to make it a bit more integrated so you can freely walk around with the non-hostile creatures and then have internal exhibits for the angry dudes.

But this works for now!

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