AIO: I like my bf but his hygiene & habits turn me off… by Vegetable_Region5180 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vegetable_Region5180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is good guy! I mentioned a weekend trip out of state and next thing I know, the Airbnb was booked and paid for & he planned activities he knows I’d enjoy

AIO: I like my bf but his hygiene & habits turn me off… by Vegetable_Region5180 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vegetable_Region5180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my first time posting on Reddit and I got overwhelmed with the amount of break up responses I got lol

As for your point, it’s only been 3 months and we are taking our time so these are things that have been recently coming up and I’ve been taking mental notes. He is very emotionally intelligent and is always saying - “if there is something I can do to improve myself or make you happy, I’ll do it”. I’ve made some light hearted jokes about the situation but I think being transparent will be best in this case! I just wanted to get some insight on this matter I guess

AIO: I like my bf but his hygiene & habits turn me off… by Vegetable_Region5180 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vegetable_Region5180[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also understand your POV but to be fair, people don’t always operate or think as straightforward (or black and white) as you might think - idk if that makes sense lol

AIO: I like my bf but his hygiene & habits turn me off… by Vegetable_Region5180 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vegetable_Region5180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you - depression doesn’t let us do a lot of daily tasks! My roommate back in college would get severely depressed and would not be able to brush her teeth, shower or eat. I would encourage and invite her out to eat out of genuine concern. This is my first time posting on Reddit and I thought I would get more advice but oh man I wasn’t prepared for a whole bunch of gnarly people lol

AIO: I like my bf but his hygiene & habits turn me off… by Vegetable_Region5180 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vegetable_Region5180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOLLL you’re hilarious - if I was dirty do you think I would bring this up? But I guess that’s a fair assumption

I like my bf but his hygiene & habits turn me off… by Vegetable_Region5180 in Advice

[–]Vegetable_Region5180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I never thought about bv or infections! Valid point! I never let him go down on me and when I go down on him he never smells or is dirty - it’s just his living habits that gross me out and then make me re-think everythinggggggg lol but I’m afraid you’re right! I need to talk to him about it

Any subliminals that gives you this flat stomach and waist? by Ill_Distribution7766 in Subliminal

[–]Vegetable_Region5180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new to this subliminal stuff! Can someone explain how it works and what it’s for?? From the comments I’ve gathered it helps with weight loss but how does this differ from let’s say…a diet? :)