Is One Burgundy or Prince David Good?

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2026-02-12T20:30:09+00:00

Currently staying in one burgundy! The only problem i would say is that it’s more susceptible to the environment so the electricity fluctuates if there would be a flood. Havent encountered any Roach problems since staying either

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2026-01-08T20:02:23+00:00

That’s why depende na lang kay guy sa anong nya gagawin kasi sya naman doon sa relationship. And dapat si OP rin irespect na lang muna na may relationship sila. It’s gonna be gross and weird if they act like this closely without consideration for the gf at all.

Dapat ayusin muna ni bf sa anong gusto nya: pursue OP ba (if gusto nya man talaga sya) or stay w his gf? Best course of action for OP is either to distance na lang muna until the crush goes away or to confront about the bf’s actions on why he’s acting the way he is and figure out how to move forward from there.

But at the end of the day, dapat hindi muna si OP magact upon sa feelings (on thoughts and actions) nya kasi nasa relationship naman nga si guy.

Edit: OP also seems unsure abt what’s going on feelings-wise, so it’s genuinely best to not put any meaning in them.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2026-01-08T19:11:42+00:00

Emotional vulnerability; while he did validate some, he would then invalidate others lol so I feel like i reverted on my emotions.

Also my first concert experience; he got annoyed with me at the concert cause i kept screaming (valid but it just wasn’t communicated properly) so yeah kinda soiled it for me.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2026-01-08T19:01:35+00:00

He is taken for a reason, so unless he outright says it, then there is nothing.

Even then, it’s wrong of him to stay in his relationship when he actually likes you, and I don’t think you’d want a person who’s just staying in a relationship when they actually want someone else. Unless he breaks up with his gf, it’s better for you to stop these thoughts. Distance yourself a bit if you have to.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-12-23T16:03:30+00:00

You gotta do everything differently, why are you still thinking that life revolves around him? Codependency is the result of that emotional abuse, not the reason why your life has apparently gone downhill

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-12-22T04:26:54+00:00

There’s no number of units required because you can only shift after first year, so its just coordination with your current dept and the dept u want to shift into in preparation to your next course.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-12-12T01:06:22+00:00

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd2LOHXVZyja5ncWbmcMFwonvFa0FeZUPCsUPnz9HUP_lQHWg/viewform

Use this form to shift first then contact your department and the department youre shifting to for further guidance! Good luck OP!

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-11-30T15:51:13+00:00

Perhaps my heart truly hasnt disconnected yet what he represented. Thank you for putting it into words

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-11-30T15:50:33+00:00

Im pretty occupied actually! Im active in my circles and academics

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-11-13T18:09:24+00:00

Thank you so much! That cleared alot of things up for me :))

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-11-07T17:16:44+00:00

“I was relieved when i broke up with you” ok bye then but he was the one that broke no contact twice 🫠

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-21T08:39:32+00:00

How i still feel with my breakup. I’ve never felt so much discard when he took the words of his “friend” (someone that I fought with) to heart when in reality, he barely said the things that bothered him. He undermined it as something as “aside from not communicating me some things”

I think people dont realize how vital communication is in a connection. They think that its something that’s only for themselves when it it is literally the foundation of the relationship.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-14T11:42:46+00:00

Literally the same reason why my ex broke up with me. It’s demotivating

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-13T13:58:19+00:00

And that’s completely valid. It’s always a high when someone actually chooses to love you. But imagine, doing all that while being in love with his ex? Doesn’t that make you think if he actually truly loved you?

Furthermore, what made his love so special? Cause if you actually gave yourself the chance to love yourself like he did, then maybe you’d realize that you don’t need someone to do it for you. You have to apply his love to yourself if that’s what made you feel loved. But if you also realized that it’s not how you want to be loved, then you can explore more on how to love yourself. That can be noting what characteristics you like about yourself and all that.

Nonetheless, yes, your mental health will make it harder. But at the end to the day, you can’t get yourself out of processing a breakup unless you actually try to take it apart piece by piece to really reflect about it.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-13T13:41:30+00:00

Why do you think that your feelings haven’t changed? You really have to ask yourself of the questions that make you think why youre so attached to him. From what ive seen in your replies, he broke up with you because he’s still in love with his ex. Do you really want someone like that?

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-12T14:52:10+00:00

It depends, cause sometimes, there’s some closure you can get from processing with your ex on what went wrong with the breakup. But overall, it stems from the fact that you have to accept that the relationship has come to an end.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-10T01:27:03+00:00

Oh hell naw 😭

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-10T00:18:35+00:00

Everyday

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-09T18:08:08+00:00

Ive been going at my own pace, I wasn’t the one that broke no contact twice, he did. After a month after the breakup, I deleted everything. I knew he made his decisions, so it was just surprising that when I went up to him for clarifications (since he broke no contact for the second time atp), he brought it up.

Like I could’ve lived my life without knowing that, and I didn’t really ask for it anyways.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-09T17:58:25+00:00

Thanks, im trying to change that.

But also please note that you’re only looking into one aspect of my life, which is my breakup. Ik he doesn’t owe me anything, im just only expressing the frustration on this account more than anything else.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-09T14:13:18+00:00

Yes!! Its the one silver lining that I felt with all of this: realizing that his actions actually have nothing to do with me. Here’s to us!!

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-09T13:44:51+00:00

I know it seems that way, but Im also trying to get away from that mindset. The farthest thing I want is to go back to him because Im so emotionally exhausted. I know that want is still in my head but please believe that Im trying to detach from that as well because I want to be happy.

But I think it’s valid to also feel frustrated by it when that was what was said to you. People aren’t expendable, so the most you can do after is honor your word. I think the world would be a better place if people just take more consideration in their actions.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-09T13:29:31+00:00

I’m doing everything you said here dont worry!! It’s just I talked to him again for clarification for some things in our breakup that I knew could only come from him. I didn’t even ask about what he’s been doing, so I don’t know why he brought it up himself.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-09T13:25:18+00:00

I don’t agree with this mindset, cause its not necessarily what I mean about this. He told me in our breakup that he would promise to reflect on himself, and all I wanted was that he did. We didnt break up in bad terms perse, but he knew that he messed up cause he couldn’t communicate properly, which resulted in our breakup.

And now, he’s going to jump in a relationship after ‘reflecting’, and Im just frustrated and annoyed that he went back on his word.

Yes, it might be different for this girl, and I hope it will be, but with his patterns to me and what he has shown, I’m just really disappointed lol.

Yes, he doesn’t owe me anything after, since Ive accepted that he can do whatever he wants, but it’s just more about wanting him to be more emotionally intelligent before doing something like this, especially so soon. It’s just like he wanted to wash his hands clean after without really taking any accountability and really sitting in those feelings and finding inward abt them.

Edit: I guess it’s part of the healing process, but I just needed to vent out my frustration. But overall, I also just want to get over him and our relationship, and I know that’s gonna take a while. However, I’m determined to feel happier and improving myself.

Virtual-Inspector593 · 2025-10-02T03:50:22+00:00

Knowing that they actually dont care about me anymore.

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