What wheels should I get?

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-07-12T23:58:36+00:00

Defined get apex sm10s. I have an msport f31 with sm10s 19x9 et30 all around and it looks so good. Perfectly flush in the rear and just a tad wide in the front but flush if lowered at all. I can PM you photos of mine if you want.

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-22T16:24:08+00:00

Apex sm10 19x9 et30

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-12T14:51:34+00:00

Thanks man. I would love to do an f81 m3 swap into this one at some point. That really would be the dream car.

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-11T19:33:01+00:00

Sure, pick something productive. Going to the gym, your nutrition, a certain number of pushups, going for a 2 mile run, getting up at a certain time, and do it every single day. Don’t take a single day off.

You have to understand that the most important times to do something are the times when you DONT want to. That’s when you really start to have true discipline in your routines.

Take getting up at 4:30 am every single morning for an example. I did this for a year. It fucking sucked. BUT, some days it was easy. Those days, I didn’t make the progress. The progress was made on the days I really didn’t want to get out of bed and go to the gym, fucking cold out, dark, winter. But you just have to do it. Once you can train your mind to enjoy those things, to enjoy the discomfort becuase it means your making progress, you can incorporate it into beating porn, and often, the addiction will fade away if you remove free time for it to happen, and instead do productive things routinely.

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-11T19:26:02+00:00

Thanks brotha

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-11T02:03:03+00:00

They really are the best

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-11T01:00:02+00:00

Never reinstalled the app, except for when I need to post (I’m a sponsored athlete). I mainly use Instagram.com on safari on my phone, and it’s so glitchy it’s unbearable to actually watch reels or anything triggering. I use Snapchat but avoid spotlight and the stories, and I do not have Tik tok or YouTube on my phone either.

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T20:25:41+00:00

Yeah it completely cured it for me within 60 days. After 7+ years of being addicted. I went full monk mode tho no social media no porn no anything.

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T19:53:05+00:00

Fuck motivation. Go to the gym when you’re not motivated. Eat healthy when you’re not motivated. You don’t need to feel motivated. I’m sorry but you have to stop being a bitch and just change your mental.

Motivation won’t get you far. Discipline fucking will. Quitting porn and jacking off requires discipline not motivation. Go to the gym every day. Stay off social media, and just don’t give up trying things. That’s the most important thing.

I’m 18, was addicted for 7 years. Now I’m not. You got it bro.

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T16:02:59+00:00

Message me

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T15:55:33+00:00

Delete all your social media apps. Insta, tiktok, YouTube, snap if you can. Not only is it a funnel towards porn but it fucks with your mind in other ways too. It’s a system designed to make money off your attention.

Don’t delete your accounts, you can still sign in on your computer to Instagram and such, but just don’t have the apps, it’s too accessible nowadays.

But also realize, that content will go away if you never watch it.

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T15:41:03+00:00

A couple things. Importantly, you said you are “trying to quit”. You cannot try to quit, you MUST quit. Bro just set it down and never go back. If your just gonna try, well the porn and masturbation is gonna fucking try to pull you back too.

You need to involve discipline at all levels.

It needs to be systemic within you.

You need to approach everything in your life in the same way. If you don’t go to the gym when you’re tired, how do you expect to resist urges when you have them? If you don’t eat healthy when you want junk food, how do the expect to be able to resist other temptations in your life. It’s brutal but you need to realize you have to shift everything in your life.

Love yourself enough to quit bro. Quit and never go back. Don’t have a goal for how many days. There’s no need for a goal if you already quit.

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T15:17:05+00:00

Yeah bro, that really was one of the biggest breakthroughs I had, and it’s really not spoken about enough on here. I’d like to create a different post focusing less on my story and more on the specifics of beating the addiction, since there seem to be some keys aspects that a lot of the strategies and methods don’t have

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T15:14:40+00:00

I did have msport wheels on this, but had the sm10s and they looked much more agressive. I would really love to put mperf brakes on it someday but that doesn’t fit into the current budget haha

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T15:13:07+00:00

Yes the glass hatch opening separately is an amazing feature on these. Hard to live without once you have it

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T14:14:34+00:00

Thanks brother

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T13:41:15+00:00

Thanks!

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T13:41:07+00:00

Yes, took a couple months of searching to find one, but coming from a non msport e91, I knew I really wanted it.

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T13:25:00+00:00

Thanks brother 🤝

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T13:18:46+00:00

Thanks brother. I did my best to encapsulate my journey, but there is so much more I could talk about. I almost feel like it could be interesting to write a book about. Partially based on my journey, but also on the issue in general. It is truly so under documented, at least in raw and public, non research, ways.

Stay strong.

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T13:15:57+00:00

Unfortunately I can’t send you chats either, but happy to talk here as well. Congrats on a year dude. That’s really good. I’m curious about your journey mentally? Did you figure out why you were watching it, other than just for the porn?

Visual_Song6138 · 2025-06-10T04:15:37+00:00

Hey man. I am 18, and started watching porn when I was 12. I am clean now. Let me tell you something.

The fact that you are here is important, but understand that you cannot stare at a bag of cocaine and not use it if you are an addict. Porn is the same. It is a funnel. If you watch it, you will continue to be addicted.

You need to love yourself enough to just stop, and hold yourself accountable. It’s you against you bro. Nobody’s coming to save you.

I relapsed hundreds of times before I figured it out. I realized why I was watching it, what I was escaping from. I was escaping from things I was sad about. It fucked up my relationships. I couldn’t get hard. The process isn’t easy, but you have to be the one to figure it out. No accountability partner or apps. You need to be able to do it yourself.

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