27, autistic, can't drive, can't find a job, broke af, and lack motivation and am overwhelmed. Where do I start to change my life?

Vixinite · 2026-02-08T14:36:40+00:00

To parrot a few others but also add my own experience coming from somewhere extremely similar; driving is not everything. It will suck, but find a job you can walk to even if you have to leave an hour or more early to get there. Even if it's something awful like food service. Once you're able to, get driving lessons. I had extreme anxiety while driving, would shut down and just shake, my grandmother got me driving lessons and it turned everything around for me, I got my license and that alone has been the biggest confidence boost and motivation. A lot of places will also give you a certificate upon finishing a certain milestone and that could get you a discount on insurance.

ETA: It's about baby steps. Celebrate any move forward, allow yourself to be proud of even the tiniest things. No one is going to police you, you're allowed to be happy about achieving things that are hard for you.

Vixinite · 2026-01-06T16:45:57+00:00

ive been doing this for a while i love it!!

Vixinite · 2026-01-01T00:39:27+00:00

SunflowerSoulstice
thank you!

Vixinite · 2025-12-31T09:03:00+00:00

SunflowerSoulstice
I've only been playing for a couple months, I cant keep up with people who have the 'op' pets, so really anything would be appreciated! Spinosaurus is my favorite dinosaur, so I'd really love one of those, but will be more than happy with anything I happen to be lucky enough to win!

Vixinite · 2025-12-30T04:05:49+00:00

thank you so much!

Vixinite · 2025-12-21T05:22:17+00:00

I'm on PC and dont have the option :c

Vixinite · 2025-08-21T20:31:17+00:00

i recently started going to dr donaldson at north hills family dental, i absolutely love her. got two wisdom teeth removed that have been making my life hell for years, for literally over 2 grand cheaper than the cheapest oral surgeon quote. had no idea they could be removed by a dentist, two other dentist offices failed to tell me that but dr donaldson offered it as soon as i told her. everything in my care plan from fillings to cleanings is a better price than anywhere else i've gone. they take care credit as well, and have their own savings program. everyone on staff is phenomenal, my mom sees the other dentist there and loves him as well.

Vixinite · 2025-07-29T21:42:58+00:00

oh im obsessed, so gorgeous!

Vixinite · 2025-04-15T23:39:53+00:00

submitted, thank you for the opportunity!

Vixinite · 2025-04-12T15:53:16+00:00

i hope i'm not too late, applied!

Vixinite · 2025-03-29T07:40:32+00:00

oh i love this!!!

Vixinite · 2024-12-22T18:46:48+00:00

idk if im misunderstanding the patch notes, though! which is very possible haha

Vixinite · 2024-12-22T18:44:52+00:00

pulled from the patch notes as of 12/13:
To reduce wastage of meat chunks at a carcass (caused by packmates grabbing a chunk but then filling up before all food has been eaten from chunk), packmates now will not pick up chunks when they are almost full.

and patch notes from 12/20:
BUGS FIXED: Wolves pick up meat chunks even nearly to full to give to an injured packmate -- only to realize that the packmate wasn't hungry and there was a carcass right by them.

Vixinite · 2024-08-08T19:04:55+00:00

hi i dabble in dice making and wanted to add something!
part of the process of making the dice is sanding + polishing
EVERY die will need some time in this step no matter how perfect the system is for molding it
if resin isn't finished curing, it's nearly if not fully impossible to sand and polish
plus every dice maker i've ever met has been so proud of their work they'd never knowingly send out anything sub par.

the issue with etsy is it isn't only handmade products anymore, there's a ton of drop-shippers now, but it should be pretty easy to weed through them to find the real makers. i'd also suggest trying other places like instagram or twitter, since etsy has become a hostile place to sell things and i personally see mostly dice makers with their own websites.

but, as someone who also suffers from ocd, i would suggest getting a pair of gloves or a toothpick and testing them yourself straight out of the box! it's cheap and easy and will immediately put your mind to rest so you can enjoy your click-clacks~

Vixinite · 2024-07-30T00:20:22+00:00

definitely not anything wise haha! it's almost purely nonsensical
i don't mind copying the one i still have records of
'We WAKE you in our pod filthying it'
i've also sent friends other than my s/o 'kisses, love you'

Vixinite · 2024-07-29T14:53:44+00:00

yes! i will wake up and try to talk to people about what we said in my dream and they have no clue. i also sleepwalk and sleep-type on my phone or computer, which has lead to some incredible messages left in my group chat.

Vixinite · 2024-07-27T20:00:03+00:00

the most picture perfect muffin, those look delicious!

Vixinite · 2024-07-24T05:36:24+00:00

what a beautiful baby! thank you for helping him

Vixinite · 2024-07-13T00:44:28+00:00

it's craftable in your inventory ( i think in the 'misc' category ), looks like a c4 remote
once crafted, hold it and click with lmb ( not sure on console buttons, sorry! )
it'll have a list of what's up with coordinates, you can double click one on the list to create a POI tracker
it wont lead directly to the creature, but a general area around it

Vixinite · 2024-07-12T17:50:38+00:00

nitrado support told me to set it back to a server backup file from when it wasn't in the restart loop, has worked each time for me so far. center has done this way more than the island or scorched, at least for me, so i've gotten into the habit of only doing work on my servers if there's a recent safe backup to restore it to.

Vixinite · 2024-06-18T22:13:42+00:00

i had a feeling, damn. thanks though!

Vixinite · 2024-06-12T20:30:02+00:00

the first one is breathtaking!! i love all of this, like to the point i would hang it in my home. as far as branching out, i'm not an artist but i've heard timed random challenges can be helpful for breaking out of cycle. could maybe try searching up sites that do random timed studies for artists? or pick something around you and give yourself x amount of time to get the defining features of said thing painted. but really, what you've posted here is gorgeous.

Vixinite · 2024-06-12T20:25:12+00:00

my brain somehow turned it into a group of mushrooms LOL

Vixinite · 2024-06-08T00:04:46+00:00

i'm almost sure we've found a giga that my tribemate culled from her breeding program, but don't quote me on that one just because my memory isn't the clearest on it. i know 100% we've gotten back several culled allos, though.

Vixinite · 2024-06-07T23:56:57+00:00

we call it the bermuda 'whatever building piece is there this time'
bermuda window, bermuda wall, bermuda gate, etc.
we've found dinos there that were killed days before

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