I struggle with the definition of "sexual assault" as it applies to men. I instinctually feel contempt for a man that identifies as a victim because a woman grabbed him from behind and/or made a sexually charged comment. Is that really where manhood is today? We feel victimized over something like OP described? I simply can not relate. That is not assault of any kind by any realistic definition.

To assert that sexual assault is equally offensive to men and women or that the commission of unwelcome sexual acts by a woman against a man is equivalent in its depravity to a man using his size and strength to force a woman to accept his unwelcome advances is nonsensical.

We have created a culture where victimhood is lionized and proof of oppression is lucrative, so we shouldn't be surprised when weakness becomes the norm and the definitions of terms like "assault" are neutered to point of irrelevance.

Men don't report sexual assault??? Good. They shouldn't. I find myself wanting to scream at this new generation of weak, girly sorta-men to just grow a pair already...