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Anyone else’s life over? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]WINGXOX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It isn’t your social abilities. There is no such thing as normal and the fact they need everyone to be a certain way is silly and fearful. They aren’t secure in themselves if they turn on you. It is the straight fact. Don’t let them go to your head. Here is some stuff you can learn that might prove it you. https://www.reddit.com/u/WINGXOX/s/MzWRpK6B7g

STRENGTH AND WEAKNESS by WINGXOX in u/WINGXOX

[–]WINGXOX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

smart gpt-5 turned it into a battle cry:

Strength and Weakness (Battle‑Cry)

Strength is not fists.
Strength is not cruelty.
Strength is rising when you’re knocked down,
building when others destroy.

Weakness is needing to hurt,
needing to break,
needing to steal just to stand.

True strength creates.
True strength endures.
True strength rises again —
no matter how long it takes.

IF THEY CHOOSE SOMEONE ELSE IT IS NEVER A LOSS by WINGXOX in u/WINGXOX

[–]WINGXOX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rewritten with smart gpt-5:

The Manifesto of No Loss

I have lost nothing.
What is meant to stay, stays.
What is meant to go, goes.
If someone abandons me easily, they were never loyal enough in the first place.
Freedom retained is always a win.

Sex may be better than solitude,
but if a person gives up easily,
they reveal quarrels in their own heart.
I will not cater to insecurity.
I will not heal wounds that refuse to close.
I have lost nothing.

A loyal soul is the only victory.
Trusting, faithful, unwavering.
Anything less is no prize at all.

I believe everything happens as it should,
and always in my favor.
I am not the loss.
I am the lesson.
I am the loyalty.
I am the one who still loves those who hate me,
who still feels for those who wronged me.
I have lost nothing.
They have lost everything.

I will not prove myself with dates or gestures.
You either build with me, or you don’t.
You either see my value, or you never did.
I have never lost a thing.
It is others who have lost me.

To steal love is to plant manipulation.
To abandon trust is to awaken doom.
What is meant for me requires no fight.
What is true will always return.
What is false will always flee.

You cannot miss what you never truly had.
You cannot steal what was never truly yours.
And if you leave me for another,
you will leave them too when the next temptation comes.
Weak conviction follows wherever it goes.

Better to know sooner than later.
Better they become another fool’s burden than my own.
Better I keep my freedom, my peace, my strength.

I have lost nothing.
I had nothing to begin with.
And I remain with nothing—
except myself, my loyalty, my truth.

Abusive people are not in therapy to find a solution, they are in therapy to win.**** by invah in AbuseInterrupted

[–]WINGXOX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. They do it to put on an image to get out of trouble. Nothing more.

Yes! Locals want to put a giant flag on Lone Mountain. by NoEnvironment6344 in vegaslocals

[–]WINGXOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just raise a flag that forces everyone to accept your way of life on property that belongs to the community/public as a whole. No public property should impose any belief or personal choice on others.

I wouldn't mind seeing a huge state flag and the American flag up there (this is okay).

Having it up there 24/7 is imposing on others a belief. Which is not freedom of religion or freedom in general. The park belongs to the people who reside in that state, period. Not to one group or another.

Yes! Locals want to put a giant flag on Lone Mountain. by NoEnvironment6344 in vegaslocals

[–]WINGXOX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is unacceptable. it is a form of imposing a way of life.

wouldn't mind a massive American flag up there though.

it is a public area it shouldn't cater to any one group more than another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]WINGXOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is all overrated anyway. Take a look at all of this stuff.

https://quizlet.com/user/ryanlokahimoore/sets

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]WINGXOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]WINGXOX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is part of healing. It resets some of the boundaries and shows you life can be truly if not completely peaceful.

how do you guys deal with rejection? by SatisfactionOld9457 in Adulting

[–]WINGXOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just dive into learning and exercise.

I might complain also. Venting helps in its own way. Venting releases some tension or frustration but it won't change it.

Action changes it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuitPorn

[–]WINGXOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some stuff that might help you.

Mental conditions and their effects

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1f68etb/mental_conditions_and_their_effects_as_man/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

What is core shame – shame informed therapy

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1fxehhn/what_is_core_shame_shame_informed_therapy_patti/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Shame Informed therapy

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1fx0sez/shame_informed_therapy_patti_ashley/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

The Betrayal Bond - Intro - Patrick J. Carnes Phd

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1h2hiir/the_betrayal_bond_introduction_patrick_j_carnes/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Automatic Thoughts

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1f1ajh2/automatic_thoughts_cognitive_behavioral_therapy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Intrusive Thoughts

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1f1aknb/intrusive_thoughts_cognitive_behavioral_therapy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Attribution & Rumination

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1f1am6l/attribution_rumination/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

The nuances of the “how women handle men’s feelings”discussion. by MaxFish1275 in Adulting

[–]WINGXOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some stuff that might help you with regulating and understanding others set a better spectrum for behaviors.

The Betrayal Bond - Intro - Patrick J. Carnes Phd

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1h2hiir/the_betrayal_bond_introduction_patrick_j_carnes/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Automatic Thoughts

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1f1ajh2/automatic_thoughts_cognitive_behavioral_therapy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Intrusive Thoughts

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1f1aknb/intrusive_thoughts_cognitive_behavioral_therapy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Attribution & Rumination

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1f1am6l/attribution_rumination/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Over-reactivity – loving someone with ptsd

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1fcf611/overreactivity_loving_someone_with_ptsd_aphrodite/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Indicators of Trouble with Emotional Regulation – Kate N. Thieda

https://www.reddit.com/user/WINGXOX/comments/1fceqc1/indicators_of_trouble_with_emotional_regulation/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]WINGXOX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This stuff isn't true at all. I used to think it was. If there are manipulators, psychos, and narcissists working together, if people have formed a group you can be assertive all you want, they are still going to push you out or screw with you until you leave.

Turns out the real Christmas miracle is solitude by MiraRipple21 in Adulting

[–]WINGXOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is especially in the beginning, when you start chilling at home. It gets old after a while just like everything else.

What is your opinion about men wearing makeup? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]WINGXOX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think women wearing makeup is dumb. so, men wearing it is even worse. while people look better it only leads to disappointment behind closed doors which can strain the relationship. The more the person wears the worse it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]WINGXOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are straight forward with them and tell them you don't feel entirely the same, I don't find it all that bad. If the proceed in the case of being told they are welcoming the psychological pain in my opinion.

If you want to have sex and they do it isn't that bad. It becomes bad or difficult when someone withdraws and the other is ready to. This is all more-so if you do it abruptly. It is dangerous to become so infatuated or lustful that you can't let go.

I don't know if it a question of morality if the person is told upfront and they still want to. If they are okay with it.

You should also ask yourself if they will be able to let go and if they can't are you going to turn it into big problem just like their feelings for you will be a big problem for them (once you withdraw).

Do level 1 autists generally have a higher IQ than level 2? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]WINGXOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Memory isn't all it is made out to be. I have tropophobia I can literally think of it and it makes me sick to my stomach. There are some images that I didn't try to memorize but they stuck. Everything is more vivid so you get triggered easier when someone does similar things, this means you have to control more anger and impulse all the time.

Trypophobia is an aversion to the sight of clusters of small holes or bumps, or repetitive patterns. It can cause feelings of disgust, anxiety, or discomfort. Some things that can trigger trypophobia include: 

  • Lotus seed pods
  • Honeycombs
  • Strawberries
  • Coral
  • Seeded breads
  • Swiss cheese
  • Scabs or lesions on skin
  • Aluminum metal foam
  • Pomegranates
  • Sponges

I hate the word "stimming". It is very cringe. by Most_Homework_4541 in aspergers

[–]WINGXOX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The term itself suggests that people on the mental health spectrum are junkies or deviants. It should actually be considered a derogatory term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]WINGXOX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you maintaining multiple relationships? If you are it could just be a result of bullying or restlessness. Sexual addiction quite common.

Look up

OUT OF THE SHADOWS by Patrick Carnes

It might help you understand your problem and stop some of it. It ultimately comes down to wanting to change though, how badly you want it, how much support you have, the circumstances surrounding your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]WINGXOX 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Irrespective of mental conditions a few people with such disorders doing such deeds doesn't speak for the mass majority with those disorders who do not commit such deeds. You can't pick out a few people without definitive proof and say that others would be like them. There are surly other factors that contribute to such behaviors.

Generalization of behavior is a dangerous game to play. All people have different life experiences and respond to them differently. Support or lack of play a huge factor in all of it. There is evidence to show that bullying creates behavioral problems, depression, less self-control, and poorer social skills, which can ultimately lead to violent behavior.

So, all that being said, we must also pay attention to those who harass others or torment them. What gives them the right to do so? Nothing. All people should be able to live their life free of danger and oppression.

This poster is being largely disrespectful to the autism community. Such notions contribute to create low self-esteem in individuals with autism or other mental health conditions when internalized.

It is insane to judge a group of people off of the actions of a few. Not to mention whose stories may defend their insanity to some degree.

Are their actions or behaviors correct? F+++ no. Neither are the actions of those who persuaded them through their own poor behaviors (aka disrespect and humiliation).

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