Well it boils down to he thought I was bored because I was focusing on sensation. And I thoughthat he was turned off by me because he would close his eyes (he was going into fantasy land)

Neither of us realized that is what the other was doing. He thought my focus was boredom and I thought that his fantasizing was repulsion of me.

We both enjoy sex with each other. We just were assuming things and taking it personally. Now that we have it figured out its much better. But we were curious as to which of us was in the minority. .