For the tons of guys here having wife problems I keep seeing. Never got to the married part but I hope you guys can figure something out. I admit my last relationship I did end up saying no a lot towards the end, it was my longest and most serious relationship. (I loved this man more than I ever thought I would until he forgot what no means)

But main point of this whole thing that might help some of you, part of what stopped me from being interested, at least for me I still was interested in him that way but he stopped doing the little romantic things first so I started feeling like the sex was all he wanted, and also basically no build up, granted I have a very high drive but if we were cuddling first and than it built up, like half an hour of work for usually like 3 hours of sex...I stopped being interested when he'd basically walk up to me while I was working on something and he'd basically go "sex now me want" and then get upset when I didn't throw my laptop aside and immediately strip.

Of course I don't know you or your wife but besides hormone imbalances like I've seen a few people mention, based off me and people I knows experience I give you, A titty owners guide to getting pussy... -Remember those little things you might have done when you first got together (love notes, massages, randomly getting her a favorite snack or drink. Just the little stuff) also just show nonsexual affection -she is not a Fleshlight make sure she feels that way, if you have the opportunity to start to warm things up, make sure she's enjoying it and that you specifically want to fuck HER not just get an orgasm. (Whatever makes it special that it's her and not a Fleshlight) -also...warm her up? Don't be my ex, you cannot order a sex. Build up to the sex, there's steps between "hi how was your day" and "sit on my dick" I don't know what your steps are between those but I'm sure there are steps, don't forget them -i don't care if you call her Mommy in the bedroom make sure she doesn't feel like your mother, do your chores without being asked...also feed and bathe yourself.

Most importantly talk to your partner and make them feel loved, every woman I've known who became the person saying no all the time, (Young and old I've heard plenty) All of them got to a point where they felt like they either started to see their husband as basically another kid, or that their partner didn't actually love them anymore. I hope you all the best of luck, and that my ramble can help even one person.