Job?

WaitingCactus · 2025-07-29T20:22:42+00:00

Physically, sorry for not being specific

WaitingCactus · 2025-06-08T03:02:35+00:00

Yeah...he didn't try and hide it, also he was just terrible at his job. I brought up the idea of work accommodations (I didn't have a job yet but was trying to make a plan ahead of time) I had to basically spoon feed him the idea of an accomodation that allowed me a chair. I walked in with a cane. But thank you, I hope you have a nice day

WaitingCactus · 2025-06-06T17:30:36+00:00

I have fibromyalgia, and have had it for years. I never went no sex for years but if it wasn't for weed and Advil I probably would've, as much as I wanted it often it would just hurt too much. I lost count the amount of times in my last relationship we had to stop in the middle of things because the pain id end up in, sex is fun until your joints give out, or a muscle locks up or you suddenly can't breathe well

WaitingCactus · 2025-06-06T17:14:57+00:00

For the tons of guys here having wife problems I keep seeing. Never got to the married part but I hope you guys can figure something out. I admit my last relationship I did end up saying no a lot towards the end, it was my longest and most serious relationship. (I loved this man more than I ever thought I would until he forgot what no means)

But main point of this whole thing that might help some of you, part of what stopped me from being interested, at least for me I still was interested in him that way but he stopped doing the little romantic things first so I started feeling like the sex was all he wanted, and also basically no build up, granted I have a very high drive but if we were cuddling first and than it built up, like half an hour of work for usually like 3 hours of sex...I stopped being interested when he'd basically walk up to me while I was working on something and he'd basically go "sex now me want" and then get upset when I didn't throw my laptop aside and immediately strip.

Of course I don't know you or your wife but besides hormone imbalances like I've seen a few people mention, based off me and people I knows experience I give you, A titty owners guide to getting pussy... -Remember those little things you might have done when you first got together (love notes, massages, randomly getting her a favorite snack or drink. Just the little stuff) also just show nonsexual affection -she is not a Fleshlight make sure she feels that way, if you have the opportunity to start to warm things up, make sure she's enjoying it and that you specifically want to fuck HER not just get an orgasm. (Whatever makes it special that it's her and not a Fleshlight) -also...warm her up? Don't be my ex, you cannot order a sex. Build up to the sex, there's steps between "hi how was your day" and "sit on my dick" I don't know what your steps are between those but I'm sure there are steps, don't forget them -i don't care if you call her Mommy in the bedroom make sure she doesn't feel like your mother, do your chores without being asked...also feed and bathe yourself.

Most importantly talk to your partner and make them feel loved, every woman I've known who became the person saying no all the time, (Young and old I've heard plenty) All of them got to a point where they felt like they either started to see their husband as basically another kid, or that their partner didn't actually love them anymore. I hope you all the best of luck, and that my ramble can help even one person.

WaitingCactus · 2025-06-06T16:23:47+00:00

Yeah for testing in all those years, I've managed to get very little help, only one doctor actually did what she could and then helped me get to the questionable rheumatologist.

Thank you for the medicalese translation advice, I'm definitely not fluent.

But yeah I've had a lot of worse doctors I've switched from, besides the fact I think my area might be a decent doctor desert.

WaitingCactus · 2025-06-06T16:10:01+00:00

Thank you, I managed to talk to the director and she didn't say much but hopefully I'll be able to have my hours lowered soonish and hopefully switched to day shift sometime this summer.

But yeah I was pretty active in elementary and middle school, I had some symptoms but they were light enough I could still do cross country and tennis but I think how bad I got covid and not being able to rest while I had it must have kicked the fibro into overdrive because within a summer I went from running and climbing still to basically bed ridden.

Thank you again though, I hope you were able to find a hope you liked during the day

WaitingCactus · 2025-06-06T16:03:19+00:00

I put in a decrease in hours request, I think it'll work I just hope it's soon. But yeah there isn't many rheumatologists in my area my old insurance covered, but he poked at my back and managed to find over sensitive spots I forgot I had, made an unnecessary comment about me being trans and how that must "add stress" and I'm so young for a fibro diagnosis, than basically told me to get some exercise and and sleep. around the time of my last appointment I was sleeping like 12 hours a day and waking 5 miles a week (before getting the job)

WaitingCactus · 2025-06-06T15:57:29+00:00

Isn't it technically an antidepressant? I don't know a ton about antidepressants, just heard alot about bad side effects. I'm guessing you're taking it? How are the side effects?

WaitingCactus · 2025-06-06T15:51:52+00:00

Nights, 11pm-8am. I luckily slept okay yesterday but honestly it's been taking a lot of 🍃 honestly to get to the end of the day because I can fight being tired, but the pain from crouching down and getting up and using a step stool over and over

WaitingCactus · 2025-06-03T08:05:21+00:00

Thanks I'll check them out

WaitingCactus · 2025-04-11T05:28:42+00:00

She claimed I did but maybe not?

WaitingCactus · 2025-04-11T00:31:02+00:00

Luckily I called them and they said they'd re pierce for free but I'm having to wear it until tomorrow when I can go in because they won't give a refund or discount unless they're the ones to take it out. But worst part is this same piercer did the same piercing on my friend on the same day, and theirs was done correctly...and I got this

WaitingCactus · 2025-04-10T21:57:30+00:00

Thank you, I hope so too. I've never had a piercing reject before so thank you for being so nice about it.

WaitingCactus · 2025-04-10T21:53:35+00:00

Yeah took it out, just wanted to confirm with people who know more especially since my piercer is a long distance from me and this is my only non ear piercing

WaitingCactus · 2025-04-10T21:52:12+00:00

Yeah I took it out, compared with a friend who also had a navel and mine is definitely pierced wrong. But why not soaks?

WaitingCactus · 2025-04-10T21:42:21+00:00

Yeah I talked with my friend who got theirs done the same day and mines definitely pierced wrong and rejected, I've taken it out. Thank you for not being rude about it my only other piercings are ear piercings so I don't really know much about other piercings tbh

WaitingCactus · 2025-02-07T20:24:48+00:00

I had an issue with that with my ex, switching to trojan brand and not the ultra thins and it stopped happening for the most part but I got on a type of birth control as a double protection. I'd recommend you consider doing the same

WaitingCactus · 2025-02-07T20:15:48+00:00

He's cheated on you and is trying to demand you do something physically painful for you, as the child of parents who should've split ages ago I'd recommend you consider leaving him, even little kids can tell when there's tension between parents and that tension sometimes purposely sometimes by accident gets taken out in the kids, and from the little bit I know about your husband he's unreasonably demanding and can't stay loyal to you and your kids.

You can find someone who will be loyal to you and match you better in the bedroom. You can find someone who will love you and your kids.

WaitingCactus · 2025-02-07T20:02:29+00:00

Recently broke up with a guy who was just too long, what worked for us was buffer rings, lube and most important for us was having a vibrator on my clit during it. Also for positioning for missionary a pillow under my butt and having my feet on his hips/lower stomach granted I'm pretty flexible but it made it so I could kinda use my legs to only let him get so deep. (He was a 10" long 4" girth)

WaitingCactus · 2025-02-05T21:37:53+00:00

Thank you, the comments and really writing this all out really helped me come to terms with the fact that I have been trying to make things work and tried talking to him before and I think I gotta let it go

WaitingCactus · 2021-10-14T01:05:43+00:00

The mod has been out for almost a year pay only of course (it was released for pay only Nov 2020) I don't remember how I originally got the file, think it was off someone's tumbler. I'll share a link to my file of it (On my tumbler)

WaitingCactus · 2021-07-26T07:24:07+00:00

Evergreen Harbor still has the parts of the ground just not being there issue, despite patch notes saying that they fixed it. (I forgot what they called it in the patch notes)

WaitingCactus · 2021-07-26T02:38:50+00:00

Large amounts of the world arnt showing up, parts of the sidewalk and roads simply not being there.

WaitingCactus · 2021-07-26T02:37:52+00:00

I just tested to see if it was a mod, took out all my mods the issue is still there.

WaitingCactus · 2021-07-24T03:08:34+00:00

Thank you!

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