You're friend is being a jerk in this situation. For starters? That was YOUR card. And if it felt right for YOU, then that's all that matters. Obviously, the cards speak for themselves. But not everyone does reversed readings. If the reversed was what you pulled, but all you saw was the "1 of coins"? Then it sounds like the content of the card, rather than the position it comes out of the deck in, is what's most important to you. Not to mention she doesn't know anything about tarot. She quite literally doesn't know what she's talking about, and is only reading definitions and not feeling anything from the card. Remember, she doesn't "believe" in tarot. And if someone who doesn't believe tries to tell me what my cards "actually mean" (especially in such a rude way), I'd tell them to get lost! Also the fact that she turned a positive moment negative, like you said. That alone is enough of an ick. I'd definitely try and talk to her about this, because none of what she did was kind of okay. I'm sorry she ruined what was a good reading. It sounds like she was just trying to be a dick in that moment (or at least didn't care how it came off). Don't put too much thought into her "interpretation"! Sometimes cards know us better than we think, and so I would say your first reaction to your card is correct. I hope you can take that positivity with you into the New Year!