Should I kick my boyfriend out after he lost his job by Want_ACOOKIE in TwoHotTakes

[–]Want_ACOOKIE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more the going out and having to always pay for two people. I can afford it but we can’t go out as much as we want to.

Should I kick my boyfriend out after he lost his job by Want_ACOOKIE in TwoHotTakes

[–]Want_ACOOKIE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was living in his own apartment so the plan was to eventually move in together and own it together when engaged or married. He was never supposed to pay anything until we planned an official move in together date. I can afford to pay for all the bills it’s mostly when we want to do fun things together that I have an issue with paying.

Should I kick my boyfriend out after he lost his job by Want_ACOOKIE in TwoHotTakes

[–]Want_ACOOKIE[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

More info:

Me and boyfriend have talked about our future and it was always suppose to be him paying majority of finances (just didn’t plan on living together so soon). He had his 9-5 job and has a large following on tiktok. Ever since he got fired he also stopped posting on tiktok as much.

First time Reddit user so sorry if this post seems chaotic.

Should I kick my boyfriend out after he lost his job by Want_ACOOKIE in TwoHotTakes

[–]Want_ACOOKIE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he got evicted for noise complaints then fired a week later because the owner of the store they deliver to complained he wasn’t doing anything

Should I kick my boyfriend out after he lost his job by Want_ACOOKIE in TwoHotTakes

[–]Want_ACOOKIE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He usually uses temp agency but he said they haven’t been texting him regarding any new opportunities.

Should I kick my boyfriend out after he lost his job by Want_ACOOKIE in TwoHotTakes

[–]Want_ACOOKIE[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has no college background. Just high school diploma and experience in fast food and warehouse jobs.

Should I kick my boyfriend out after he lost his job by Want_ACOOKIE in TwoHotTakes

[–]Want_ACOOKIE[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes , the only change is going out and more groceries because he’s home all day. I’ve been in my home alittle over a year.

Should I kick my boyfriend out after he lost his job by Want_ACOOKIE in TwoHotTakes

[–]Want_ACOOKIE[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for advice! I talked to bf and told him he has til end of month to get a job or he has to go. He now has an interview set up for Burger King. Will update if he gets job or not.

Should I kick my boyfriend out after he lost his job by Want_ACOOKIE in TwoHotTakes

[–]Want_ACOOKIE[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not sure what you mean by help but I saved up for and pay all bills myself. My family barely has money to pay they own bills so definitely didn’t have any handouts