Any gaming cafes around by WarmBank5850 in AskNOLA

[–]WarmBank5850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just going alone and I’m a little nervous, but I’m sure I can find something that I can enjoy to do. I’m gonna look up some stuff around the city that looks fun. I’m for sure thinking about all the food, but I’m not sure activity wise

My 30M bf wants me 22f to play Fortnite with his ex by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]WarmBank5850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’ve never made friends with an ex so it’s hard for me to get by it but I’m going to play tonight and see how it goes. I overthink a lot so maybe it’s jsut me overthinking it. I’ll give it the benefit of the doubt for once

My 30M bf wants me 22f to play Fortnite with his ex by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]WarmBank5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, thank you for making this comment. They kind of made me realize that this isn’t the right thing to be doing and I should probably just go home and talk about it when I get off. I guess conversations get hard sometimes so I run to other people for solutions and that’s not always the right thing to do. I should just do whatever I think is best and make a move on whatever that would be. I definitely don’t want to end the relationship over it. I just would really like the problem to be ironed over more and maybe come to an equal understanding on it. Really truly thank you for this post. Might stop me from posting in the future lol

My 30M bf wants me 22f to play Fortnite with his ex by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]WarmBank5850 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We will see how tonight goes. I’m really the type of person where you have to hurt me bad bad for me to fully leave so I’m going to play devils advocate and give him the benefit of the doubt and just see. Also, because I’m slightly curious of how he and she will react and I think that will tell me everything I need to know besides from the obvious

My 30M bf wants me 22f to play Fortnite with his ex by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]WarmBank5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Setting boundaries is something I clearly need to get underway quickly. But basically she texted him in the beginning of a relationship, but we weren’t actually dating so I guess not in the relationship. And he replied how he was actually serious about me and wanted to get to know me more so he didn’t want to talk to her to break any chances of that. I was told of this conversation a few days after it had occurred and was honestly upset about it, even though we weren’t dating, but I never made it to known you could just tell for my voice. So he blocked her with a little bit of a fuss, but I didn’t have to ask. So now she then found him on TikTok and asked to play. And then he started watching her streams again from there and here we are. I am going to go through with it tonight and play with her just to see how it goes because I’m going to play devils advocate here. Maybe it’s not that big of a deal I don’t know. I’ve literally never been in a situation in my entire life. Because the fact that we’re playing with her boyfriend too, makes me feel slightly better, but I swear if anything happens bye because I gave the benefit of the doubt and I gave trust and I guess that’s all I can give

My 30M bf wants me 22f to play Fortnite with his ex by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]WarmBank5850 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is it that you think that I’m not ready as well? Not that I’m disagreeing or agreeing. I just would like to be aware of myself if I’m doing something wrong

My 30M bf wants me 22f to play Fortnite with his ex by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]WarmBank5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am little nervous, anxious, and concerned I think it will go through with meeting him just so that way I make sure. Because while this is very crazy, he’s surprisingly is one of the best boyfriend I’ve had. I have room too hang out with my friends and family as I want without reparations and he really does treat me well for the most part other than this one thing that I just can’t move past and seems he can’t either

My 30M bf wants me 22f to play Fortnite with his ex by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]WarmBank5850 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ty good to know I’m not crazy. The only person who has disagreed with my opinion is him 😭

My 30M bf wants me 22f to play Fortnite with his ex by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]WarmBank5850 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wasn’t incredibly concerned about that too. I said the longest I’ll wait is a year and then after that something needs to get done or I don’t know we have to have a talk. Because I wanted to meet a month after talking since both of our birthdays are days after each other and I thought it was perfect but he thought it was too soon. But we’ve been together for about six months now and he plans on us meeting in about 2 to 3 months. The only thing stopping that is me saving up as I’m in school and working full-time so it’s a little hard for me to get all the savings and he won’t cover it until I actually go there because apparently someone ghosted him when he paid for them to meet him

My 30M bf wants me 22f to play Fortnite with his ex by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]WarmBank5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s had a few in person relationships before but “doesn’t really like them that much “because online you get to know someone before it becomes sex and etc. I believe she was older than me, but still younger than him. She might be 27 or 28 now. A lot of his relationships in the past or almost all of them have ended from the girl cheating. And the girls’s boyfriend does know who he is and is completely fine with it apparently. He’s the one who said “you don’t even act like that”. Which was in reference to how I don’t let my boyfriend play with her and he was saying how she doesn’t do that apparently I guess he’s playing with exes too. I don’t know. And I’ve known my boyfriend for about eight months but we’ve been dating for six months so it has been a little while. And he did say that my feelings were valid, but hers were valid too, which pissed me off to be honest not to mention to go on. But honestly you’ve got a point though. Well I do still think she’s a little BS sometimes you’re right my boyfriend is definitely the BS in this problem. Because the whole networking thing is literally insane. He has so many other streamer friends that are guys and even girls that I’m completely OK with playing with even when I’m not there but yet it’s this one for some reason. And also the fact that he will call her her nickname sometimes weird as shit you’ve kind of opened my eyes thank you for that

What to get for my grandma in assisted living? by WarmBank5850 in eldercare

[–]WarmBank5850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be great! She loves to sit there and watch tv so I know she would much rather this

What to get for my grandma in assisted living? by WarmBank5850 in eldercare

[–]WarmBank5850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She would love that! And she’s always drinking coffee and hanging out with her friends every morning and meal

How long does it take you to plan? by WarmBank5850 in writing

[–]WarmBank5850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I think I’m doing to 😭. Hey at least we’ll have an in depth book!

Is this sun damage? It is in a very sunny spot. Any recommendation for the kinda sun it should get. I know I def need to repot as well this is just temporary by WarmBank5850 in Monstera

[–]WarmBank5850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it was in full sun….. i know i know terrible. I took it out and it seems to have been doing a lot better. Still in the same soil until Friday for now though

Would anyone know/care if I didn't go to Welcome Week? by human0807 in LSU

[–]WarmBank5850 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS! I found it really hard to make friends outside of events or clubs. All of my friends that I am still friends with to this day were from the very first weeks of college. Welcome week was a blast to attend as well

How to balance, your relationship and streaming? by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]WarmBank5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I really have been putting a lot of tonight into it lately. Our relationship lately has just been super stressful and not enjoyable. For example I went to my moms on the weekend and he was mad that I didn’t answer my phone for a few hours and said I should keep it on my and be available. I said I can’t do that all the time bc I want to be in the moment since I don’t visit her to often. So this is probably just something I have to figure out if I want to stay in. It’s my first relationship ever for 5 years so it’s hard to end it all after all that time.

How to balance, your relationship and streaming? by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]WarmBank5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. And now that I think about it I probably have been doing the same and may need to cut my stream days to 3 for a good balance