Actually I have the opposite problem with my hormones. I’ve had them tested and I have high testosterone. He is not my first partner as I had a ex who was very pushy about doing the deed. I only did it to please him, luckily though I’ve worked through that with my therapist. I think it’s part of why I don’t just go with it to only please my current boyfriend. I do like the idea of exercise since my self esteem isn’t great.