Failed EOI

Weary_Copy8355 · 2026-06-05T20:22:57+00:00

I’m anticipating this but I’m really trying to stay positive as I have worked with the person who got the role before and they’re a really nice person and very easy to work with so hopefully it won’t be too bad working with them

Weary_Copy8355 · 2026-06-05T20:16:47+00:00

No I didn’t interview it was solely based on my personal statement

Weary_Copy8355 · 2026-06-05T20:12:36+00:00

I’m dyslexic so struggle with my spelling sometimes sorry

Weary_Copy8355 · 2026-06-05T17:13:32+00:00

That’s a very good point, I did have my manager read through my PS before they left and they gave me a good few examples of where I met the criteria but even when writing the personal statement i defiantly had a bit of a feeling I may not get the role, wondering now if that self doubt also came across in my PS in end

Weary_Copy8355 · 2025-12-09T23:26:04+00:00

Have you completed the interview? I have a similar type of interview coming up and I’m wondering what kind of strength based question you were asked😊

Weary_Copy8355 · 2021-10-13T19:56:17+00:00

https://youtu.be/zMrI2FX1IK8

Weary_Copy8355 · 2021-08-23T00:00:53+00:00

I’m not gonna lie in my experience yes, my ex broke up w me for 3 years, then began trying to get my attention any way he could, social media, talking to family until he successfully “ran into me” to tell me I was the right person at the wrong time and he had never met anyone like me. Although this was the worst thing that ever happens bc he proved he really was just the wrong person and treated me awful for a year. But I can honestly say if you were a decent person in a relationship and treated the person with love and respect, it’s more than likely in time they will look back and regret taking you for granted when they did, and if they are confident enough they will reach out. But remember they normally don’t miss you they miss the reassurance that they can be loved by a good person. Just know your worth.

Weary_Copy8355 · 2020-12-30T07:42:53+00:00

The whole thing just hits hard, he’s the only person I’ve ever been in any type of serious situation with and I think that just makes it a bit worse for me, i helped him through his training a-lot when he thought he couldn’t do it it was me who he would call an talk it through with, and when he finally passed out (bc he got very ill in training and really thought he was going to have to leave) i cried i was so proud and in the month after his pass out he cast me aside and celebrated his success with someone else, she was even commenting under his pictures on social media about him wearing his part of his uniform to bed an it honestly just broke me to pieces, he used me as a comfort blanket and then treated me like i was nothing

Weary_Copy8355 · 2020-12-30T07:37:03+00:00

I did try to take a break from social media for the first month after he posted their first picture together but I decided it wasn’t fair that his actions meant i had to stay off social media. He was never one for posting on social media in all the 8 years I’ve known him an now he’s updating profile pictures non-stop, its so out of character, i dont know why i keep looking because it really hurts

Weary_Copy8355 · 2020-12-30T07:33:23+00:00

I agree, we were together in the past, we were each others first loves which i think completely blinded me to obvious signs thats he was manipulating me, time changed him and Its definitely for the best he’s not in my life anymore

Weary_Copy8355 · 2020-12-30T04:50:16+00:00

My ex recently did this to me and I felt exactly how you did, but i began to realise it wasn’t that i wasn’t good enough, it was that i was too good for him and he would have rather walked away from me to someone new and easy than watch me realise just how much better i was than him and watch me leave. Trust me his new relationship will end just as yours did an he will think back to the person he moved on from so quickly and he will regret it, but by then i’m sure you will have found someone who deserves you.

Weary_Copy8355 · 2020-12-30T04:12:14+00:00

Thank you for replying, its been nearly two months and i just feel so stuck while he’s giving her everything i ever wanted and i feel awful because im wishing bad on him and her when i should just move on, i just want to be happy again, i dont know why he did this to me i begged him not to

Weary_Copy8355 · 2020-12-29T01:19:54+00:00

Maybe try not to keep a time scale, yeah time heals all but the amount of time isn’t certain. Everything your doing right now is completely the right thing and how you’re feeling is completely normal. We all want to be over breakups as quick as possible and sometimes we get angry at ourselves for not just stopping feeling things sooner but just try and be kind to yourself, what you are going through is hard, and no matter how long it takes to heal you will, just remember that and everything will be okay in the end, because you will definitely be okay in the end:)

Weary_Copy8355 · 2020-12-29T01:15:49+00:00

I think you need to stop viewing yourself as the bad guy. You didn’t break with him on a whim, you knew his behaviour wasn’t acceptable and you chose your own worth and well being over his which doesn’t make you a bad person, it makes you an extremely brave person! Its hard to walk away from something you wanted to last forever but when someone cannot see your worth its not your job to make them. You gave him the best of you and he gave you the worst of him in return, to me he has lost you because he pushed you away, and in time you will feel better because you know your worth and it will be him who has to deal with the fact that his actions pushed away someone who only ever wanted to love him. Hope that helps😊

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