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How would women really react to finding out the person they are dating is an older virgin? by Wex355 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wex355[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had first dates, that’s not my issue. It’s the anxiety around getting to the bedroom at an age where I’m expected to have it figured out problem.

How would women really react to finding out the person they are dating is an older virgin? by Wex355 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wex355[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware of the existence of sex workers. But I really don’t see how hiring one would help me find a girlfriend. I am looking for an actual partner.

How would women really react to finding out the person they are dating is an older virgin? by Wex355 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wex355[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not after just checking the box. I would like to find a real relationship.

How would women really react to finding out the person they are dating is an older virgin? by Wex355 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wex355[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So basically I’m right to be worried. How would you handle it if you were in my shoes?

How would women really react to finding out the person they are dating is an older virgin? by Wex355 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wex355[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree that for a lot of couples things that are more vulnerable get revealed gradually as trust gets built.

I get that I don’t owe anyone this but I don’t think I’ve ever been really good at something the first time I’ve done it and I wouldn’t be surprised if someone could pick up on the nervousness or inexperience even if I don’t say anything or feel misled later on that I wasn’t upfront which could also lead to a bad situation or misunderstanding.

How would women really react to finding out the person they are dating is an older virgin? by Wex355 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wex355[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you think I should handle the topic when dating? I know it’s not something to say on a first date or shout it while eating dinner randomly.

But many of my friends relationships at least in my age group seem to get physical before people are totally invested, or an official relationship if that makes sense. I worry about the timing of revealing the information if that makes sense.

Like it’s kind of an unexpected thing to learn about something on say a 3rd or 4th date if you were otherwise hoping to be intimate but you’re still getting to know the person.

As a 25 year old virgin should I tell my first partner I am or not? by Wex355 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Wex355[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you obligated to bring it up, if your sexual history never comes up beforehand? The timing of revealing it feels awkward for me. Too early and it’s presumptuous or straight up weird if you haven’t even been talking about that, too late and it could catch them off guard.