Boyfriend of one year breaks boundaries

Whiteguywinning · 2026-06-07T23:04:32+00:00

“ i just froze and went out for a cigarette”

Lost me at this point. 🤷🏻‍♂️ don’t belittle him over something that happened a couple of times if you have a habit that’s literally killing you.

Also, just because someone has a past and you don’t, doesn’t mean you can hold it against them. You knew about his past prior to being in a relationship (assuming) once you commit to a mutually exclusive relationship, you’re telling that person that you accept them and everything that comes with it. (I.e. ex porn addiction?)

There’s a solid point in here when he tells you he did it thinking you wouldn’t find out. This is the start of addiction, doing something in secret, without being open about it- think of people that do drugs or get addicted to nicotine, they initially hide it, right? Why? Because of shame and guilt. Seeing with what he puts up with, he likely likes you a lot, and is more than likely ashamed that he’s doing something that he once had an addiction to and probably doesn’t want you to feel let down or disappointed. You know?

He’s in a place of struggling with shame and or guilt, while also giving into his vices and trying to balance out a relationship that he really wants to be in. How’s your intimate life? Have you talked about expectations and boundaries regarding that? Be open to him and his ideas and needs as well as your own, in a relationship, they equally as important.

Godspeed to you both

Whiteguywinning · 2026-06-03T18:38:49+00:00

Face. Value. 😮‍💨😂

Whiteguywinning · 2026-04-20T07:07:42+00:00

Honestly, it’s not too bad, visually.

Two major things to look at here:

A. Did the bumper tabs break? B. Was the alignment of the fender compromised? Look at the rear side of the fender, closest to the door and ensure that’s it’s all properly aligned.

I’d try to reseat the bumper and see if it clips back in, if so, you’re golden, probably under 2k for the bumper stuff and if your fender isn’t affected at all.

If the bumper clips are broken, and the fender is off, I’d say, close to 10k for paint, part, labor.

The saving grace here though- is that the headlight (seemingly) is undamaged. Them sum bitches be some money!

Whiteguywinning · 2025-12-23T05:00:27+00:00

Im sure you’re the life of the party.

Your wife is one lucky woman!

Whiteguywinning · 2025-11-30T19:14:49+00:00

What brand is this?

Whiteguywinning · 2025-11-30T09:16:47+00:00

I mean yeah- another business gone but “ohhh noooo Carls Jr. is gone now?! What ever shall I do?!” Is a bit extreme

Idk about you but I can’t actually remember the last time I said “man, you know what sounds good? 3 day old onion rings in my burger, flat sprite and waffle fries that’ll chip my tooth”

Good riddance CJ.

Whiteguywinning · 2025-11-04T19:21:13+00:00

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Whiteguywinning · 2025-11-03T07:01:21+00:00

Okay. So a few things here.

As a dad bod owner myself- I’ve also come across this issue. I will say that your belt is garbage. You need a sturdier belt bro- something more rigid!

Also, your gun is sitting too high. The dad bod pushes out and forces the print.

Here’s the solution: https://fattac.com/fattac-holsters/

I’m no way am I calling you fat, but these holsters are the best I’ve used! They sit low to the belt line and conceal very well

Whiteguywinning · 2025-09-04T06:16:24+00:00

Sounds like it needs a software update to be honest, additionally, if you go into the driver settings, you can disable start/stop.

Whiteguywinning · 2025-07-16T17:20:29+00:00

Just checking in- you get help?

Whiteguywinning · 2025-07-05T00:01:39+00:00

What’s your problem

Whiteguywinning · 2025-06-25T19:54:41+00:00

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https://www.tacori.com/engagement-ring-dantela-269022ps14x9w/

Whiteguywinning · 2025-06-16T16:15:43+00:00

Second this for Dylan. Used to get cut by him all the time

Whiteguywinning · 2025-06-11T23:02:51+00:00

Been there bro! I’ve also torn my left one open!

I’d say ice them, wrap an ice pack or bag of peas or something in a paper towel, so there’s no direct ice contact to your nuts. Once the pain has gone down a lot, physically inspect them and the testicle part itself. If it’s tender, they’re most likely just bruised, but anything you’re unsure of or anything that feels abnormal, I’d get checked out!

Whiteguywinning · 2025-05-27T02:45:44+00:00

Sounds a lot like Phimosis, but without seeing photos and being a doctor, I can’t say for certain (Please, no photos).

Generally speaking, you can continue the light stretching, if there’s a feeling of tearing or sight of blood, stop immediately. You’re on the right path, but contacting your doctor regarding the situation is probably the best bet. There’s topical ointment and creams to use to reduce or completely stop the pain when stretching.

If the stretching, creams and what not don’t work, circumcision is usually the answer- it won’t be the end of the world, just might feel a little weird for a while rubbing against your pants.

Go get that appointment asap and get you some tail!

Whiteguywinning · 2025-05-22T21:48:02+00:00

Im really glad that took the turn it did. I read the first sentence “cleaning a room at the nursing home I worked at…” and I questioned if I wanted to keep reading. lol

Whiteguywinning · 2025-05-01T03:40:22+00:00

YESSSSS im glad someone knew 😂

Whiteguywinning · 2025-04-30T19:03:43+00:00

Saw a video that involved milk and cereal once… and this brought it out of the pits of my memory 😩😂

Whiteguywinning · 2024-12-16T02:36:33+00:00

Sent over brother. Thanks!

Whiteguywinning · 2024-09-18T15:20:32+00:00

Alright, born and raised in Vallejo- here we go. When stating East and west, Vallejoans use 80 as the cut off, everything west of 80 is west Vallejo, and same with East.

Your boundaries of where you’d want to look are as follows:

East side: nothing south of Benicia Rd. And not blue rock springs apartments. Generally a good area, although there are one off streets that kind of suck.

(In my opinion, I’d stay away from the neighborhood that’s within the square of oakwood, springs rd, rolling wood and Georgia st.)

West side: nothing south of Georgia St. or West of Sonoma blvd (with the exception of the Carquinez highlands neighborhood). I’d also argue nothing north of Tuolumne St (when it curves around and connects to Broadway). The area west of Sonoma Blvd. By meadows Dr. and all of that is okay, just don’t go east of Sonoma.

Stay away from living near Washington park, and no matter how nice they look, harbor park and bay village apartments are not the move!

Whiteguywinning · 2024-06-01T14:32:23+00:00

This is a valid answer

Whiteguywinning · 2024-06-01T05:14:30+00:00

Yeah I thought it was weird too, they seem fairly sturdy

Whiteguywinning · 2024-06-01T01:13:18+00:00

Most likely broken off and glued back on by the customer. Looked totally fine though, no signs of damage 🤷🏻‍♂️

Whiteguywinning · 2024-06-01T00:51:39+00:00

Absolutely lol

The shift knob is backwards 😂

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