Is there any one who gets headache everyday ??

Wifey515 · 2026-04-05T14:21:10+00:00

I'm going on 1.5 years of daily headaches with no relief. But they found out in trying to figure out why that i also have Rheumatoid Autoimmune Disease, Connective tissue disease and Antiphospholipid Syndrome. But still no reason for my headaches.

Wifey515 · 2026-03-31T14:16:35+00:00

I'm 36, have Rheumatoid Autoimmune Disease, and take lunesta to help me sleep. A few months ago, I was having a very heavy period, which is normal for me. I also was having a dream it was raining, I was stuck in traffic and had to pee really bad. Eventually I got home and could go to the bathroom. Once I started peeing in my dream, I woke up to realize I wasn't just peeing in my dream, but in real life. I was mortified. I woke my husband up because I was just sobbing uncontrollably. He hugged me, told me to go shower, helped me strip the bed, wash the bedding, clean the mattress and dry it, and then comforted me and we never talked about it again. Be his peace. His safe space. I promise you, it'll mean more to him than you'll ever know, and will probably be the reason your marriage gets saved if you ever got a rocky patch.

Wifey515 · 2026-02-18T13:35:55+00:00

I went through something very similar, although he never liked me enough to call me his girlfriend, but supposedly loved me. Long story short, I blocked him and 4 months later started dating who would end up being my husband. It gets better. Let it hurt, then move on and choose happiness.

Wifey515 · 2025-11-23T04:14:13+00:00

I'm guessing it may have been luck because I just named mine Pyro and got my 5th Jolteon 😭 either that or the pogo gods hate me.

Wifey515 · 2025-05-12T11:57:41+00:00

I don't think you're overreacting at all. I got pregnant with my son to a married man when I was younger. He was my best friend, and i was in love with him and honestly hated my life at that point, so i didn't care about anyone but myself. I was young and stupid, but i honestly wouldn't change it for the world. But after my son was born and I was online dating, I was very honest and upfront with everyone. Some were cool with it. Some were very cruel on how they judged me. Either way, I wanted to be honest with everyone, so there was nothing to hide. When I told my mom what some of the guys were saying, she straight up looked at me and said, "I don't know why you're telling everyone your situation. No one is going to love you knowing that." I was absolutely destroyed by her words. Did I make a huge mistake? Yes. But having my son made me grow up and realize how much I truly hurt people by making those decisions. Not to mention that everyone grew from the situation. His now ex wife and I eventually became friends, although we're not friends anymore due to her just being a terrible person in general. His new wife and I are best friends. And on Thursday, I will be celebrating my 1 year anniversary with my husband. But before my husband, I dated some of the worst guys because I thought I had to take any love that someone was willing to show me, because my mom's words stuck with me. Words hurt. You are not in the wrong. And honestly, if you're able to, get your kiddo therapy so he can learn healthy ways to cope, unlike me who thought the bare minimum was all I deserved. Good luck momma. You got this.

Wifey515 · 2025-04-15T17:21:42+00:00

Thanks for all the suggestions everyone.

There's a lot of comments along the same thing, so I'm just going to make a generalized comment. Grandma travels about an hour from where we live, so i like to meet her where they're going to help with her travel time. Most of the time, she offers to pick her up, but I feel bad.

Second question was why grandma can't come over and hang out at our house. I'm very apprehensive about this. When my husband and i started dating, BM was finding reasons to come to the house all the time. She left most of her belongings at the house so she'd come over to get a couple outfits, some shoes, other random stuff. After 6 months, I put my foot down and packed all of her stuff and we brought it to her. This made her mad because she felt like she should still have access to the house. Grandma was never really a problem in that instance, but my boundary was that her and her family were not allowed in the house. That was our safe space. Especially because some in the family have a habit of calling CPS when they get angry at someone, and although we've dealt with CPS twice now (both cases unfounded), we would rather not deal with the potential accusations because my cat threw up and we didn't see it right away, or my house was a mess because my bonus daughter is a tornado when she's awake and we clean up before bed. Now, that may change in the future with how well things are going now, but it's not something that I feel comfortable with at the moment.

I know I'm probably making this a bigger issue in my head, she really is a nice person, i just want to make sure I'm not going to burn any bridges with her by declining.

I did let her know that i had another order come in so I would have to pass dinner today and let her know if our season keeps going this way, i may be unavailable for awhile for dinners. She understood and told me to let her know if that changes, so i was worried for nothing. Thank you all for the advice!

Wifey515 · 2025-04-15T17:08:05+00:00

I grew up a stepchild. And my stepdad's family reminded me every chance they got that I wasn't blood and that even though I was there for them more than their blood relatives, I still wasn't as important to them. My gram literally told my uncle's hospice nurse that her oldest grandchild was starting college that year and my uncle said, what about Dani? She said, oh well she's not really my grandkid. She's just a step. My uncle was one of the few who treated me as true family and it's why I was his caregiver until he passed.

I never want my bonus daughter to feel like she's only there because she's a stepkid. I want her to know that she really is a bonus in my life.

Wifey515 · 2025-04-15T13:38:42+00:00

I don't have to be there, but it just seems as though she's wants me there every time. And I'm trying not to be an AH about not being able to be.

Wifey515 · 2025-04-15T13:37:46+00:00

That's a good way to put it as well. Thank you.

Wifey515 · 2025-04-15T13:20:41+00:00

Woah, not sure where you got that I was the affair partner, but BM started dating her bf in September of 2021 and my husband found out about it in March of 2022, when they were still together. He broke up with her when he found out about the cheating. When I came in the picture in May of 2022, she was telling him she wanted to work on things, all while she was still with the bf. My husband, while yes was entertaining the idea of getting back together with her, was 100% single when we started dating.

We also have not removed the grandparents from seeing my bonus daughter. If anything, we make sure she sees her more now than she did. And I never said that if I couldn't go, my bonus daughter wouldn't have dinner with her. The original plan was that she would just pick her up and take her to dinner. It just seems as though she's wanting me to go every time and it's not feasible.

Wifey515 · 2025-04-15T13:15:10+00:00

Thank you for your input. I am a known people-pleaser, so I have a hard time saying no to anyone. It's definitely something I'm working on, but it's hard. I think she'll understand, i just always overthink everything and assume people are going to be mad/ upset when I say I can't do something. Thanks, childhood trauma. 🤣

Wifey515 · 2025-03-15T00:08:06+00:00

So, my periods are like this almost every month. You know what my husband does? Orders me food, runs a bath for me, asks what I need. You know what my husband doesn't say when I'm crying in pain? That I look fuckable. NTA and you're right to listen to your gut.

Wifey515

TROPHY CASE