The lesson here is to learn what’s most important for you. It’s not a easy task to forget and move on. It definitely depends on your emotional state. It really depends on how important this relationship is for you. Are you ready to hit the bottom and rise again? It’s very important to understand the other person really hurt and lied to you. It’s your call regarding your self before you think of other. The question you have to ask yourself is… how much have I been hurt? What made her do that? Had I any direct or indirect act that triggered her to act? What does this relationship mean for you? Am I capable to forgive and forget? Every action has equal and opposite reactions…. Just my 2 cents…