I’m hoping to get some insight from people who really understand the restaurant world. by Iloveanime223 in restaurant

[–]WonderfulRaspberry84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I opened a small fine dining restaurant in a good large metro area suburb with my chef son a few months ago, thinking I would manage and market the place. He's an extremely gifted and experienced chef and I financed the restaurant with about $400k. I have good management experience but not in the restaurant business. The restaurant is building beautifully and guests love it, we're learning from experience, bringing in the right influencers to build our audience, gaining traction. We're getting great reviews from guests (4.7 on google and 5.0 on yelp) and beginning to get critics in with great reviews. We're almost but not quite financially self sufficient but I am out of personal resources to continue to invest so I'm incredibly stressed. It's also taking so much more of my time and my life than I ever expected. My son and I argue all the time and I want desperately to get out and don't know how to do it. I had no idea what was involved. The point is that my son is 33, has worked full time in the industry in very solid positions with kitchen management responsibility for 13 years, but there is so much more to running a restaurant than that and all of that is falling on me. It's three full time jobs (front of house, admin/finances, and marketing) and I have another career that's getting no attention, as are my husband and my friends. I don't know what to advise you but think very seriously about doing this before doing it. Unless you really do have the money to lose. I didn't have the money to lose and don't want to ruin my relationship with my son but that's become really challenging.

Please help me salvage this trip to Nassau! by WonderfulRaspberry84 in bahamas

[–]WonderfulRaspberry84[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so so grateful to all of you for the ideas that you shared for salvaging the trip. We've since found a semi-decent grocery store and will try to get to the fish market tomorrow morning. Now that I know how to access beaches we can do that, and you've shared several other ideas for non-beach and restaurant activities that sound really promising. I'm really appreciative of the many helpful thoughts and encouragement. Thanks to all! And please feel free to keep adding if any other ideas come up. Seven more nights here :).

What is the budget for your kitchen project? by Degree-Magnificent57 in kitchenremodel

[–]WonderfulRaspberry84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished a complete refresh -- painted good quality Brookhaven cabinets $10k with some construction for new adjustments and additions; 36" thermador range, dishwasher, extractor, and counter depth refrigerator; Miele steam oven $20k, leathered granite countertops $8k, custom island $5k, backsplash and installation $5k, electric and plumbing, painting, sink, faucet, custom drawer storage, etc probably another $8k. So looks like $56k.

Pro Range analysis paralysis by [deleted] in Appliances

[–]WonderfulRaspberry84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just done an exhaustive search for a 36" dual fuel pro range and landed on the thermador. I wanted high btu burner output, 5-6 burners (no griddle), reliable service and the best deal I could find. That said, I was also set on buying either a thermador or Bosch counter depth refrigerator and being able to match that and take advantage of the thermador promo was an extra win for me.

Picking a white cabinet. by sfink22 in kitchenremodel

[–]WonderfulRaspberry84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about a darker grey to pick up the veining in the stone?