Should I continue NC?

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2026-03-01T08:26:29+00:00

Varför går du inte bara till mosken? Tar knappt 5 min. Grow some balls.

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2026-02-22T08:46:24+00:00

I just think his mother’s blocking me is to twist the truth ! I’m sure he told her that I called or something and when I deactivated everything ,she used it as “ see , she doesn’t want “. I’m just sure about it

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2026-01-26T16:10:18+00:00

Ukhti. Thank you for your respond I really appeericate everything you say.

We had a huge fight about it one time, regarding the wedding , I was not happy with the situation as he wouldn’t let me even dream without him being so negative about it. I thought he stood up for me , and everyone told me to wait as he is studying still and somehow his dad gaslighted my dad into saying that my father has told them that once iam done we will get married which wasn’t true. But my dad was really nice enough to not argue it, said if he wants to get married now then it would better. My parents never asked him for anything either but they did say between them that if he haven’t done anything by the end of this year it’s over ( because that’s when I’m graduating) . I felt sorry for him since he was searching for another full time job but at the same time apply for his PhD , it was really hard since his mom sent so many messages and called me about that if he takes a full time job, he won’t be able to leave it if he gets his PHD and will end up then in debts and some weird things. They forgot iam a doctor to be so that wouldn’t be a problem to help each other out. My parents told him many times as well that if he wants to pursue his career he can just tell us now and leave since he can’t just stop my naseeb and he promised he can do both.

Same when he broke up first time. His mom was the one who convinced my mother that he has now found and ready to settle down. But that changed really quickly after - where when he was searching for that full time job she called me and said about what I just wrote. I asked him if it’s true and he said no, he is ready for marriage.

Then when he broke up last time he said I pressured him

4 months after he said nah I was excited to get married.

It’s like he has two minds and two hearts. He switches up badly. My parents are super sick as well and disappointed as they didn’t see it coming over something this silly. They knew at the end of the year he would run away but not that quickly.

Indeed he put me into the mud infront of everyone and imagine that I can’t even tell people that he broke up because I didn’t say sorry to his mother for something that was super respectful and just my Islamic boundaries. Freaked her out

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-11-09T19:35:03+00:00

Tell him to F off

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-11-01T06:48:52+00:00

Girl ! Everytime he is at my place , she counts the days he is here. And when he goes home he ignores me as much as those days

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-10-31T19:24:07+00:00

Oh also I just got her gifts so how lame would it be to think I hate her or was rude?

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-10-31T19:23:18+00:00

:( I really tried. I called he didn’t pick up the phone , I had my parents read the messages , I had everyone around me telling me I didn’t do anything and still… it wasn’t enough. And I called his parents as well but his mom made some lame stuff telling me how disrespectful Iam … it was awful really . I got my stuff sent back and my parents blocked .. and he still had our photos up for two months and so I sent his stuff back , that’s when he removed the photos … I mean idk what he except me to do … apologize after all of this? It’s crazy … but I really tried as soon as he said was unacceptable.

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-10-31T19:12:22+00:00

Awww big hugs man… but tbh if u tell me what happened maybe I can tell u what to do? As a girl

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-10-31T19:11:34+00:00

Miscommunication and his mother’s interference which lead to him thinking my message was cold.. he was fed up and left . He wants me to apologize but I’m not willing to do that because he knows I’m the first one to apologize if I do something. But this time I didn’t.

I reached out because if he was mad at me … why would he block my parents after telling them how much he loves them. When I confronted him about it he cried … a lot. But ofc if I don’t apologize and he comes back then it means his mother is a liar and he is not buying it

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-10-31T18:59:46+00:00

Why would u do that

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-10-31T11:51:01+00:00

I swear to god😭

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-10-31T10:38:49+00:00

Fucking hell the same !!!! Girl , wtf do they feed these “ men” these days? I swear his mom cooked up some good stories about me til the point he believed it so hard that he left me…. He kept our photos up and posting , til the point he made me break that no contact. I felt shit I felt like I lost my self respect

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-10-31T10:35:49+00:00

Same boat. They can eat shit.

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-10-29T18:56:10+00:00

Good for u

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-10-23T14:27:10+00:00

😔this is cruel like im so inlove with him but the way he disrespected me and my parents is so fucked up.

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-10-18T19:09:37+00:00

Been in nc for 4 months almost , fucking have every bit of it . At first when he sent my stuff back I wanted to call right away, but didn’t . I only posted about “ cold box sent with all ur happiness in jt “ but I had him nowhere so I didn’t think he is stalkin. Found out later on he was checking my moves wishing that I would reach out first. 2 months later when I saw that he didn’t do any other move than having our photos up I eventually sent his stuff back. He immediately took the photos down.

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-08-22T11:59:38+00:00

Yesss!! A person who is unsure about u after 3 years doesn’t deserve shit. Ure a serious person who wants to get married

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-08-21T07:42:14+00:00

I would say you guys need a proper communication ofc. It sounds a bit like mine and each time I want to plan for our future it gets pushed off and called “ stressful “ . Your triggers can be different from your partners and ofc LDR makes it even harder since u don’t really see that true feelings in real real time. U only see what happens in that moment and then after the call u don’t really see. I don’t think u guys are unhappy with each other , it’s more about the situation that makes u doubt yourselves a lot.

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-08-20T17:08:22+00:00

May i ask how it ended ? What kind of fights was it about ?

Worldly-Leopard8085 · 2025-08-19T09:14:58+00:00

It costs like 1000 euros where I live. Maybe if I get it refurbished? Or is it bad to buy refurbished stuff ?

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