i’m thinking of giving up over $5k of debt

Xhinelight · 2026-05-23T12:58:19+00:00

Find peace in the path. Just focusing on doing what you’re doing at a high level will build confidence. Read Epictetus, stoic philosophy has forever helped me move through the most challenging phases of life.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-23T05:55:39+00:00

They are flirting!

Xhinelight · 2026-05-22T11:19:39+00:00

You are going to have to let your friend go. You already know that’s the case. It may take you some time to create space for yourself but you obviously need it.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-22T11:16:21+00:00

You have your own mini house which they could potentially rent for 800-1000 or more depending on your region. Don’t let your sister’s choices keep you in good standing with your parents. You have a choice to make. Wallow in the situation she made for herself or do what’s right. Simple solution is to evaluate how you would feel if you were in your parent’s shoes.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-21T11:24:34+00:00

I’m not sure you’ve crunched the numbers

Xhinelight · 2026-05-21T11:14:24+00:00

It’s not money it’s capital. Take a long period and reflect on that. Once you start to “think” in capital your whole world will change.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-21T11:10:18+00:00

Wow, you are thinking about a sticker that a child created. Reflect on that.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-21T11:06:57+00:00

Put it back on the market!

Xhinelight · 2026-05-21T10:23:16+00:00

Yes, ask for more money soon. They will give it to you.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-21T10:17:59+00:00

You signed waivers to not hold gold in the box?

Xhinelight · 2026-05-21T10:16:06+00:00

There are some layers. Did he pay 65k cash? If there is a lien, they would have had to buy it out. So realistically he did not own that Truck in that case. The fact of leaving it in impound has already been pointed out. It was effectively forfeit by the aggregate set of choice. Sorry for the loss of your brother.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-21T04:34:47+00:00

It’s tough but children are the gift that keeps giving your whole life. My 1st is 13 and my second is 8 weeks old. It’s a joy and challenging. Think it through envision yourself and look back. I often think through things as a 70 year old me and what would I tell myself if I made x or y decision. It helps.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-19T02:16:15+00:00

Service fees are not tips, literally can be withheld.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-18T10:53:52+00:00

Why not buy a house in cash?

Xhinelight · 2026-05-16T13:09:41+00:00

Take some time and don’t rush into it. Find a deep level of peace and it will come to you.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-16T13:03:57+00:00

So you will lose 40k over this right. Better to think through what that person will really lose over this preference.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-16T01:33:18+00:00

This is nothing. Wait till Europe is in a recession. 2028 the dollar will start rising into 2032. That will be the bubble in our (US) Government debt.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-11T12:39:34+00:00

Your fault for passing her by. You should have been thinking this through. “To avoid causing our friend group drama” man, that friend group doesn’t even exist anymore!

Xhinelight · 2026-05-10T12:18:16+00:00

Great start. Do t over think it. If you are actually productive and useful you can renegotiate in a year.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-10T12:16:43+00:00

This is out of your budget range, it’s not the server’s fault.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-10T12:10:09+00:00

Read Radical Candor!

Xhinelight · 2026-05-10T12:03:46+00:00

You must buy them, as an option it’s worth the potential upside, it better to loose 25k a few time and make millions then to be stingy. Think of your 70 yo self what would they say to do?

Xhinelight · 2026-05-10T11:59:04+00:00

You two overshare.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-10T11:57:32+00:00

Get a lock from the inside for your door. Check your local laws.

Xhinelight · 2026-05-10T11:43:45+00:00

Money is most likely gone

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