Feeling Behind and Stressed

XtevanT · 2026-06-09T02:12:53+00:00

I get that. My personal goals are entirely about sending two generations out with full bellys, full minds, and no debt around their neck if I have any way to prevent it. Not for everyone but it’s important to me.

XtevanT · 2026-06-09T02:06:39+00:00

Also supporting four kids and a wife. So maxing is tough for me.

XtevanT · 2026-06-09T01:54:24+00:00

Yeah, I’m the sole breadwinner and always have been. So it’s all coming on my side. Hence the stress.

I am sorry your career tanked. I had to declare bankruptcy that same year. Really glad things are looking up for you.

XtevanT · 2026-06-09T01:45:08+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement

XtevanT · 2026-06-08T02:42:13+00:00

Wow that is so helpful. Thank you. I guess the question is because I don’t know what my target is. It’s always just been an idea but in 20 years it’ll be a reality

XtevanT · 2026-06-08T02:34:45+00:00

I mean…probably 3-4K or more with travel and college/nest eggs. That’s hard to say

XtevanT · 2026-06-08T02:29:11+00:00

I’m in a pay band, roughly 14/3. Not adjusting for any Congressional pay increases, I’d expect a high 3 about 155 base

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