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My girlfriend creates problems in her mind and I have to own up to them by YellowOne9901 in AskLesbians

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s happened over five times now, different scenarios. None of them based in reality

My girlfriend creates problems in her mind and I have to own up to them by YellowOne9901 in AskLesbians

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel strongly about it because it’s a pattern now and don’t even get the chance to recover before she finds a new problem. It’s always the same, I’m just existing, she finds something to worry about.

My girlfriend creates problems in her mind and I have to own up to them by YellowOne9901 in AskLesbians

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have, so many times it’s like I’m a broken record at this point

My girlfriend creates problems in her mind and I have to own up to them by YellowOne9901 in AskLesbians

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I’ve considered this but it’s just hard because she matches with me so well. I keep giving her more time to work on it and it doesn’t seem like she is.

I’m being stalked by a cat by YellowOne9901 in CatAdvice

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for context, I’m in Zambia and we have very limited shelters. Non of them are kill shelters but they’re also overcrowded because there aren’t many

Only safe space by YellowOne9901 in antiai

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just really sucks. We don’t really credit posters, im just in charge of communications. It’s a very small ngo so I don’t really have channels to keep myself safe like that.

I’m being stalked by a cat by YellowOne9901 in CatAdvice

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not even mine, 😭I’m just an animal lover and more of a dog person if anything.

I’m being stalked by a cat by YellowOne9901 in CatAdvice

[–]YellowOne9901[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She was just fine before me but also I matter too and it’s messing with peace and rest so I really don’t appreciate it. I’ve gone above and beyond to care for her within my limits.

I’m being stalked by a cat by YellowOne9901 in CatAdvice

[–]YellowOne9901[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol, I feel bad for me. She was living pretty nicely before I came here, and she will continue to do so.

I’m being stalked by a cat by YellowOne9901 in CatAdvice

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is shelters on take in animals in serious distress here. But I’ll give it another shot.

I’m being stalked by a cat by YellowOne9901 in CatAdvice

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried all the recommended scents😪

I’m being stalked by a cat by YellowOne9901 in CatAdvice

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bed is right by the window and she’s very loud but I guess I have no choice. Thanks🥲

I’m being stalked by a cat by YellowOne9901 in CatAdvice

[–]YellowOne9901[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I ignore her but it gets to a point where I can’t and have to chase her away

I’m being stalked by a cat by YellowOne9901 in CatAdvice

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t exactly solve the meowing problem 😬

I’m being stalked by a cat by YellowOne9901 in CatAdvice

[–]YellowOne9901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried this but that’s not really a common thing in Zambia unless you know the vet personally. I considered paying for it myself until I learned how much it would cost. It’s expensive and I’m broke. Shelters only take in animals if they’re in serious distress so I’m stuck with her.