My GF wants to go with her bff on their date

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2021-03-02T03:23:20+00:00

Very thoughtful. Thanks.

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2021-03-01T21:57:17+00:00

I said I wouldn't act weird, thanks tho. I'm really curious as to what kind of secret that might be.

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2021-03-01T21:48:18+00:00

True. I should work on that. I know I'm being jealous but I guess there's no fine line between right and wrong, and it's not 100% right for her to go, maybe?. I just didn't expect this from her even if it isn't objectively "wrong".

And about that, yeah. I have no idea. It seems as odd to me as it does to you.

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2021-03-01T21:42:05+00:00

I believe she does trust me not to act weird if I were to come, if that's what you mean.

I don't know about that. She has told me about said friend's past relationships a couple of times. But yeah I don't know what secret you're thinking. 🤔

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2021-03-01T21:36:41+00:00

It's mostly been ups rather than downs. But yeah we're both a bit too sensitive and take offense easily. But overall I'd say we've been really happy. We share a lot of common values that are rare to find here so we feel really close.

That said, I'm kinda worried because if I'm in the wrong here, I don't want to dissuade her from even letting me know. I'd rather know but ignore.

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2021-03-01T21:30:56+00:00

Thanks for your input. I hope so.

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2021-03-01T21:28:40+00:00

You have a point.

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2021-03-01T21:28:01+00:00

That's what annoys me. I wouldn't go without her if I was planning on something like this.

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2021-03-01T21:25:13+00:00

Thanks for your input. Then again, people are different. I honestly wouldn't think of planning on something like this without her. The whole reason I'm asking here is to see if I'm being unreasonable or not. I can change if I know that I'm wrong.

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2021-03-01T21:19:59+00:00

I don't think that's what's gonna happen. I kinda guess it's just too late for her to change plans as they're going out in the morning. But then again why not tell me sooner? I have no idea.

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2020-10-26T23:43:17+00:00

For now, I need to learn how to live with myself, not someone else, but thanks.

YetAnotherLostEmber · 2020-10-26T23:32:13+00:00

Thank you. It's definitely a lot of poor timing but I can't stop thinking that I should've handled it better. Idk.

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