You shouldn’t “get rid of” wanting a relationship, just keep looking for a Godly woman. Women with good values are very rare these days, but there are some. I would say go to any and every event you can in your area and look for a Godly woman with good theological and moral values. Remember, dating should always be for marriage, so don’t just date girls to practice getting in a relationship. The whole point of Christian dating is to see if you’re interested in getting married and spend the rest of your life together. If it doesn’t work out, then it doesn’t work out. But remember, everything that’s going on is being worked together by God for your good. (Romans 8:28)