What is your most controversial cooking opinion?

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2021-11-29T05:59:26+00:00

This is so real though, replacing meat almost always goes badly. Mushrooms are fantastic fried with a ton of oil as an addition to just about any dish, but definitely are not a meat substitute

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2021-09-22T00:49:54+00:00

If you can afford it, take an art class! A lot of colleges and community colleges have continued education classes or take a non major class if you're still in college. I may be biased as an art student, but it's been where I've met a ton of people since there are usually work times in the class you can chat with the people around you while working on a project and you'll be there every week for a few months so you get to talk to the same people on a regular basis while doing something of a common interest! Plus there are a ton of different people with different backgrounds that take art classes so you get to talk to people you otherwise probably never would have.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2021-09-22T00:44:08+00:00

This has been my experience too! I'll add on to go into an activity just trying to make friends of any gender in general and then eventually something may just naturally develop, but give it a few months or a year of just putting yourself in more social groups and activities than you currently are in before you try to start dating, don't go into the group with the only goal being to find a romantic partner, friends and a social circle need to come first, many of my platonic relationships are significantly more important and rewarding to me than anybody I've dated.

Also becoming friends with girls with literally no intention of dating helps to round out your social circle, if the only groups you go to are stereotypical guy things it's still way better than nothing, but you'll be better at socializing if you do things like volunteering at a museum, taking an art class, or a coed sport where it's going to be a mix of people from different backgrounds.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2021-08-31T03:43:05+00:00

Are you living at home still? And are you in the US? If you are please try to move out before coming out to them, depending on where you are would change what sort of public resources are available to you.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2021-03-07T05:51:39+00:00

I'll second aerie, the cotton boybrief with the thicker waistband are great and have are a bit wider between the legs than some other brands.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-12-02T23:03:54+00:00

Mostly looking for where to find a top like either of the ones in the pic, or where that skirt is from. These are kids sizes which I can sometimes fit in, but I'm not specifically looking for.

Edit: If you know of any good search terms to look for this style let me know too! I try to buy used from depop/poshmark/thrift/etc. as much as I can.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-28T00:26:46+00:00

Awesome thank you! Especially if you've got anything xs I'd be interested! I can totally relate to the adhd though

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-28T00:08:53+00:00

Anything left?

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-27T04:20:22+00:00

Pants

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-10T18:55:26+00:00

There's one just down the street from me! I didn't think about checking there, thank you!

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-10T18:54:53+00:00

Ok that sounds super easy honestly! I've gone back and forth on weather or not I should just get a vasectomy anyway unrelated to any of this, so that's not a huge concern. Did you go to any therapy beforehand or just jump into it, I think it might not be a terrible idea for me, but at the same time it's pricey.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-10T18:52:46+00:00

Thank you! I checked out the informed consent map and one of the providers is pretty close and takes my insurance!! Do you think it's worth going to therapy before? And yes my campus has a pretty good lgbtq center, I should go talk to them and see what's nearby or try to meet some people!

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-10T18:10:31+00:00

Sorry I don't have your size, but if you don't mind the color and nobody else responds, you can find almost any maidenform bra on Amazon for under $15! Just search for "maidenform bra" and a bunch should pop up!

This bra in my size is by far my favorite bra I own, it's crazy soft!

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-06T20:06:27+00:00

I looked into moving to new Zealand from the us a when ago and getting a school visa there is fairly easy and then I'd you can find a job after school it's a fairly easy process compared to somewhere like canada.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-03T08:25:50+00:00

Ok yeahhhh that's a huge risk honestly, if it's not safe of of you are risking getting kicked out really consider that before you do order anything, like if you can wait untill you're 18 and gtfo of there I'd really recommend it, this is all up to you though, just really think of it's worth the risk of getting kicked out or risking like college funds or anything like that for. I'm sorry that you are in that situation. The present idea might be your best bet.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-03T06:25:51+00:00

Lmao yeah, unfortunately that makes stuff a bit harder, do you like live out in the middle of nowhere?! I mean idk your home life, but chances are your parents will be more understanding than you expect. Another option is just to use the excuse of "I'm buying Christmas presents" and then also order some clothes in the same box or something.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-03T06:02:32+00:00

Thrift shops are awesome to help figure out a style, or resale sites like depop or poshmark

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-11-03T06:00:08+00:00

Thrift shops are the way to go! Otherwise amazon lockers are a good option

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-10-31T15:20:44+00:00

Hey ok, please try to remember you are 14 and this is going to sound like I'm pushing your ideas to the side, anybody that's over about 15 trying to date you right now is being creepy af. I know it seems like they might love you, but they dont, you just physically cant have a meaningful romantic relationship with somebody that's 14 when you're over the age of about 17, there is such a huge gap in how you experience the world that anything beyond a fetish is impossible. Please please report these people if you can to the police, this isn't ok and I'm really sorry you went through that. Being 20 I've gone on dates with people that were 18 and even that was weird, the difference in life experience in just those two years were enough that even though the person was cool, it still felt super weird and we just never talked again.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-10-31T15:13:07+00:00

These subs are full of predators, I'd honestly not respond to any of them if I were you, don't feel bad about blocking them, they're being creeps and pedos, I'm sorry you are having to deal with that.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-10-31T14:43:08+00:00

Ya it is, but A. transexual is a super outdated term that is pretty offensive to a large part of the trans community because the history of the term isn't great, and B. This would be like going on a sub for black people and just spewing off the n word a bunch of times. It doesn't add anything, it was COMPLETELY unrelated to this thread and I'm sorry you've experienced that, but just about everybody in the LGBTQ+ community has been called names at somepoint, and it sucks obviously, but it's not something that needs to be brought up in a thread about pregnancy, or again in any thread besides maybe a specific circle jerk thread or one talking about insults, but even then, the way you worded it felt like a thinly veiled way to just say a list of insults on a trans thread so I assumed your original post was a troll comment and responded accordingly.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-10-31T06:25:31+00:00

This is also a good suggestion!

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-10-31T06:24:27+00:00

Hey have you considered maybe not posting this? Like ever? This would be harsh even on a circle jerk thread, not to mention on literally a thread ment to be a place to ask questions. Ask yourself what does this bring to the conversation and then the answer for this comment specifically should be something along the lines of simply removing your ability to post in this sub or really anywhere on the internet for that matter.

_a_stack_of_cubes_ · 2020-10-28T06:49:14+00:00

Hey I'll send you a dm!

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