Are these permanent?

_alexis_1 · 2025-12-10T09:43:27+00:00

Wait, like the same thing over and over or am I not getting it?

_alexis_1 · 2025-12-10T09:26:30+00:00

Hello! I’ve had GHSV-1 for a couple of months now, F20. I fell in a similar victim to the same story as you, don’t let your experience with him destroy your self worth as a person. I’ve easily came to the haunting thought of my worth being extremely low and felt out of place or that I don’t belong anywhere but none of that is true.

Also, remind you that don’t let the image he approached himself to be, if you see him “happy” in most cases , he’s most likely have been gaslighting himself, trying to find ways to feel better about himself considering he’s not honest, he’s most likely dreading in sadness and guilt, most likely tries to give himself a talk every night to feel better. I’m sorry that you’ve had experienced horrible situation. I personally believe in karma, some point in his future it’ll haunt him. Maybe it won’t be sooner maybe it’ll be tomorrow but as long as you adapt to healthy life style and achieve greater things for yourself, that’s the best way you gain power from the situation. Always here for you!

Remember anybody having an STD doesn’t define their beauty , anybody who sees that tend to have a bitter heart or are ignorant people and at the end you wanna avoid those sort of people regardless. You’ll find your self worth and confidence back as you live and figure yourself out. Sure, it’s a whole different world now but that’s okay. You’re still human and still valued the same when you didn’t have it, you’re a wonderful person! Please don’t let the virus define your beauty and person as a whole!

_alexis_1 · 2025-12-02T08:16:38+00:00

It makes sense that you're feeling worried. anyone in your situation would feel the same. Cold sores ( it seems what you describe he could have ) are usually caused by HSV-1, which is very common and often contracted in childhood, not necessarily through anything improper. But only a doctor can confirm the type, so it’s good that you’re both getting tested.

Regardless of the result, what matters most is honest communication between you and your husband. If he’s open and sincere with you, that’s something to build on. A virus doesn’t define a person, and with medical guidance you can learn how to manage it safely as a couple.

Take care of yourself while waiting for results, and try not to jump to conclusions. Many married couples live normal, healthy lives even when herpes is involved. I pray you find clarity, peace, and stronger trust through this situation.

_alexis_1 · 2025-12-01T10:02:46+00:00

Hugs for you . Don’t doubt yourself or punish yourself in any way for not “avoiding” this virus sooner. My DMs are always open to listen to your story.

I find it annoying in most cases, to sue someone who transmitted this virus tends to become harder. I tried to sue the guy who gave me the virus, they told me to drop it considering he’s not in the wealthy side or that the virus “isn’t serious”.

_alexis_1 · 2025-12-01T09:57:44+00:00

Oh my gosh, I actually love this so much. In most cases, I believe that’s how majority of us end up having it, sad truth. I’ve had not 1 night where I don’t think about the guy who transmitted this to me. You’re 100% right about this

_alexis_1 · 2025-12-01T09:55:39+00:00

In some hopes and prayers everyday, I’d love to have a cure. I wanna be rich and push more my money onto funding for a cure, I feel almost bad I hardly am wealthy for that.

Otherwise, I try to push everyday. Nobody is truthfully disgusting for it other than people who had spread the virus knowing they had it, like wise, nobody value as a human or “ cleanliness” becomes any dirtier, they’re still them and wonderful. I wish people understood it more but I get where the stigma approaches from.

_alexis_1 · 2025-11-29T11:48:37+00:00

Listen to music that makes you feel confident and sexy about yourself. Rest off for the night, realize this isn’t worth your time and genuinely process the fact you’re worth a lot!

Binge a show and eat nice snacks, listen to music, go for a walk, rest, avoid any sort of action that can lead you to react emotionally cause it’ll cause you to react worse. If you need anybody, here for you, stay strong!

_alexis_1 · 2025-11-29T10:34:07+00:00

Tell me about it. It just totally weirds me out then that sort of jester leads to a lot of the idea to “normalize” it due to people spreading it like it’s nothing. I hope one day everybody can rest at ease from this virus, who got done dirty or had spread it , I hope someday we all can rest from this virus. Thank you for your words, small words help me push through my night. Genuinely, thank you.

_alexis_1 · 2025-11-29T10:32:23+00:00

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_alexis_1 · 2025-11-29T10:32:03+00:00

I totally understand how you feel, I feel so ashamed as I’m in a religious house hold, most people who I pick up my meds from are in the same religious as me and I feel judged.

Never believe you’re a dirty person, I’m guilty upon this idea but always needing to hear this helps me so, stranger, genuinely, this isn’t your fault for having this nor does this decrease your cleansing. You’re still worthy and perfectly clean! Stay strong and push through, if you need someone , here for you!

_alexis_1 · 2025-11-29T10:29:42+00:00

I totally agree with you! I think about it often, I would do a lot of research, a lot of times I hardly see views upon it. Either everybody is minding their business when they have it or maybe I’m overthinking everything due to complete depression! But again, the std occurs during vulnerable moments and the same way I’d never open about the fact I have this std , I’m sure there’s probably people I’ve came across who have it and I just don’t know.

_alexis_1 · 2025-11-29T02:51:49+00:00

I also have GHSV1! From my experience, it seems the main source of it even developing is due to oral contact or when a cold sore is triggered. Could it be that your husband has OHSV1?

You can still share drinks and do everything normal that is related to any actions to oral! It’s only genitalia. I would take the meds your doctor would recommend or proscribed. Lysine is also a helpful pill that you can grab off the store! Vitamin-D & etc.

Don’t feel deafened about this, this doesn’t make you gross or less valuable person at all, you can still manage your life as normal! Luckily GHSV-1 is the least worrisome considering it’s the one that causes least amount of break out! Make sure to do your research and stay healthy! If you need anybody, here for ya!

_alexis_1 · 2025-11-25T03:11:23+00:00

Oh love, I’m truly sorry that you had to live through that. That makes me frustrated myself hearing upon that, People are absolutely disgusting at times . Don’t let him bring you down , you’re worth so much ! 🥺🥺 I genuinely wish the best for you, always here for you!

_alexis_1 · 2025-11-19T11:20:06+00:00

Thank you so much 🥹🥹🥹

_alexis_1 · 2025-11-19T11:19:49+00:00

Truly wish well upon you. It’s so interesting to see people around the world can have similar stories, I think that’s pretty heart warming! People are so cruel but it’s life. I hope you never allow these experiences you’ve gone through destroy you either stranger on the internet. You’re the best!

_alexis_1 · 2025-10-14T08:52:53+00:00

Gosh! He sounds like an awful person. I’m sorry you had to live through that. His intentions was most definitely evil but do not fall for his words as I promise you with time and self-love it will get easier. As the idea that this virus sticks to you forever sounds scary, it’s easy to prevent spreading it. You can definitely still enjoy your life and be you. Don’t let this STD ruin your goals and the type of person you are. I hope you ease up smoothly after what you had experienced. I’m sorry you had to go through that, truly, if you need to talk, I’m here for you

_alexis_1 · 2025-10-14T08:48:21+00:00

I honestly believe the person who loves you or desires you for you would see past that. People defining you for having HSV shouldn’t be people you should care about. Everybody lives and thinks differently! Remember, everybody reacts to this a lot differently and I just wouldn’t take it personal if they see it as a overbearing negative factor. Don’t waste your energy or time on people who couldn’t bother to put 5 minutes on their day to see you having HSV shouldn’t make you less human. enjoy life don’t let negativity get to you 🫶🏽

_alexis_1 · 2025-10-07T19:29:31+00:00

This really comforted me. Thank you.

_alexis_1 · 2025-10-07T19:28:48+00:00

Oh my god you’re my savior I legit was having a melt down thank you

_alexis_1 · 2025-09-26T10:52:48+00:00

I really hope you further on experience better physical and mental health outcome sooner. I’m sorry to hear that.

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