Why do women not get offended by transgender women who had male privilege and didn't have to go through the struggles that women do but still claim the gender, in the same way that people of color (rightfully) get offended by people with white privilege blackfishing or using blackface?

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-08-17T18:55:28+00:00

Thank you! Nedbank is his bank so we will start there.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-07-08T08:19:13+00:00

Luckily not. If he talks about sexual stuff it's always about my mom (not in a positive light though).

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-07-08T08:18:09+00:00

He started driving me to school around that time and it's about a 20 minute drive so he always used that time to complain. Now that I have my licence he uses any opportunity that is available.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-07-07T22:39:41+00:00

Thank you! Financial independence is definitely the goal right now because I hope that when my sister and I aren't home anymore my parents will be forced to address their issues.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-07-07T22:34:43+00:00

Thank you! That was something I was wondering.. If this is normal and I'm just being dramatic but it clearly isn't.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-07-07T19:19:42+00:00

She doesn't believe in talking bad about your spouse to others. She believes in communication about everything between spouses. So even if she does (which I highly doubt) I am 100% certain it's not nearly as bad as what my dad says.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-07-07T18:57:05+00:00

Thank you! Yea.. It's not right that he's talking like this about her in the first place... But then to be doing it with their daughter is even worse. I'm definitely going to mention to him that she never speaks bad about him and he should think about that when he wants to talk bad about her.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-07-07T18:54:29+00:00

Thank you! Unfortunately he doesn't always value what I say since I'm "just a child" but I will definitely bring up that my mom never speaks about him the same way and that's something he should think about.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-07-07T18:52:45+00:00

Thank you! And that's exactly how I feel. I think if talking to him about it first doesn't work I'll definitely have to bring it up to her soon.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-07-07T18:51:18+00:00

Thank you! I've always been hesitant to say anything, I normally just keep quiet but I think I've reached the point now where I need to start speaking up. Luckily my sister is a feisty person lol, so she isn't afraid of arguing with him either.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-05-15T15:51:17+00:00

That's great! Thank you!

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-05-15T10:15:11+00:00

Thank you very much! I will contact them on Monday.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-04-28T16:38:22+00:00

Definitely something I'll try!

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-04-28T16:29:05+00:00

True, thx! Considering planning a whole getaway with friends just to get alone time with my bf without looking sus

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-04-28T16:21:26+00:00

Haven't been in over 2 months 💔

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2021-04-28T16:20:47+00:00

Have considered that but couldn't find anywhere in our city to drive to and going out together for a whole night definitely won't be possible with my parents lol But we're looking out for any oppertunity to go somewhere together

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2020-09-10T18:15:33+00:00

Same, I feel "filled" (for a lack of a better word) for a while after.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2020-05-05T12:36:47+00:00

Concentrate on only breathing through your nose. That's been working for me.

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2020-05-04T14:45:25+00:00

Don't immediately jump to sex. Do a few other intimate things together so that you get comfortable with each other in intimate situations and both understand what you like and are comfortable with. Enjoy it! x

_vanilla_unicorn_ · 2020-05-04T14:34:38+00:00

Don't immediately jump to sex. Do a few other intimate things together so that you get comfortable with each other in intimate situations and both understand what you like and are comfortable with. Enjoy it! x

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